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Today at 10pm SL time my partner could see me online and also on radar. In real life i was not online.It was showing to him that i was at our home in a skybox, he tried to enter 4- 5 times but would not allow him to enter. I was showing online in his friends list also.. Before you ask also.. nobody knows my account or password..

i see everybody with their name tag in brown, i see mine in color, but they see mine in brown.This has been happening now for over 2 weeks,anybody know why this is? i am using phoenix 1.6

each time i start phoenix viewer, it's bringing up a second page with lots of data running, and i cannot shut the page down, if i shut down the page, it logs me out of second life??