after all that still nothing and i've tried everything i could
so finally i just unlisted the item and will be posting to my groups that for now it will be unavailable in marketplace and that if my new products are wanted to go to my inworld shop and contact me for deliveries of gifts and marketplace is just too unreliable.
I have been doing this since 06, i've never had a problem with market place till the last few months and trying to list new items seems to have failed at every turn.
nothing is showing or delivering, nothing i do to force it to work is making it work , resetting, forcing updates, everything available to me has been tried again and again.