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Leia36

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  1. Beautiful Freya, thank you for sharing :heart:
  2. OK then, Here we go Hiya Vick *waves Its wonderful that you have decided to experience the world of M/s and I wish you and yours the best of luck. I will walk you through a typical day of an SL slave. The first considered act of my day is to message my Dom and talk about the day before, his expectations and what we will be doing alone and together that day. He also paces me and we discuss our relationship very often. After that I usually do half an hour of slave paces which are floor movements combined with a meditative time followed by the paces themselves. Thinking of him, our love and how my service can be more beautiful and graceful. Through out the day RL I will do whatever tasks he has set me as best I can and log in at my normal time to await him. When he is offline I may go where I please and talk to whom I like and dress as I like. There are a few sims I avoid, not because I am denied, rather that those sims are inappropriate. When he arrives I usually TP to our red room and assume the bracelets position while we exchange greetings. Then we may go dancing, or just chat, or have a scene dependent on his mood. We use a multi scene rezzer that keeps prims down yet allows for scenes to be quickly changed. Towards the end of the evening we usually cuddle and chat in voice or just typing, dependent on RL circumstances. That's the part I love best, the bonding between Dom and sub, we share many mutual interests and our chats are lively and fun. The foundations of M/s RL or SL are trust, love, respect and consent. Its your job as a Dom to build up your sub to a point where she is completely honest and serves your interests before all else except her health. When she comes to you and admits to wrong doing that you would never have found out on your own, then she is beginning to learn her collar. Mistakes, errors, bad judgment, and bad behavior will ultimately always happen, she needs to learn that she wears your collar and people make judgments about you based on her actions. Her job is simple, serve you with her very best, displaying the grace and beauty that you, her Dom, deserve. That's the part of M/s that so many have misconceived ideas about.This is about both of you making each other happy, sharing your time together and enjoying the journey together. I have included my rules, RL and SL, I have obeyed them for a year now and I probably will for the rest of my life. You see, he made me write them, our expectations matched. 1. To keep her in perfect health for him 2. To always place Master's needs in front of all else, except her own health 3. To obey Master, in all things, unless it jeopardizes herself 4. Enjoy your slavery 5. To represent Master in all things. To hold his honour high, so that all may see His love and devotion
  3. Syo Emerald wrote: Anika, this thing is well...the last post was from 2012...and even that was kind of a necro-post. Damnit I just typed a long reply *sighs......... oh well :smileysad:
  4. Sephina Frostbite wrote: Dresden Ceriano wrote: Storm Clarence wrote: If you are ever given a cigar as a gift and you do not like what it reprsents please pass it along to me. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Considering their level of paranoia, I wouldn't be surprised to find out that the OP was smoking something considerably stronger than just a cigar. ...Dres I would think if it were stronger she would be more relaxed She would stress out sloth by every indication.. *shrugs not my problem
  5. Leia36

    GOR newbie

    Your first and best option is the Gorean Welcome Centre.. Then join the forums.. Idealy having a friend show you is the best way.
  6. LOL HAHAHAHA OP, same thing happened to me a year ago, now we are looking at going RL together, your rage is funny and ridiculous, live a little, this is SL, what ya got to lose?
  7. It took my Partner 6 months before I answered the call. I see this so often, a guy barely a day old wanting to sex cam over skype. THINK with you big head buddy, sexing as a female is opening yourself up to all kinds of issues, its a bit like going naked in public. Sure some girls are comfortable but most need reassurances that its MEANINGFUL.. Get me? ETA Prolly not
  8. Perrie Juran wrote: Leia36 wrote: Perrie Juran wrote: When last names were dropped I "claimed" the name Perrie (i.e. I have Perrie.Resident) also and only ever use that account for editing purposes. I am not singling you out Perrie, and I apologize for going off topic, but I have to comment. This was done I believe by a large number of residents with last names and as a consequence people like myself had to chose strange names or names with numbers in them. Eg Leia Resident and Leanne Resident both have rez dates from around that tine and are, I suspect, dormant which irks me. Not much I can do about it though Yes, there was a great 'name grab.' In some ways it shows how much people DO identify with their Avatars: In a generalized way people were protecting their identities. I agree and if anyone is to blame it LL, I think it is one of the most regressive and abysmal decisions I have ever encountered online.
  9. Perrie Juran wrote: When last names were dropped I "claimed" the name Perrie (i.e. I have Perrie.Resident) also and only ever use that account for editing purposes. I am not singling you out Perrie, and I apologize for going off topic, but I have to comment. This was done I believe by a large number of residents with last names and as a consequence people like myself had to chose strange names or names with numbers in them. Eg Leia Resident and Leanne Resident both have rez dates from around that tine and are, I suspect, dormant which irks me. Not much I can do about it though
  10. I have a special friend, her behaviour in SL is a shining light to me. She is the most generous and tender human being I have had the privelige to know and I can only hope to be half as kind and good as she is. She takes my breath away. You know who you are
  11. Firstly there is a very good reason why Giant AVs are not allowed on busier sims, they lag the sim or so I am told. Secondly, here is a website with freebies and hunts, that sim is not the only sim with nice freebies
  12. hmm I limit my SLex to my Husband and Master, yet my friends list continues to grow like its on mushroom compost. Most of my time in SL is spent hanging out with friends yet I do get hit on often enough by guys who think a collar means easy pickings. Generally they stay friends after they work out that I might be available when hell freezes over. In fact my SL friends list is fast approaching my facebook friends list in terms of numbers. Come visit us in London if you like, its one of the most popular chatting sims in SL, sex is not allowed in that region and the chat is (mostly) mundane if interesting. London City
  13. Its a touchy subject and one I am quite familiar with.. nvm.. are hugs allowed on the forum? *hugs*
  14. Tex Monday wrote: Leia36 wrote: Gor is, after all, a philosophy and while it can be lived to an extent, it is definitely not for everyone. Gor?? Is the OP in a Gorean relationship? I don't honestly remember her saying that at all. If she is..then she has no right to complain about anything that's happening to her and I take back all the things I said before..... Apologies, I seem to have misread what Vegro Solari wrote
  15. I know where you are coming from, I understand that lifestyle very well. Thing is it requires a VERY strong relationship to weather that particular storm, The man needs to be in absolute control of his self and exhibit a great deal of character for it to work. The women, too, need a large amount of character and resolve to be able to be happy and fulfilled in this kind of relationship. Its possible and it can be a beautiful thing but its not for everyone. Gor is, after all, a philosophy and while it can be lived to an extent, it is definitely not for everyone.
  16. I know a few couples that have successfully transitioned to RL. I also know quite a few, myself included, who have serious long term relationships here and want to go RL. The trick is to take your time, you sound young and that is both a good and bad thing. One of your biggest challenges is , as drake hinted at, people taking your relationship seriously. Start with voice perhaps, then after a few months, skype her, arrange a meeting in a place where you both feel comfortable. Most women in Second Life feel safer here than in RL so they put themselves out more, much more than in RL, So a certain amount of reticence on her part, about meeting in RL is to be expected. Trust is a very large word and that is the core issue here, you need to win both hers and her parents before you can have what you want. Speaking for myself, this is the single largest decision I have ever been faced with, and being objective about it is hard at times, I have stars in my eyes and I have to keep my feet on the ground. Love is a curious thing, and its the dark times that will tell you whether it will work or not. Marilyn Monroe was quoted saying "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle... But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!" - Marilyn Monroe" Have you seen her very worst? Can you handle that? All the best with your relationship
  17. Thank you very much..its working :smileyhappy:
  18. I am trying to get Absolute Radio from the UK to play on our parcel, however, it doesn't work. Keeps blocking with a message saying something about not being in the UK. I spent some time searching in Google but I came up dry. Strangely, however, absolute 80s is currently playing on a friend's parcel, but she can't tell me how she got the IP address. Can anyone help? I would like the IP address of absolute radio, Ideally. Thanks
  19. OK for once I am going to politely exit stage left, I have been here before and don't need it again. Have fun you guys.
  20. I agree, Its not acceptable in my opinion. I made a thead about something similar last year and got flamed, the thread ran to 13 pages with a guy telling me that its all role play and therefore acceptable, wonder where he is now.. ETA This is the link Child AVs and ToS 2nd ETA After a quick read of my old thread, I am reminded how sensitive this issue is, The things he wrote hurt a lot at the time and I am still quite angry that he got so personal, lets be careful here.
  21. The sim owner takes his time and spends a lot of real money on that sim helping new people, he would never ban a newbie. I know there is a definite process when it comes to bans and warnings are ALWAYS given. The changes to your story show you for what you are. It might interest you, however, to know that he does unban after a period of time, even the very worst instigators get a second chance. I suggest you IM him and ask nicely to be reinstated, and this time leave the attitude at the door.
  22. I am very familiar with the sim and friends with most of the admins, the region is almost always under attack by trolls and griefers and the admins have their hands full dealing with them. I have seen you Johnny and your behavior while not the worst was bad and you got exactly what you deserved. And no I am not an admin of London. ETA You are not being truthful in your OP, you were trolling for a few days. The admins of those sims have a lengthy process they have to initiate before they ban someone. Your claim to have been banned within your first minute is untruthful
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