I hate mesh clothing. Yes, you are exactly right about either looking like a teletubby or a bean pole. Especially if you are a guy. I have a big avi, big butt and legs and I hate how my avi looks in it. Also, it takes all the fun out of the fun of putting together seperates and creating your own unique outfits. So that and not being able to resize are big cons to mesh clothing and I am not impressed with it so far whatsover.