Tamara Artis Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 I see 20 pages, and 24 friends online now. And allthough I chat with maybe 10 people, I never cleaned my friends list (probably being lazy). I would love to see your numbers:) Maybe to find out whats average now...tnx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer Boyle Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 I have 33 pages and 20 online now. I purposely keep people on my list indefinitely. I never know when I will reconnect with someone after a hiatus of a fewe years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paula001 Goldschein Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 4 pages with 9 online! i chat with maybe 6 people including my partner and alt ;p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linda Brynner Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 Oh, since the day i came (Dec. 2006) I've always been very selective and cleaning my list upon no contact over some time. It really makes no sense to have pages of friends with just a few online and being in contact or active with. Even nice sim owners presenting friendship i tend to accept, but if they remain quiet to me, they also always went. I need to feel a real connection, and a respectful one with joined understandings and values. This results in a short list i agree, but a very active one without any worry of drama or misunderstandings. At the moment 15 remained on my list. 8 online now, all being active with. Last added somebody: 2 in Dec, 1 in Jan, 1 in Feb. Last deleted: 3 this week from the last 3 month's additions because they had been lying, disrespectful or calculative deceiptful (men!). So 1 remains from that period which seems a natural average for me anyway. Disrectful behaviour, showstoppers, upcoming drama, one way contact from my side, a total different interest in SL... poof... delete... It keeps my SL simple and clean with only real friends i truly feel a connection with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Mistwood Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 4 pages, 5 online. I keep my friends list pretty clean, I delete when a few months have gone by with no contact. I will befriend newbies and keep them on the friend list for a few months - after that I figure they have their own friends and know how it all works. There are a few old friends I keep on my list for sentimental reasons - just in case they come back into my life. I do keep calling cards in case I want to find someone again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PudgyPaddy Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 I have no friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamara Artis Posted March 5, 2012 Author Share Posted March 5, 2012 Compared with yours, my list is a huge mess lol But I just wanted to see different numbers, compare mine with others to see where could I put myself... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoiselleErin Teardrop Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 Mine is easy - maybe 15 friends and 3 or 4 online at any given time. A few of the friends are people who are seldom in SL if not never but I cannot bring myself to delete them. Some are just casual acquaintances. As far as actual active SL friends that is easy - three people. I am not into having a bunch of random names on a friend list just for them to be on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Jetaime Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 17 pages with 34 on line when I looked. I do clear out my friends list every few months and eliminate any that I don't have contact with after a few months, unless they are long term clients. I immediately remove anyone that spams, and people that send random tp's without the courtesy of an IM to tell me why. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anita61 Anatine Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 8 pages, 9 online. About 80% of people on that list are buisiness contacts though, there's only 4 or 5 people I'ld call friends and chat with just for fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippie Bowman Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 Oh my! I started in SL in Aug of 06. I have 401 friends! I very rarely take anyone off the list. They have to be vary bad to have me do that! Far out! Great thread Anita! Far out! Peace! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmettcullen93 Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 i am way behind as i only got 5 pages with only 6 friends online. 2 that i reqularily talk to. lol. i could use friends if you all could add me @ emmettcullen93. i would love to get my numbers closer to all of yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoiselleErin Teardrop Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 emmettcullen93 wrote: i am way behind as i only got 5 pages with only 6 friends online. 2 that i reqularily talk to. lol. i could use friends if you all could add me @ emmettcullen93. i would love to get my numbers closer to all of yours. Quality is more important than quantity. I would rather have 2 or 3 good ones than even 1,000 pages of random names. Random pages of friends who you do not know who they are, never talk to them, etc... there is a website for JUST that purpose. It is blue and white and the biggest game in town right now. Think about this - would YOU want to be on someone's friend list when they have 100's already? How much time are they going to make for YOU? Calling someone a friend means something to me. It means I help them, they help me, we make time for each other, we trust each other. Few people in life will fit this bill. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmettcullen93 Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 MoiselleErin Teardrop wrote: emmettcullen93 wrote: i am way behind as i only got 5 pages with only 6 friends online. 2 that i reqularily talk to. lol. i could use friends if you all could add me @ emmettcullen93. i would love to get my numbers closer to all of yours. Quality is more important than quantity. I would rather have 2 or 3 good ones than even 1,000 pages of random names. Random pages of friends who you do not know who they are, never talk to them, etc... there is a website for JUST that purpose. It is blue and white and the biggest game in town right now. u just made my monday so much better teardrop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monti Messmer Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 6 pages 4 online. I do not offer friendship and hardly remove someone. A friend means some to me and is not only a name. Some of the names on my list left SL or be online while i´m not. Actually it´s the other way, i am not online A very few have a lifetime entry because they where special. No wonder people want to login set offline or get annoyed about tons of IMs but with hundreds of people on your friendlist bit of your own fault Monti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tari Landar Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 Currently...16 pages and 6 online. I don't get too many friend requests, but I don't mind accepting them when sent. I don't remove people unless they give me a real darn good reason to-which is a rarity. Even if I rarely speak to them, or in some cases never, anymore, I don't mind seeing their names on my list. There are a few people on my list that have since passed away. Removing them almost seems wrong, to be honest. So there they remain I like looking at the names, and trying to remember(for those I might not speak with often) when/where/how I got to know them and why they are on my list. Aside from the fact that I fully enjoy thinking back on memories, it actually does me a world of good to try. I like to reminisce, it's fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitlin Tobias Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 Oh! 10 pages and currently one online. Makes sense, the majority on my list is from Europe and they are probably at work in rl . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pussycat Catnap Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 1 page - it scrolls. 4 online this morning, unusual. I don't tend to make friends lightly - growing up around gangs puts a perspective of keeping just a few folks close. Never been a Facespammer or Twithead, never picked up that meme of friending everyone. Most of the folks on my list haven't been on in over a year or two... Invariably anytime I accept someone who came to me rather than getting to know them first, they end up being one of those silent friends. But I did for a while pack in a lot of new folks from this while helping them out - and new folks seem to think you have hit the friend button as many times as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamara Artis Posted March 6, 2012 Author Share Posted March 6, 2012 It seems that most of older people keep their list cleaner. Maybe I should "grow up" in SL lol One person wrote about adding people... I would tell you to add me but I would be just a number on your list, I tend to have longer breaks and when I do login its mostly for taking snapshots. One time I thought to make an alt just so I can wander around SL unnoticed, but after my last break seems that all forgot me. Last time I was online there were only 2 people in my IM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harlett Daines Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 I have 12 friends total with about 6 that I talk to a few times a week. The others don't log in as often but I;ve known for them for quite some time. I clear out my list as well. I friend a lot of newbies and assume they either quit or catch the hang of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelsea Malibu Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 Over 500 friends and I just cleaned out a couple hundred. At any given time, I have about 30-40 friends online. The only problem I have is in the alerts of when they log in and log out as it fills my chat window. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harlow Heslop Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 Twenty Seven Pages with Forty One people online! Ha ha! This is a fun comparison Good post! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamara Artis Posted March 6, 2012 Author Share Posted March 6, 2012 hahahaha I bet is crazy to be you! I turned off those notifications, actually from time to time I turn them on but then after a day it drives me crazy so off again lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamara Artis Posted March 6, 2012 Author Share Posted March 6, 2012 41 wooow!, I think you're winning for now haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacki Silverfall Posted March 7, 2012 Share Posted March 7, 2012 5 pages 15 online. Got to go they are IM'ing me...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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