My avatar should be a tall man, but for the last 3 days it has been a short naked woman. I try to change the shape back to a man, but get a message that I cannot change shape (or clothes) until my clothes have completed downloading. I am only 20 days old, and do NOT have many clothes. I wanted for 2 1/2 hours and still get this message. Others have given me things to "deruth" and they do not work. So far I have spent around US$80 in SL (for membership, AO, new skin, shape, hair, etc.) and now I'm stuck like this? ALSO, I was lured into SL with the promise of "FREE LAND" (512m), but NOWHERE can I find how to get it. This was just a false comeon, wasn't it?! No one I've talked to knows anything about Premium members getting free land (512m) - just free houses (which are not very nice.) Can anyone help me with these two things? Thank you.