To be quite honest listening to all that has been said on this topic? I find it very hard to express what and who I am when it comes to my submissive nature. Yes I do enjoy switch at times but it has to be with the right person and I unfortunately find myself unable to keep myself from getting involved with my Master. If you 'click' with someone in such a way how can you just detach your emotions? I'm just that.. NOT A ROBOT! So as that.. Life plays its tricks and finding a Master that isn't going to have a harem of women to need to cater to him and be satisfied with one devoted to serving him is also hard to find. Some might call me picky... Or delusional if you will but I call myself practical when it comes to what is good for myself as well.