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Kokoro Swansong

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  1. Of course, but we both know people want to be liked by others and if looks and clothes can help they will use both to get new contects. Clothes and looks do send messages. Lets not be naive about that.
  2. I have an elven Avi, but i m not fat enough, i fear... i ll go eat nutella
  3. I like Clothes that are very classy and you could call them modest or decent, i guess. I was using SL since the very beginning. Had a long breac 12 years ago and made a new avi for a frash start. With my first avi i feel that i was in a trap. In SL, this is my opinion, you get ignored very much, if you wear something that is not showing some skin, or/and you dont use a AO with erotic movements and poses. So my solution was to be sexy and use it to get in contact with more people. I say it is a trap because it really just made horny guys IM me (about 95% i would guess) and well, it was pretty normal, i think. The look is the first thing we can see on people. We dont see the good charakter, talents or mindsets. So we all define people by the way they dress. And thats ok. Now that i m a real adulth i dont midn any more that many people wont talk to me, i just make the first step and i found a lot of very nice friends. Another thing is, you see many people shop at the same stores. You got stores with very sexy clothes and they sell good. My favorit store of all time is Tetra and that store has modest but very stylish clothes. In the end... i think if people would get positive feedback about clothes they would choose more differant styles. I would love compliments like. "Hey, i like your outfit!" Many people on SL want to be seen. They want to be the colorful Dog in a room and turn heads. Sexy clothes do the trick most of the time. I know girls who would tell you they only ever had someone comment about their clothes if they wear something *****ty or even something straith offensive. Isnt it sad? As a woman i look at guys most of the time and if i like an outfit or a style i ll commpliment them, because i know it feels good! Maybe we all shoudt, the next time we log in, make a promis ti ourself to commpliment someones outfit every time we log in and make someones day.
  4. There is! just type Tolkien, or lotr into the search and you ll find it.
  5. I was also very surprised. But, really... thank you for checking and telling me about the other forum.
  6. Hallo, ich suche Gleichgesinnte, die textbasierte Rollenspiele mögen und Lust haben regelmäßig an solchen teilzunehmen. 1 bis 3 Personen wären Perfekt für eine hübsche Gruppe. Dies hier ist mein bescheidener Versuch Gleichgesinnte zu finden und ich freue mich über jede Nachricht. Ein paar Informationen zu mir: Ich schreibe sehr gerne und viel. Ich passe meine Postlänge der Situation an. Leicht komme ich über 500 Worte. Dabei schreibe ich gerne mehrere Hauptcharaktere und natürlich auch Nebencharaktere (die von anderen mitbenutzt werden können). Gegen den Einsatz von Würfeln und Punktetafeln habe ich nichts. Schließlich soll eine Rollenspielwelt vielfältig und überraschend sein. Mit mir ist täglich zu rechnen und ich halte mich gerne an Verabredungen zum Spiel. Was Themen angeht bin ich für vieles zu haben. Mittelalterliche Themenwelten, bis hin zu Scifi, die wir uns selbst erdenken sind mir am Liebsten. Oder vorhandene Welten, ob LotR, oder doch Mass Effect? das können wir gerne besprechen. Verschiedene Kinks können bedient werden. Auf eine Romanze bi ich nicht zwingend aus. Bitte melde dich bei mir, wenn du genauso gerne liest und schreibst wie ich.
  7. Thank you, Dear. I ll do that. Didnt know there was a german part here. But also had good results here. Many germans are lurking in the dark ;) and two of them wrote IMs directly in world to contact me.
  8. Hallo, ich suche Gleichgesinnte, die textbasierte Rollenspiele mögen und Lust haben regelmäßig an solchen teilzunehmen. 1 bis 3 Personen wären Perfekt für eine hübsche Gruppe. Dies hier ist mein bescheidener Versuch Gleichgesinnte zu finden und ich freue mich über jede Nachricht. Ein paar Informationen zu mir: Ich schreibe sehr gerne und viel. Ich passe meine Postlänge der Situation an. Leicht komme ich über 500 Worte. Dabei schreibe ich gerne mehrere Hauptcharaktere und natürlich auch Nebencharaktere (die von anderen mitbenutzt werden können). Gegen den Einsatz von Würfeln und Punktetafeln habe ich nichts. Schließlich soll eine Rollenspielwelt vielfältig und überraschend sein. Mit mir ist täglich zu rechnen und ich halte mich gerne an Verabredungen zum Spiel. Was Themen angeht bin ich für vieles zu haben. Mittelalterliche Themenwelten, bis hin zu Scifi, die wir uns selbst erdenken sind mir am Liebsten. Oder vorhandene Welten, ob LotR, oder doch Mass Effect? das können wir gerne besprechen. Verschiedene Kinks können bedient werden. Auf eine Romanze bi ich nicht zwingend aus. Bitte melde dich bei mir, wenn du genauso gerne liest und schreibst wie ich.
  9. Hi, i m RPing (or if you want you can call it emoting) in Sl for many years. I know its not popular to say this, but the bst way to learn how to write emotions well and in a beautiful way is... to read books. Sure you can take classes in emoting, but its very likely you ll end up just writing the same lines again and again. By simply reading you ll get to know differant styles of how emothions can be shown in text.
  10. Hi, i m looking for Roleplay too. Maybe IM me, i ll answer as soon as i m logged in
  11. I started doing RP before even knowing what SL is (pen and paper or just email with a small group) and i was very happy that Sl got a big community for RP as well. Please note that before SL, in small RP-groups, we all had more than one characters and we used a lot of NPCs to support each others story. Soon i learned in SL many ppl dont like that. It was very irritating to me. Sometimes i wasnt even able to understand the problem, because english is not my first language. NPCs were called cheating (even if they were niot used to be nice to my characters), Backstories were called stupid and also cheating if the people involved in your backstory are not online to prove you are not lying. I also like to write a lot, and i m fast with typing. Noone ever had to wait longer than 10 Minuts (i rp shorter in small groups and do as they do). I saw that many were easy to anger if i would do things they did not expect of me. Other ties they were angry because i did NOT rp the same way with them again. They did not believe in building a character and that actions change a character. In one rp my character was beaten up by another one, all fine. The next day of course my character would try to hide from that woman, and she got very angry and asked me what i dont like her any more. That brings me to the 2 worst things in RP on SL (and outside of SL) - Thinking the Character I RP is ME. Countless times i was asked in IMs if i m horny in rl and if i want to RP erotics now. By men and women alike. So many times i had to explain that just because my character is friends with someone, doesnt mean I am friends with the player too. If my character is angry, mean, or even deathly, NO Its not me in RL! - Being unforgiving if someone makes a mistake. I ll tell you the wirst thing that happend. As i said my first language is not english and i used a proverb wrong. In english it sounded very sexual and i had to explain later that was not what i was talking about. The people involved became very very angry with me and even banned me from the sim. At the time i was much younger and this really did hurt me a lot. I see such things happening a lot. People want others to be perfect and not deal with someone that makes mistakes. Like maybe someone isnt happy with how her/his character is ending up in a bad spot and asks for help to rp out of the situation. Suddenly many ppl (even some who dont know what it is about) call them whining and cheater "just deal with it!" "Go end yourself". All such things. With such behaviour many groups on SL eat themselfs.
  12. Maybe the Mama alpha Group will help you with the best information. That group uses a hud to simulate the menstruation cyrcle and a lot of ppl are roleplaying pregnancies and doctors apointments etc. I know some ppl useit forroleplay reasons. others use it to calm themselfs because they are pregnant in rl too.
  13. I understand what you are trying to say. AFK Places are fine with me. They are very clear any every woman knows what she is getting if she stays at such a place. No hote. BUT it was my house and my furniture. I do not have to restrict myself with the type of furniture (and a lot of time you dont have PC AND adult buy options). I wont restrict myself in sl. Its not the middle east. I have to be sure, with a man in my friendslist, of a civil country, that such things can not happen. Even if i would be sitting nacked at a bdsm toy. bdw it was a chair from "what next" very cute and none sexual.
  14. Cant argue with the designer for wanting to earn money. I m sure they would lower the price if they see ppl are not buying. I got perky and i m very happy. Even thinking about buying the original too. The hips are very differant from my maitreya body. I dont know about the designers past, to be honest. I m slow with gossip on sl. Anyway i like the ***** of perky a lot. I m in love. Sure i wish more clothes would fit, but i m sure new stuff will come up and since i wear mostly clothes that dont show cleavage a lot many of my old clothes still fit. With BOM even more is possible. Right now i have a lot of fun with this mesh body.
  15. I m proud of my family, my country and my race. I can still love you, if you are not part of any of that. If i get disliked for that i wont hate you for not talking to me. Only thing that is important to be is if you have a good character while talking to me, or if you are talking to be with mean words. I was called every bad name in the bood allready. do ppl think that makes me like them or thing good about them?
  16. it happens... sometimes its just litle things, nothing serious, but once... The last time was with someone i considered a friend. He made all kind of avatar looks. last tme he dressed up as a dirte fat man (one that looks like stealing children with hin van) we had a chat at my place and ended up sunbathing, each of us had a chair. I excused myself to be afk for 1 minut but as i returned he jumped my avatar and started to talk sexual, touching my avatar and stuff. I honestly was just shocked. i never did anything lie this before, but i banned him from my land, removed him from my friendlist and blocked him. In my many years on sl this was the first time something like this happend.
  17. Aint most ppl on sl at least the color of yummy caramell? I dont have a problem finding Places at all. (I understand that if you are very specific about what you are looking for it can be hard, but asking around can help too. If i want to find i lesbian place for only slavic ppl who like chocolet pudding for breakfast i m gonna have a hard time) And its about you if you want to bring out sex or not. PPL have allways been very understanding if i tell them i dont want to have sex or talk about it. I like to hang out at many lesbian places. But i refuse to be part of the lgbt comunity. i feel they use me like a pet or shield to feel good or justify stuff they do. Also i dont want white bored women to tell me to check my privilige. we are all adult here and we can talk like adulths. Lets judge a person by his or her character and not the looks.
  18. Maitreya was my first Mesh Body and i bought Legacy Perky days ago. I m honest, i had to do side by side pictures to see how its differant. Legacy had enough god things about the body to make me buy it. True, i m sad that not a lot of designers have clothes for perky, but they are coming. For some clothes i just switch back to maitreya :) In general i dont think its nice to complain about prices in sl. You dont need to buy it. its a business and i m sure legacy will lower the price if its needed (seems it is not, because they are selling good enough) In the end i m very happy with the body and i m thinking about buying the original legacy body too. In the end it is about us having fun on sl :)
  19. it just sounds like a rl restaurant that asks you to wear formal clothes. i dont see the problem. nothing racist or silly stuff. Calling it something like that waters real bad stuff down
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