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  1. thank you I have tried to make a #RLV folder , and added outfits I must have made a mistake somewhere as my master could not get the clothes to go on. I had made sub folders


    perhaps that's the problem,?

  2. Hello all , am back after been gone for months, have a master that requires i make folders for him to use to change my clothes. i have the RLV enabled, wear his collar ( he is owner)


    but even though i have researched this subject i still have no luck on setting this up.  i have been deleting thousands of old non mesh things in my inventory, down to just under 10,000 from

    over 25.00 in hopes i can create folders i can find, and allow my master to control my outfits. As he demands



    i am not a slave, but a caring submissive lady with class, Just want to do what is right here



    appreciate your help , Thank you


  3. Hello again Czari

          What a wealth of information you have supplied. Thank you!


    I don't have time to fully respond, but wanted to say how much I do appreciate all this information.


    And the fact you own VKC dogs :smileyhappy: So good to know someone that has

    Them and enjoys them. I have spent time at the parks ( more so in the past than lately)

    And just adore sitting and petting them. Once I met an avi horse that was  buying a dog. We did chat and she used voice, and I found out she is like myself from the south. We didn't become friends, but I did enjoy discussing the VKC dogs with her.


    I had the impression I needed my own home before I could buy one. In  RL I own a dog and am an avid dog lover  having one in SL would really add joy to my existence while in world.


    Sending you a smile with thanks!:smileyhappy:



  4. Good morning Czari

           How nice of you to offer help, thank you! I will try to go in world tonight, and if you are in

    Will send an IM. I did try late last night to add to my "picks" and couldn't find a way to accomplish this.


       As I sit here thinking back, :smileyhappy: smiling to myself, you are right, the men that asked

    Me to dance as a noobie, were after more than just a dance. I let them know right off "hands off" and once even poofed away.

    I did make one nice friend ( taken but very helpful in the beginning). He helped me learn

    So many things and I am grateful for his help. Seems I have met a couple of really nice men

    But they were both taken. Just tried to help out a noobie.


    Hope to find you in world as I do want to show what I enjoy in SL. So that others will know I

    Can be a fun loving person.( with a serious side as well)


    Again, I loved that vintage look. Last night I tried on so many skins, shapes, hairs etc

    But, found I prefer ( so far in my search) my own shape, did find some lovely skins that I



    Since my RL has its demands on my finances I hate to keep spending money in SL


    Until I know I fit in.

    BTW, what is your opinion on becoming a premium member?  If I had my own home

    I could get a Virtual dog. Something I have wanted since I joined SL


    I thank you again for all your help, wishing for you a day full of happiness



  5. Well hello Czari,

      what an interesting and nice note. Btw, let me add I love that look! Where did you find such?


       I find your opinions very concise and helpful. And, I do thank you. The strangest thing about my time in SL is that in the very beginning with my first ( purchased) avi, I went to ballrooms and was  always asked to dance. :smileysurprised:


    That is why I wonder now that I have a much nicer avi I can go and no one asks me to dance.


     So, I have stopped going. I did think of digging into my inventory in search of that first formal that seemed to get men's attention.


    Concerning my profile, I have added many things in the area of interest. Are you speaking of the "picks" ?


    Somehow I can't seem to add anything new there. Help appreciated please. How does one add picks ?


    Not sure how The Botanical Gardens was added. I do stay there and use as my home. ( since I do not have one )


    So, please advise me on how to add to my "picks" and I'll be more than happy to fill that in.


    Today, I spent some time trying on new shapes and skins. But decided I preferred my own shape ( at this time anyway, with more shapes to try on yet)


    I do love your 40's look, quite nice. Since I love the big band era music. If you don't mind sharing the store you purchased such a nice avi I'd love to try one on.



    Thank you and have a wonderful night:smileyhappy:



  6. Hi everyone:matte-motes-bashful-cute-2:


       since I last posted that note,,,,,,,,,. Well, that ended rather quickly


    So, back to just finding new friends to hang out with and explore with. Other things

    That are fun in sl.


    I've just given up frankly on finding anyone special. Will leave that to those equipped

    For this reality.


    Ah, to be what I am and not what I am not. ( perhaps no one understands this except for myself)


    Off to the RL world. Where I am considered an upright citizen and very proper.


    That may be my problem with SL ... :smileyfrustrated:


    Thanks to all that have tried to offer advice, leaving this off from now on



    Have a wonderful day



  7. Ren

        With a smile :matte-motes-bashful-cute-2: I have to admit something, just tried on some demos of

    Some very curvy avis........... Not me!  So, I'll keep the way I look, she is to me rather pretty and not  built that badly if I may say so.


    You are also correct in the type of men I seek are not after a body, but rather someone with a good sense of humor, a caring soul, and someone fun to be with. All these things I do possess.


    BTW, thanks for making me smile :matte-motes-little-laugh: A quality I do possess...........



    Have a great night, taking time off to enjoy some time at home with friends



  8. Hello Ren,   

        I totally understand what you are saying. When I started SL, I wanted to project a true

    Lady one that while pretty, did not have that tramp look so many here have. Perhaps I went

    Too far and created a lady that gets so little attention she is lonely too often.

       I do have one dear friend that has told me several time he finds me "hot". And that I should not try to please anyone but myself.

    Sadly this dear friend will be gone most of the summer and does not take SL seriously. It is a game to him ( well it suppose it is a game to be sure) For myself I find I can become real

    Friends with people and SL could be much more than a game .. I am doing my best to be open and honest with those I meet here. To be that lady that will both show respect to others, and in turn be respected.



    I am in a dilemma somewhat as to what I should look like, as some of the nicest ladies in SL

    Do have a very sensual look, and not one  that shouts "I'm a tramp" but rather turns heads

    When they walk in a room.


    I know my clothing lacks a certain look and my body is rather slim in areas that men prefer

    More rounded. In the past I did pay someone to tweet my avi, but still do not have that

    Look to grab attention in a room full of lovely ladies. In otherwise, I don't stand out.


    Some could be due to my lack of body proportions, and some due to my clothing.


    I am looking in the marketplace for new mesh clothes and hair. Perhaps a demo shape or two.


    Just want to meet new friends and enjoy my time in sl not just spend that time shopping alone. Or exploring the many Sims alone.


    I do understand what you are saying and I do appreciate your help


    Have a great night




  9. Good morning Amethyst

         Thank you for your words of wisdom, I have accepted too  many friend request from men

    That after the first day just never say "hi" again. Even when I send an IM. So, I do after a period

    Of time drop them from my list of friends.


        Concerning being my own "self" , you are correct. I have tried to be someone I am not, and that doesn't work for me. I do want to update my clothes, get more mesh clothing and hair

    And perhaps a better shape. While I like my look, it is not equal to yours nor some of the other

    Ladies that have sent me messages.  Seems I need  a more sensual look. ( compared to you and some of the other ladies, my look is not as good)


    My look is rather thin compared to yours and another lady friend of mine. While alone last night I did try on some new shapes, but none had pretty faces. That is very important to me


    Well RL is calling me again. But thanks for your advice.


    To everyone have a great day in world or in RL



  10. Well hello squashy,


        Thanks for the kind words of encouragement. Like your way of  looking at things.

    I'm staying out more than in for awhile, but am in with a new book club that starts this

    Sunday. With hopes of that being something I will really enjoy. ( love reading in RL)


     I have made a couple of new lady friends, one gave me the name of a new store to buy

    Mesh clothing. Oh for the love of shopping in both worlds, right ladies!


    Enjoy the night, :matte-motes-sunglasses-3:



  11. Alicia


         Let me apologize, as I am not one to say things unkind to anyone. I re-read your comments, and realize you are just saying what you see in my posts.


         I am not one to pass judgments on anyone, nor say harsh things. ( well unless someone really abuses me )


    So, with a smile to let you know I hold no hard feelings. And, hope you do not judge me harshly will say have a wonderful night.


    I have been invited to a new book club so that is something I look forward to in SL


    My kind of thing, where I can dress modestly and feel good about myself.


    Yes, I do have issues with self esteem.( in SL,  not in RL)


    Quite an adjustment for me, but I will survive.



    Thank you for your honesty,



  12. Hi Czari


            For once I'm at a loss for words, to express my feelings. Will say my avi is not one of those huge boobs, nor big butt ones., She is rather normal in size being perhaps too thin if anything. But, I like the way she looks. I didn't want my avi to look like a tramp. But, a lady. Which I am in RL.


    Taking time to digest everything. Back to work.


    anyway, thank you





  13. Hi Squashy,


        well, many times I do wait for others to IM me, but there are times I will send an IM

    Myself, then if ignored  and no reply will not say anything else.

    This happens with those on my list of "friends", not sure why people want to be friends

    Then won't IM me back, even to say "I'm busy now".  Very puzzling to me.?


    Still trying to figure this whole thing out. What I am doing wrong and what I should do next.


    Thanks, Liz

  14. To everyone that  has sent replies, thank you!


         As I sit here trying to absorb all your comments ( much appreciated ty), my thoughts

    Go to where do I really want my SL self to go? Soon I will be taking some much needed

    Vacations in RL.  These will add some excitement that I do need in my RL. (Travel to be exact abroad. )


       I so wanted to fit in and enjoy my fantasies, some I just cannot in RL. My standing

    In RL will not allow such fantasies.


       Now, my fantasies may be tame to many in SL. But for my usual reserved self they

    Are wild. ( we each have our own set of dreams, fantasies, none of us are alike I suppose, what may be my fantasy, would not be someone else)


    And,, to add  to some of you that have expressed how I wish to change for others.


    You know all my life I have been one to do for others instead of myself. Some have even

    Said I let people run over me ( RL)That I don't stand up for myself


    My nature is a nuturing one, as is my work in RL. To care for others. Not thinking of myself


    When I care for someone it is with all my heart and soul. So, that came with me to SL


    I have tried to be true to myself, and found it did not work



    I could never wear what some ladies do, so when I say I am changing my way of dressing,

    Believe me it is not wild to the extreme that many ladies wear.


    Perhaps I am not meant to be in SL. That I should give more of my RL time to help others

    As our world is truly in need. Of compassionate people.


    And, it is true I do not wish to hurt anyone, and do try to be polite to all even when I disagree

    It is just who I am.


    So, not sure what my next move is. Will check out the stores given by some of you here


    And the sites given also;


    To all a wonderful day, may the sun shine down on each one of you today!



  15. Thank you Marigold


      You are a true lady, and I do appreciate you kind words and help.  Will be checking out the site you gave, wish me luck


    And I wish you more free time inworld.  RL is calling me now so I have to go and play with my doggy. The news has been to sad to watch here in America. Another reason

    I came to sl to get away from the RL issues.


    So darn TV stays off ... :matte-motes-smile:


    To all a great night



  16. Dresden

     What a nice man you are,, thank you. Since I posted this I have tried to change my outfits

    And did not like the people that wanted to "friend" me. Not my type at all. Rather funny when I think of all this.


    And, on the relationship thing, you are so right. Just want to find some friends to hang out with

    So I won't be alone.  Believe me after a few bad judgments in both RL and sl, I am not looking for a close relationship in either world.


    Being hurt in whatever world is not something that brings joy. Rather pain


    So, off that subject. And onto life. It is getting late in RL and my doggy needs me


    Thank you



  17. Oh Czari

         I fear I've given the wrong perception of who I am and what I want. You see from the start

    Of my sl time I was true to my RL self, a very proper lady. In fact too proper,so that is the reason I decided to give sl a try. To allow myself to let my fantasies out. Well, that seemed to not happen, I remained the conservative lady and was mostly ignored. I thought my outfits were

    Pretty, not at all sexual. But, I've had several gentlemen tell me I dressed as they said "vanilla"

    I didn't stand out. I did go to nice clubs, but just stood there unnoticed.  I have been told my avi is very pretty, so not sure what the problem is unless my gowns were too tame.


    If I can't find some fun/for lack of a better word, I will give it  all up. Having spent many lindens inworld I just wanted to try another approach.


    I am not one to do sex Sims, no way. Just looking to get out of my rut, as you see I stay

    To myself roaming the man lovely Sims ( alone is not fun)


    So, I will not change who I am, but need to do something to enjoy sl. I do not seek men

    Not anymore. Just good friends to explore with and chat with. So many things to do but when alone, they cease to be enjoyable.



    I am so glad you have a wonderful experience in sl. Being yourself. What you describe would have been my ultimate delight. It just has not happened for me.


    So, I have to move on and do things in a different way, not talking about being a tramp

    But as someone that might be seen. Instead of being invisible


    Hope this makes sense. Would you want to spend your time alone?  It really is not enjoyable. Believe me.



    I am still the same caring woman I have been from the start. Just wanting to enjoy sl

    Instead of being ignored and invisible



    Thank you for your remarks, I value all



  18. Syo


       After being either ignored, hurt, told I needed to change my way of dress etc

    I've concluded two things : 1 either just get out of SL  2. Totally change what I am looking for


    Since I have spent too many lindens to just give it up ( at this point in time) I came to the conclusion I have to make some needed changes.


    One being to stop looking for anyone, just to have some fun.  And, to change the way

    I dress, where I go , and what I want to get out of this virtual world.


    Was going to just stop playing, then thought what the heck, give it one more try


    I have met a couple of nice people, that when they are in SL I enjoy being around them


    Not romantic at all, But, a good friend is worth so much in both lives.



    So, today I'm looking for new clothes, not expensive to be sure and some excitement


    How many times does a lady need to be told she is invisible to get the message?


    Well this one has had enough of that and is moving on



    Does that make any sense?


    Have a great day, real life is calling


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