chou101

Well I didn't want put names down of who . Heck, maybe I shouldn't have put that story down as an example. But yes it's never ok to reveal someone's personal life in a group chat. As i've said before to the other person on here. I did log it and send it the sim owners because I know they don't tolerate ooc drama in the sim (group) etc. But they never did anything about it and that right there surprised me. After that inccident me and friend notice she stop coming around the sim. Shouldn't no one feel uncomfortable or have their secondlife experience ruined like that. I hope she comes back she was a sweet woman.

I'm not sure what you meant by that.. but ok.. O_o

I'm not dragging it, I'm asking a simple question and what people think should have been done. I'm also asking other people how comfortable they feel about sharing their personal life and so on with people millions of miles away. I put that story there as in example of what happens when trust goes over the top. Even with being selective with who you choose as a friend on here. You cannot be 100% sure especially what I witnessed.. roleplay ooc group or not.

yea your right instead of me taking it to the sim owner and telling them what happened. I should have just taken it to linden it would have gotten solved.

nah I'm not roleplayer 2 but I do know her and I can say I am the one who felt bad for her and told the sim owner. Like I said I witnessed the roleplayer 1 posting roleplayer 2's info in the ooc group chat and reported it. It's no one else's business to know her personal life. I know both of them.. matter of fact

How comfortable are you with sharing your Real life on secondlife? Have you ever shared your real life with someone and they used it against you Have your real life ever became a topic negative gossip? Do you regret ever sharing your real life? Have you ever been asked " a/s/l " and felt uncomfortable with telling them? Have you ever got to know someone and then the friendship/relationship not work out or turned for the worse. Have you ever gossiped about their personal life? Or heard through the grapevine they shared your personal life in a negative way? The internet is not a safe place to reveal your real life even if someone simply ask you " A/S/L " Even if goes from secondlife to voice chat to skyping. It could end up being you signing your own demise. Even if the meeting in through simple roleplay. Some people are very vulnerable and easily fall into " I can trust them " phase and end up getting hurt. Here is a story I'd like you to read. And tell what what you think? ( This is something I witnessed a roleplaying group between two roleplayers.) There was once an RP OOC group where people talked about either the RP they had , sports or something else. One day a fellow role-player 1 thought it be justifiable to reveal role-player 2’s personal issues in his/her real life to show others that role-player 2 just wanted others sympathy. Most of the other players happen to be role-player 1’s friends or knew who he/she was. Sadly role-player 1 and 2 use to be friends. Role-player 2 trusted 1 with his/her personal life. Something had happened between the two friends to where role-player 1 started to gossip in the local ooc group about role-player 2. Pretty much everyone agreed with role-player 1 ,That role-player 2 was garbage. There were some who knew what type of person role-player 1 was. And felt bad for what was happening to role-player 2. And those very people decided to talk to the sim owner about what happened to help role-player 2 out. Sadly the sim owner never addressed role-player 1 about what had happened despite the report they’ve received. And role-player 1 still role-plays there. Do you think this was right? Do you think role-player 1 had rights to do that. Do you think role-player 1’s friends are idiots? Do you think role-player 2 is an idiot for trusting role-player 1? Do you think the sim owners should have done something about this? You be the judge.

I would not be surprised if LL turns secondlife into a pay to play thing because of creepy griefers, hackers and stalkers. But to my knowledge didn't they restrict the amount of accounts on one e-mail? Even so that won't help because they can easily make another email account and sign on secondlife.