Q: I'm not going to add to the comments above about the relationship with people who are trying to give you feedback. The many, very well-written posts have expressed the situation perfectly.
I will however comment on the technical matter of UI options, because I believe that you are almost entirely wrong about this. The issue splits into two parts, presentation and implementation.
PRESENTATION
For a user, options only introduce complexity and confusion if they are presented randomly or illogically, and without any means of self-help. Even a small number of options can be badly