Thank you Charlotte
While not really a solution it is a very effective and simple work around because other then some of the nicer jewlery (that will still be a problem) and those incredibly anoying Gashca items, almost nothing is transfer these days
(Believe it or not I have been in SL nearly a decade and this is the first thing that has frustrated me enough to actually post about)
Was hoping for a solution but I feel a bit silly for not thinking of that work around myself