I'm really busy rl so don't spend much time on SL. For this reason I like to chill out on my land on my own, it relaxes me.
I think it's rude to send a tp without so much as a hello it really grinds my gears. It's so presumptuous of the other person to think I'd be interested in just dropping what I'm doing and tping into who knows what drama.
I've found this to be the case on the few occasions I've accepted the invite. One in particular stands out when I seemed to find myself in the middle of a volitile argument (on voice) and I was stood there like a lemon, cringing inwardly. Men and women going at it, cursing at each other, it was awful.
Never again! The busy /unavailable response is a handy tool 😂