I'm sorry I cannot help you, but I know one thing, You need the actual "things" Lolas=big boobs that you buy. And the woman I tried to ask who owns the product thought I was begging when i asked for some advice. They don't understand that with out some help at the ground level, it's totally confusing. I recommend finding a nice person who is wearing some and ask them. Sorry, Good Luck.
Frustrated like you.... Thanks a lot, Lola