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Guku Aabye

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  1. I was wondering Do you all think that Second Life is less sociable now than before?
  2. I agree. I know no one is perfect at that all the time. But once we practice day by day it does get better. And things seem to go along smoother with others then. Are you willing do that with others?
  3. I agree ladies get IM's like crazy from so many people in SL. It's always been like that. And I know it drives ladies crazy. I know I wouldn't want that in SL all the time day in and day out. It would drive me nuts. I don't blame you putting your busy mode on. I would do the same if I kept getting IM's like crazy like that
  4. I am wondering why you put High expectations on others? Maybe if you lower your expectations of others and live in the moment then there would be a chance people would start talking to you etc. I would think. But if you have all these high expectations of others and there not doing what you expect them to do then yes you going to be angry at them and then angrier at yourself. I mean only you can change yourself how you handle situations around you. I mean if you want to be the way you are that's ok. That is, you. Only you can change yourself. No one else can't change you.
  5. Let’s all be mindful on this forum we are here to talk about the topic if second life being sociable now than before. We should not be slandering other people’s profile in this discussion. Let’s keep it respectful please.
  6. I am a firm believer that our experiences and interactions are solely what we make second life to be. We cannot depend on other people to make us happy. To be honest I think if your lower your expectations in people replying to you, your experience in second life would improve. People have their reasons why they don’t reply and if they don’t just move on till you can find someone that wants to engage in a conversation with you. There are lots of things to do on second life. Maybe self-reflect in yourself what you want second life to bring to you. Second life is no different than real life, because behind every avatar is a real person. Sometimes you have to do allot of digging to receive that trophy. I do wish you the best in second life and hope you soon find a club or group that you can click with.
  7. Well, if you're riding a motorcycle. It's hard to respond to IM's while riding. If you're riding a motorcycle by yourself, I suggest maybe put yourself on busy mode. That it's totally up to you.
  8. Well, for me when I message someone, they may have their busy mode on sometimes. And I may never get a response from them at all. Because they may have gone to RL or might have fallen asleep. And sometimes the next day I don't even hear from them at all. I try not to take it too personal if they don't respond back to me. Most of the time they do
  9. Oh, I agree with you can do all of that and more. But for me I like hanging out with people. I am a very sociable person. It's not really fun doing the things you listed by yourself. It's more fun with one person or a group of people.
  10. I know for me I'll get in a group call with people sometimes. I don't mind that. But I do like chatting one on one as well.
  11. That is true about clubs. And they do make people feel comfy. I know when I go to a club I get greeted from the host and I get greeted from others in the club.
  12. I know clubs are very sociable and greet people as they come in. But the people on your friends list. Do they socialize with you sometimes? I know for me it's not like it used to be.
  13. I agree with you. I rather talk in IM instead of local chat. I may sometimes get in a group call with others. But I do prefer one on one chat.
  14. I agree it's not less sociable in clubs for me. I always get greeted from the host and the people in the clubs. Sometimes so many people say my name in local. Like I said where the less sociable for me is the people on my friends list. I mean I do make new friends but then like the next day I try IM them and they say they are busy, or they don't respond at all. But some of my friends on my friends list have been responding to me and wanting to hang out. Like I said I do believe it's coming back to Second Life the socializing like it used to be.
  15. Well, I am not sure what clubs you go too. But my experience of the clubs I been going too everyone greets everyone in local. And they chat in local to each other. But as far as being less social for me it isn't in the clubs. It's more like the people on my friends list. Some do respond to me when I message them. But some people on my friends list don't. I remember back when I started the people on your friends list would message you when you logged in. But now it seems like they don't anymore. Like it once was. But I do believe it's coming back.
  16. Well, when I go to a club. The host always greets people when they walk in, and people talk in local and do gestures. They have fun. I mean I been to some clubs like you said where no one is talking in local. Some people may be afk. I do message people, and some may not respond right away but they do after a while because they go afk and do RL around the house
  17. Well, for me I think it's coming back slowly. I notice a lot of old avatars are coming back. Some say they always been around. But will Second Life come back with the socializing like it used to be? I think it is slowly and will come back like it once was
  18. I agree with you that people change. But I think the people in Second Life have changed. Not like how it was before. Like I said before when I started Second Life you would be hanging with one group of people and then IMs from others wanting to hang out. I just doesn't seem like it's there anymore. Like it used to be
  19. Well, when I talk with some people in Second Life. I ask if they have Discord, and some people tell me they don't. So, we just chat in Second Life or voice chat.
  20. Well, if someone needs to get a hold of me. They can either send me a notecard or send me an offline message in Second Life. I would suggest you tell them that if they keep annoying you like that.
  21. I agree with you also that I do miss things how they were in Second Life. But I do believe it's coming back in Second Life. Like how it was before.
  22. I agree with you. I think there are less people in Second Life. Because when I started in Second Life and added people to my friends list it seemed like there was a lot to do with the people on your friends list. Like go do things with them etc. But I do believe that part of doing things with people on your friends list is coming back and even the people you just meet as well.
  23. Well, some do respond back to me when they are on busy mode. Not always but most when they come back from busy mode. Because some people on my friends list have their avatar's set on busy mode sometimes. Or if I see the person that wasn't on my friends list somewhere at a place, I'll message them again and they respond. So maybe some do check the person's avatar and maybe they check mine as well. I am not sure on that one.
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