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You have no idea what I know. Maybe researching emotional maturity could be part of your learning. You could help build resilience in others by working on the arrogance used to try to convince others that your views are the only correct ones. That is if you truly are in SL to help others find ways that work for them. Your chanting and praying only help you. Hanging out in SL with people who don't think like you might also help you discover that there are a lot of happy ways to cope that would never work for you, but are just as valid. Instead of thinking that a book you read has all the answers for everyone you could grow in your views... which builds resilience. If you think being a griefer and a troll is a healthy way to exist in SL...if you think destructive types of defenses actually benefit a person in the long run...then I do know what you know (or don't know). I hang out with lots of people who are different than me, and I accept them. What I won't accept is somebody advocated something destructive for others on a public forum (as you're doing here). It's quite odd that, after I didn't accept your suggestion, you begin to trash me totally and paint me with a wide brush. That's not a good way of arguing, Cinnamon. If you think your theory is right, just say it, and let me agree or disagree -- totally trashing another and say they NEVER agree with anyone is a distortion and an unfair way to argue a point.

Speaking of Vikings . . . We were talking about Vikings, right?

You have no idea what I know. Maybe researching emotional maturity could be part of your learning. You could help build resilience in others by working on the arrogance used to try to convince others that your views are the only correct ones. That is if you truly are in SL to help others find ways that work for them. Your chanting and praying only help you. Hanging out in SL with people who don't think like you might also help you discover that there are a lot of happy ways to cope that would never work for you, but are just as valid. Instead of thinking that a book you read has all the answers for everyone you could grow in your views... which builds resilience. I am not discrediting you. I am pointing out that your views should be bigger to encompass more thoughts than just your own.

Oh well 😿 Thank you @Persephone Emerald.

They are only negative to you. Bullies get rewards for their behavior. So do griefers and trolls. If there was no emotional reward, it wouldn't be fun. You have said over and over and over that resiliency is just what you do for fun. Unless you meant only what you do for fun counts. Your personal view of what is positive and what is negative is only yours. I consider many of your posts to be quite negative. They dismiss every other comment that is not 100% in agreement with your opinions. If not dismissed, then you tell the person they misunderstood the words you typed out. I feel that is a very negative pattern to have in SL or RL. Thinking that only your way of life is the correct one for everyone else (anyone who disagrees with you is sick, or not emotionally healthy) is a very destructive energy to send out into SL. It's divisive here on the forums as well. There are a lot of ways to live a healthy second life. Look beyond yours. You can be super proud of how healthy you think you are, but true health and understanding comes from knowing your views are not right for someone else. That is not only emotional health, but emotional maturity. SL needs more emotional maturity. It's difficult to discuss this with you because you'd need to understand the long-term effects of destructive types of defenses. It's not a matter of me only accepting what I think should be -- it's what psychology says according to much research. Go research it if you want to know more (types of psychological defenses and their effects)...not in the mood to explain it further. I've agreed with those I think have good suggestions for resiliency (there were quite a few amidst the posts trying to distract) and disagreed with those I think have suggestions that won't work........same as everybody else has on this thread. *Unbelievable...you're trying to discredit me because I don't accept that being a griefer or a troll is a healthy way to exist in SL?

They are only negative to you. Bullies get rewards for their behavior. So do griefers and trolls. If there was no emotional reward, it wouldn't be fun. You have said over and over and over that resiliency is just what you do for fun. Unless you meant only what you do for fun counts. Your personal view of what is positive and what is negative is only yours. I consider many of your posts to be quite negative. They dismiss every other comment that is not 100% in agreement with your opinions. If not dismissed, then you tell the person they misunderstood the words you typed out. I feel that is a very negative pattern to have in SL or RL. Thinking that only your way of life is the correct one for everyone else (anyone who disagrees with you is sick, or not emotionally healthy) is a very destructive energy to send out into SL. It's divisive here on the forums as well. There are a lot of ways to live a healthy second life. Look beyond yours. You can be super proud of how healthy you think you are, but true health and understanding comes from knowing your views are not right for someone else. That is not only emotional health, but emotional maturity. SL needs more emotional maturity.

Somebody suggested joining a group of people to increase resiliency, a group of people who are wiser because they're older. Just no. Always take a close look at the individual people and don't assume older is better:

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A griefer does not have healthy self-esteem though, so no resiliency would be built. You might read up on positive vs negative coping mechanisms. Negative ones don't further self-growth -- they do the opposite.

My own double prim parcel is here. Thanks for the list! It means, you get "two times" the normal "Land Impact" / "Prim Allowance" that you normally would for a parcel of the same size.

The Moon Queen made a disparaging comment about the Lion King here, and she is being severely punished by his subjects. That's all. Drama here, drama there, drama everywhere... Please address me correctly, Jay -- I am the Moon Goddess....

If it's a movie, probably comes under artistic license. Depends on the kind of porn too. If the movie is illegal to watch in the USA in RL, it is probably against the TOS to watch it in SL. LL might also claim that you should not be snooping inside someones home with your camera, so you are the one to blame, not the porn movie land owners. Just my opinion here - It's not enforced anyway.

If anything we do for fun and relaxation builds resiliency, the people who really enjoy trolling and griefing in SL are just taking care of themselves. It would be a shame to take their coping mechanisms away, but it's super important for us to encourage their self-growth and help them build good self esteem. If we don't, we are actually the road blocks to their healthy emotional lives. Support a griefer today! They are just having fun and letting off a little steam.

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@Rowan AmoreThe question came up with a large screen TV in one of the rooms in the house. What if porn is on, others can see if anyway, the option turned off doesn't affect objects, obviously just avatars, is it a violation? Seen it before on other land, so wasn't really sure if someone didn't care and was doing it or actually there was an allowance provided you did certain things. I was hoping to find something like "Linden Definition of Sim Ratings" or something to read through. Thank you for the response, I will keep surfing more.

The Moon Queen Goddess made a disparaging comment about the Lion King here, and she is being severely punished by his subjects. That's all. Drama here, drama there, drama everywhere...

Feel good? That's kind of a low bar. Virtually everything meets that criterion. If it didn't, I'd log out and do RL stuff (which I probably ought to be doing anyway). I mean, gee.... why would I voluntarily keep logging into the place for over 17 years if I didn't like being here? You might be surprised how many use SL for destructive purposes. That's part of the reason why I'd like to highlight what's actually here to truly enhance one's life...that's what increases resiliency. I'm glad you don't log in to be destructive though...

I usually make sure that when I walk and a lot of my stands that I use, that things don't clip.. But dances I would think there is no way that even the best creator of them all could plan for as many of those that are out there.. Many dances move the bodies in ways they weren't intended in SL.. Especially when mocap came along and they became more realistic movements.. Sometimes the bones get moved outside of their range..

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Having a worthwhile goal increase one's willingness to be resilient. To be resilient takes work, it doesn't just come. In any case the money made on one's store proceeds must be a great motivator for you and quite a few other creators I would think. I'm not sure many do it for the money...and for others not ONLY for the money. If you love to create then doing so is a motivator all by itself. No doubt there are those only in it for the money though, but usually it shows...not always but often.

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The same on Archlinux. I download and install firestorm and voice doesn't work. After that i close the game and install multilib/lib32-libidn11 and extra/libidn11 and it solve the problem!

Feel good? That's kind of a low bar. Virtually everything meets that criterion. If it didn't, I'd log out and do RL stuff (which I probably ought to be doing anyway). I mean, gee.... why would I voluntarily keep logging into the place for over 17 years if I didn't like being here?