Soa Bellios

Ok this is really frustrating for me because it's bad for my business as an avatar modder/texture artist. I can't give anyone permission to mod my objects in world, because if I check that box and then go to click on that persons name on my friends list, I can't do it, and it keeps prompting me to give them mod rights. If I check the invisible box or the map rights box, I can no longer click on their name from my friends list and IM them. And if I relog, everything goes back to the way it was. Is anyone else having this problem? I don't know how to file a support ticket, and calling linden labs was obviously a failure. I swear don't they ever keep track of anything anymore? I'm losing hope in these guys. Honestly.

Alright, why can't I choose a name I want to use when making an account? Say I want to use the name Vanessa, yet the darn thing keeps telling me that name is taken. I miss the old account creation where you could choose a first name and then a last name from a list. Can someone please help me with this problem? I really don't want to added stupid and pointless numbers and symbols to the desired name I want to use.