Desertway

Seems like it may be just the luck of the draw. I have only been on SL for about a week. I have been popping in and out of all kinds of environments, intentionally and accidentally - music clubs, new user clubs, beaches, SciFi sims, art galleries, sandboxes, etc. Sometimes I am ignored, and sometimes folks are very nice. I have witnesses a bit of "raunch", but only by willing folks, and none directed at me. Keep exploring. Try "Caledon", very adult (in the way you want), with a lot of information for us newbies.

You all are amazing. I spent a lot of time yesterday playing with sliders and clothes. I'm starting to get it. All the advice is really appreciated.

Thanks for all the quick replies. I have only been on SL for a few days, and maybe an hour or two total. I'm not at all ready to build my own avatar, though I would love to do so in the future. I have browsed the marketplace, and nearly every complete female I see is super-curvaceous, and the clothes that come with are mini dresses, lots of cleavage, or skirts and halters, etc. The alternative seems to be goth or formal Victorian. The sort of thing I would like is rocker chick - jeans, boots, vest or jacket, shaggy hair. I will keep looking. Thanks again.

I'm very new to SL and I would like to use an avatar that is not so girly, a little more rock and roll and a little less revealing. The only alternative I'm finding are very formal, Victorian style avatars. Can someone make a recommendation for a shop? Thanks.