Nearly every time I log in now, my shape appears female to 1 other user (not always the same one). I've never worn a female shape, and it never appears like that to me, but frequently my partner sees me as a female, but nobody else does. Or I'll be at an event, and one of my friends will see me as female but my partner does not. I've cleared out all my shapes and reloaded to no avail. It's very strange.