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  1. Hi all, I'm Saki 29, Central Standard Time (Canada/US) and I'm looking for a new Bestie. When I say new, my last bfriendship dissolved like almost 2 years ago when she went through an identity crisis and switched from Domme to Sub in the game, starting over with everything including a new bf. :( It just kinda happened, one day I log on and she's distant and it only got worse from there so yeah. It's been 2 years now, but I have realized that I can now take on a new friend without the baggage of how my last friendship ended. I can honestly say a new friend is a new friend, and it has nothing to do with anything and I have waited long enough that I feel I can trust someone again. The thing I miss the most is voicing or texting but both must be at least an option about our lives in SL. We used to sit for like an hour every week at least and just have a therapeutical chat that ended up being a ritual, and I didn't realize how much it helped me to just be able to level with someone until I didn't have it anymore, and then I just couldn't find or didn't know anyone else I could talk like that to. Friends like that just don't fall into your lap so I guess I'm using this forum to just put it out there... I'd really like a bestie again. I need someone who: Understands if I have to log off for a week or two- I'm a student and sometimes I just gotta get busy Is grounded Is a female preferably (and plays a female in world)... or a gay male :) I wanna be able to girl chat and not worry about eventually my bestie trying to become more than friends, etc. etc. Obviously not everyone who replies is gonna spark it off with me... some energies just don't flow so easily, but this is a start and I'm willing to give everyone a chance if you think you can be ok with my time zone and all. Thanks guys for listening! <3
  2. Hey, well I'll tell you what I always wanted in an SL house... I myself build a bit but don't want to take on my dream home till I'm really good just to save lots of unneccessary (sp?) work. But in a house, I would pay to own a beautiful home with a courtyard in the middle. That means the house would be build around a courtyard with a pond, a waterfall and fish, a sitting area and cobblestone, little flowers creeping through the stone... I suppose some of the small stuff would be layed down by the new owner like the flowers n stuff, but just so you get an idea. Several enterances from the c/y into the house, and the walls around the c/y glass so I could enjoy a aqua-lit pond at night... take care
  3. Hi all, maybe you can help me understand why I'm having this problem... I'm a normal girl, easy going and friendly. When I first came to SL about 2 years ago lots of people wanted to help me get settled, and now I realize that the new people in SL are given the benifit of the doubt that they'll be appreciative and un"jaded" as they're like little babes that need direction in a big, new world. I myself now help mentor new citizens in sl. However, now that I've been around for a while, noone approaches me for friendship unless they want the usual... sex or lindens. I try saying hi to people and they give me an attitude or blow me off... I get the feeling most people think if I'm saying hello just to be friendly and hoping lightning will strike and find me a good girlfriend that I can talk to and hang out with, that something must be wrong with me since I've been around for long enough to have found people by now. You know... that dead silence, raise-an-eyebrow feeling you get saying hello to someone that has their guard up? Don't get me wrong, I've had close friends in the past but they phased out of SL either to come on only every month, or left completely. I have so few enemies I could count them if I were a double-hand amputee. So what's the problem? Why can't people jump in head first to get to know someone? Is SL that full of snobbs that you have to put a month of time in religous commitment to a new friendship for them to actually take you seriously? Sorry if that offended anyone.... Also, it's impossible to find a good guy! Again, I'm not a stalker, I'm not a needy chirping little birdy and I'm not about to come ringing your doorbell RL, but as a mom and a student I wanted to find an outlet for my love and affection as I never have time to go out, SL is the perfect answer but darn, where are all the good guys? Maybe my standards are a bit high, I have a top-of-the-line avatar and I'm ready and willing but they're either all taken or live in a mirrored toiletpaper roll and only see themselves as Gods of SL. So here's to you mister hot, not creepy, can form a sentence and can make a woman feel like a woman... if you ever end up single, hit me up cuz I need a good guy! >sakinan resident< but just call me Saki ;) And to you girls, ring my IM... I need some friends or I fear I'll be leaving SL for good! :( Take care everyone! ♥
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