Sorry to hear it... though it sounds like you didn't need a neko blog, but a cyberpunk blog. :-)
I don't know if this will be helpful, but I've done three cyberpunk stories so far. The superheroes story probably didn't have much of what you were looking for. Hopefully you found this story:
At the end of that post there are some stores that might carry the types of items you are looking for (though to be honest, I've not seen super sleek feminine parts very often). And hopefully the store slurls are still correct (SL stores move around allll the time!)
In particular, I'd suggest GrimBros (you need to wander around to find the stuff), BlackHeart, Oralune, and BJD Belial Japan Development is a good cyberpunk parts store.
Good luck... if you find some cool stuff, I hope you'll share! It's about time I do another cyberpunk story. :-)