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Embera Bloodrose

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    Some people have nothing better to do then bash they are not happy in real  they should go learn to love learn to love others . They come to the forum because it's their only way of their childs play   because they can't do it in real life but if it was in a world or chat group  they would be asked to leave or  for trolling and bashing and acting  like a 2 year old gets old after a while.   Know's ones perfect in second life some are still growing but some really need to  grow up  and get some therapy.  

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  2. 🎄Christmas is coming maybe Santa will send you that convertible. But in sl there a lot of freebies and hunts their are ways to make money like fishing and collecting crystals or quest .   . 🎄 Marilyn Monroe - "Santa Baby"

     

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  3. Well people vanish they can't do the job for the relationship/Friendship/Business or they have insecurities or don't want to hurt the person feelings they are not ready for that kind of thing or they have a lot of fears they think someone else will fill in the gap for you. These people are still trying to find them self's it happens in Real and Sl Just understand it not your fault they have their own things to take care of. The new ghosting is now Benching  something you have to be careful of also they lead you on you know hear what you want to hear but never go out in public or take you out or only in private and vanish and come back. This why friendship or anything is earned not given out like candy Don't go by words go by effect.  If they are hiding something and the some thing comes up in conversation they vanish then you kinda relies the truth use your gut feeling it will tell you. You don't have to friend everyone you talk to you give them your calling card from your inventory if you don't wanna deal with collectors then they vanish cause something came up or they may not feel they don't fit in there are more people out there. People come and true ones stay my list is very small. 

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  4. Update was made to eBody Curvy and Classic 8.6  

    in world http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Coral Island/235/155/2001

     

    Read the notice in group for help with the hud and updade 

    eBODY STORE and update at the redelivery terminal:
     

    Introducing new products:

    eBODY NON UPDATABLE CLASSIC and CURVY. These are the same as full versions but will not be updated. Available at the eBODY STORE, cost is 900L.

    We are making clothing in store starting with Julia Shorts

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  5. Have to remeber the simpler times of Single  in both no baggage no kids I enjoy being single I don’t open judt to a yone been reserved.  love is rare it's takes someone special to really wake it up. Everyone here for somthing online turn to dating you can’t find someone walking down these  steet like back in the old days.   Virtual world in world is new dating. Love , Romance, Conversation, Good connection, On the same page. 

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  6. Age is only a Number and 37 is is still young older age. Truly it take man who can understand you. Beacause your serious I have seen her around she a nice gal she Looking for real why is that rare Some want to vanish that. Everyone comes to second life for somthing If they are looking that up to them who want to enter. Voice and cam conversation can help both mannerly way. I’m 34 but look younger older are looking younger these days. She will open up as trust is earned and the heart not Just give it. Im one those looking for real but Im gonna stick up for her she got the guts maybe more Should make more post  looking for real some peoole ate shy. Here a  picture of me in real Just cause someone in thier 30s get to know them you may be supriced that age has nothing do with it. Gota get in thr mind and coversation love is rare it takes someone special to wake that up. 

     

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  7. ? ?Time and place for it but truly its how far you want to take it with that person both ways in that mode in between role play and outside of it.  Communication  in that trust of role play how far you want to share with that person as of them and agreeing on things and limits. I mean its virtual world you make it what you want you create that happiness get in the mood of role play visualization the right energy and connection. But it up to you and those who you role play with some things don't have to go so far what you agree on if you want it to be real or role play like a movie a good actor has to play a role then when its done they go back to there normal life.  Everyone may have their own option but you may have to open more doors. Know one is perfect its what is in the mind and the soul how you carry it value others and yourself be positive but have boundaries. But role play is  made up so its a fairy tale  but you make it as real as you want it.  But unless others want to open more of their real that is up to them some things maybe but not everyone is going to dish it all out trust is earned not just given. Be what you want to be its Halloween.? ?

     

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  8. Things you need to know about BDSM.

    Talk to your partner first:
    Having a conversation prior to your first encounter is much better than just showing up in leather with a riding crop in your hand.

    With power comes responsibility.

    BDSM relationship must be built on trust, knowing that your;e dominant will be there to take care of you in the end,both physically and emotionally.

    Consent & Communication
    Having forceful sex with someone is not BDSM. Both partners’ consent is required in BDSM. BDSM doesn’t have to hurt. Isn’t all way's about whips and chains and handcuffs. There are no rules. It can also be painless and sensual.

    Safety is the highest priority.
    BDSM world involves a lot of a lot of spanking hitting, typing, hanging, etc.So it’s a good idea to take precautions along the way. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.

     

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  9. On 9/11/2018 at 8:51 PM, Phorumities said:

    Aren't you at all concerned about the possibility of missing out on opportunities to meet someone in RL and have a RL relationship?

     

    That is up to them what they want to in that conversation. But if someone wants real the others not its good not to mess with a  relationship allow someone that can meet in real you can all way's be friends. Truly I could not wait around for someone or even years game is all fun and all but meeting in real is being willing and committed and upfront not being lead on. People can be what they want but you can't mess with people's emotions or feelings once the trust is broken it can never be.      • Its rare to find love the person you maybe looking for is not on this planet its take someone special to wake that up. Someone who can really have deep connection in the soul and mind. That connects on the same page and criteria.•-

  10. 16 hours ago, Respectful1lady said:

    Dreamerra,  thank you for your words, what you describe is exactly what I am looking for . Again thank you 

    Yes vanilla means plain more as missionary style but those that choose not to live 24/7 as why I said time and place your lady by day and vixen by night live your life normal during the day and when you come home your D/s style. It may be soft sensual D/s not so hard BDSM.

     

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  11. Yes Vanilla has nothing to do with it but those that choose not  to live it not 24/7 more like time and place and soft D/s people go to the lines taken in hand 1950s lifestyle and D/s meaning they may only do things as soft and sensual not really all in the kinks list. Yes its complicated. As I said time and place you know you live your normal life during the day vanilla then when you get home you can be the D/s vixen everyone lives it different. People that are really in to it D/s are more hardcore. I give advice advice in real and live it many people have diffren't titles you don't have to go by labels you live how you want it. 

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  12. I Understand people have there own each of there own can be what ever you want in sl but if there looking long term good to be upfront but you can't force someone . If you feel to be safe them do a cam and voice verification but truly this is a virtual  world unless your going real then you would need to talk about that. But you can't force someone there someone for everyone many fish in the sea . Some like to keep there identity in sl how they want it there people that like to keep that way but if comes to more things are built in trust. If that what they want so be it.  There are dating angency's in world.

     

     

     

  13. Dating places inworld : {Kindred} ::Connections of the Heart::
    Drawn To You Dating Agency
    Actually Love Dating Agency
    Mate Perfect Matchmaking & Dating Agency
    Gemini Dating AgencyMingle - Dating Agency
    Second life Connection
    Daddy’s Babygirl Adoption House and Hangout
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  14. I will put it this way for you. Yes there is a time and place for it you can still have vanilla side and D/s time. I live a 1950s lifestyle taken in hand with D's in real you have to also live your life as well as there time for D/s and vanilla. When your looking for long term or looking for a mentor yes you start vanilla like as dating and build in to it but you will all way's as your normal like and D/s. Really it whatever you make it. BDSM is built with trust and bond like marriage where you are open you find your wants needs desire. •Dominance is not about control over a submissive. Dominance is about leading and the submissive following. These words have been said thousands of times by thousands of people. I have been in the lifestyle 17 years I did go real with my Dom in the path lasted 3 years on my main we meet in sl then meet in real I travel back and forth. Love has to build that two people are on the same page. BDSM is really not all about sex its more then that. Physical attraction are common. But a genuine mental connection is rare. Intimacy is about trust making an emotional connection many confuse it with nudity don't. Sensual Dom's and Sensual Sub's are soft romantic kind that is some what vanilla with D/s. But the thing is you have to be really open have mind set to D/s  this means being upfront both ways people don't have to tell everyone but when you find the one when they earn your trust and heart both ways. Someone will want to get to know you take you on dates get in your mind not your pants. Even being human in D/s ether someone is sub,Master , slave people have to be treated equally and treated with respect. BDSM is not about pain its about trust. If you do not feel conferrable about something speak up having a mind is good and someone that can understand you learn you protect and guide not abuse. He looks at her as though she's the only women in the room. He protects her as if she's the world most valued treasures. He respects her because to hurt her would hurt him that much. Don't train your submissive, teach and empower them! It's not just about sex. Don't get me wrong Sex is  great. But when you have connection with someone. When you feel so strong for someone. Just a kiss is a enough to make your knees weak. You just can't beat that.

    Sex is truly not everything romance and passion but intestacy not all sex Hold hands. Not mindlessly, but really hold your partner’s hand. Be forever grateful to be able to intertwine your fingers with theirs, skin against skin… feeling the heat that your hands create together… feeling the powerful intimacy created from one simple gesture..

    Gotta have connection with communication and romance even in relationship. If its all sex its a two way street you have to date someone like you first meet them and spice it up.

    Their so many words to say it. 

    The leaders Job isn't to have all the idea's it's to make sure all the idea's are heard and that the best one wins. -Chris Hawker
    She doesn't crave vanilla love she craves to be touched with Intent Intensity,Ingenuity, And Indecency.( meaning time and place for everything.)

    Protect,Her Guide Her, Respect her, Grow her, take care of her, treasure her, lead her, be the man she needs she will be the women you want.

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