Dano Seale

As I'm newly returned and in a "Billy-no-mates" kinda situation I guess that makes me a prime candidate for a "for emergency dance partner- break glass" role. Even though I'm poor, I won't charge. My guy isn't the best you'll find on SL because mesh and BoM are totally new to me but nobody has yet IM'd me to say "haha, you look like a t**t!", so there's that. My wardrobe is currently extremely limited...due to being poor. On the bright side, as I mentioned in my original post, I can't afford a new appendage because...I'm poor....so everyone would be totally safe in that respect! Can't imagine anyone being so lonely, bored or desperate, but meh...the offer's there if required. Also, I tend to lag a lot in large crowds as my PC is crap due to being...yeah, poor. I guess being in Sweden while everyone else is in the US won't help much either due to time differences? Wondering why I wrote this now actually! Must be my 'knight in shining armour' personality, lol. FML *sigh* On a side note: It's a well established fact that threads that contain 3 or more Americans, will usually veer off tangent towards food/cars/insurance, kind of like how the 200 commercial breaks during a football game does! It's ingrained in the American psyche. 😋

(Time to stop lurking!) Ok, my opinion for what it's worth as I see it. A) Rhonda has a partner on profile - that can be an instant "yeah, nah!" reaction. Nobody wants the hassle of said partner turning up and the s*** hitting the fan! It can also be a lot more work convincing/seducing a woman that already has a partner and let's be honest, most guys are all about sex in SL! B) Rhonda is tall, don't know how tall but over a certain height, say 6'5" and upwards, the suspicions kick it that she's driven by a man! Many guys in female alt's often forget or just refuse to drop their girl to a respectable height and it tends to be a warning sign (along with how many times the word "lesbian" is mentioned in their profile! but that's just my way of scanning a prospective 'possible for sex' partner). I know if I see a "partner" in there I'll generally move on to someone else, whether that's for sex chances or just pure people/avatar watching. Maybie, on the other hand?...No partner on profile, probably blows into a club throwing herself around the dance floor like a little blonde ball of pre-sexual tension! lol, I don't know how you play her but maybe you use her to just 'blow off steam' or a release from whatever Rhonda may have been doing? She's short, sexy and blonde and looks more approachable IMO, even though myself, I'd focus on Rhonda more if I saw them out together...but then, yeah, that 'partner' thing hmmm....! AmandaKeen's post gives a perfect example of the (average) male mindset, in life as well as probably in SL. Her first pic' - looks like 'Nora', editor of her college newspaper, active feminist who doesn't give BJ's because she's vegan! But...she also gives of a slight impression that maybe, just maybe, you're reading her wrong and with a few drinks in the right setting, she could turn out to be a real tigress! Below her is 'Daisy Duke' (was my teenage crush lol). Gorgeous, sexy, stunning. Looks like the next big thing in porn who just hasn't moved to California yet to be "discovered"! A real "dream girl"...who would terrify 9/10 guys thinking of asking her to dance! Beautiful avatar and possibly the same in RL personality wise (not speculating elsewhere). …..And yet, I can't help myself scrolling past her to the blonde, jiggly boobed funster below her! Moral of the story? - Blonde's have more fun! lol. *Disclaimer: My original sojourn into SL was back in the dark ages of 2006-08, where all that mattered was dancing/stripping to earn 'spendables'...and sex, with whoever, wherever! I'm only recently back in game after an 11 year break ….and a much changed man. My opinions here are based on the experiences of my original avi', along with my newer penchant for just 'people watching'. The complexities of discovering and dealing with "mesh" and "BoM" along with the cost of a new, updated "appendage", has destroyed my SL sex drive! Damn shame I say, however, I stand by my two main points - the visible on profile 'partner' thing and possibly your height, is what I believe is putting most people off.