Being bitten by a vampire is, to me, a violation of my personal integrity and since I am a fairie, also a violation of my Second Life life style. It does not matter if this affects my avatar in any way. It is a symbolic act. If a person comes up to you and describes, using words only, how he raped you, it is not affecting your person. It still is a violatin.
What would prevent a 'gaming system' were you raped people instead of biting them? They will never know so what is the problem? Well, the problem is that it is a violation. It does not matter if I get to KNOW that I have been exploited or not. I still have been exploited and that is the key evil thing with the entire gaming system called Progeny.