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theilynn wrote:I'd known he was palling around with chicks prior to this, but he never let on what was really going on - the current one has only been going on for a bit over a month, and is the only one he's cybered with and talked on the phone and such... I'm afraid he's even planning to ditch our relationship
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Pixel sex is a poor substitute for the real thing. If he's getting satisfaction at home, I can't imagine he would waste his time with pixel sex.

 

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Yup - and honestly he's never been all THAT into sex (even before SL), and usually I had to bug him about it... and for the past month (about the duration of this affair) he basically stopped giving me any, sex OR affection :-/  I honestly do try.  I'm more upset about his emotional betrayal, i guess, than about the cybering part.  Except he does stuff with her that he won't even do with me.

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If your sl relation relation brings to to neglect your rl partner emmotionaly, not communicating with them or passing time with them, then this is plain cheating.

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I consider that SL relationships can be cheating if you're having an emotional affair or your feelings are genuine. 

Loving someone involves feelings, and if you have real feelings for a SL user, that it is automatically cheating.

There's no difference between meeting someone on the net or exchange text messages with someone else when you already have a partner in RL.

How can you love two people at the same time as partners? 

Would you imagine if your RL partner prefered to share 3 hours a night flirting with an online character instead of being cuddling with you on your bed?  How would you feel? What if they start webcaming, exchanging phones number or eventually meeting in RL? 

 

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cheating is cheating no matter where! if you think second life isnt cheating then you probably belief its ok to just change your name and where a costume in real life and it isnt cheating.  my wife has been having an affair here in second life and I caught her.. now I have to deal with what to do with our 10 year merriage. its obvious that something was missing if she had to run to another man in this game. 

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for you ignorant selfish people who think cheating in second life is not real do some research on how many divorces are using evidence from online sources to determine the out come of divorces.. the courts agree that its really cheating.

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Thanks for the necro. Really appriciate that. Being angry about this isn't going to get you anywhere. people will think what they think wrong or not and there's nothing you can do to stop them really. Getting all angry about it is a waste of time. Necroing threads about this is also a waste of time.

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Maybe your right if your not on the receiving end of this BS but those of us being screwed over always look

for answers. and its DUMBASS like you who try to insult our pain and suffering that continues the BS of second life

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Ceera Murakami wrote:

I'll answer that question with a question:

"Are you a mass murderer if you play first-person shooter games and war combat games on your computer?"

Now, no sane person that I know of would confuse playing a violent game with committing violence in real life. But why is it different if the activity is sex, instead of killing? What is the difference between making a character as an axe-wielding warrior in World of Warcraft, slaughtering all in your path, and making a beautiful maiden in Second Life, and working as an escort, or having a wild romantic love-life? The key question is, "Can you tell the difference between fiction and reality?"

Many people who participate in SL - I believe the vast majority of them - do not see their SL avatars as a direct representative of their real selves. I'm certainly not a three-tailed anthropomorphic fox in real life. My SL accounts are all fictional characters - no more a representation of "Me" than that rambo-style gun-toting maniac you might portray yourself as while playing one of those first person shooter games, whose mission is apparently to annihilate every moving creature that he encounters (even though most of them are other Players). Since I and the people that I choose to roleplay with are of a like mind on that topic, then any activity our avatars engage in, whether sexual or not, is just fiction. It's no more a case of "cheating" than it would be for me to write a steamy paperback romance novel.

Other people seem to think that SL is a glorified dating chatroom with 3D graphics. They don't see their avatar as anything else but a direct in-world representation of themselves. The character may look younger, or more beautiful, or may even have fur and a tail, but to them, that set of pixels on the screen is still "them". That sort of person should not, in my opinion, get involved in any on-line "relationships" if they also have a real-life relationship going. If there is no difference to you emotionally between going to a virtual nightclub and getting romantic with a stranger, and doing the same thing in a real nightclub in your home town, then you're on very thin ice when trying to have both a virtial and an on-line relationship. It's no different in that case than getting romanticly invoolved with a pen pal in another city, and eventualy hoping to meet that distant lover in person.

Two VERY different cases there.

Remember Anders Brievek? a sociopath is a sociopath, no matter the format. SL is not just a game and the question is valid.. you choose to see SL as a game and that is fine, just know that to some it is all too real

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butwad wrote:

Maybe your right if your not on the receiving end of this BS but those of us being screwed over always look

for answers. and its DUMBASS like you who try to insult our pain and suffering that continues the BS of second life

No one tried to insult your pain and suffering (is that even possible?); coming here and calling people dumbasses isn't going to help your situation.  It's unfortunate that your wife has done this to you and quite understandable for you to be upset, but the answers you seek can only be found within yourself and your relationship with your wife, not here in a forum full of strangers.

I wish you the best of luck ...Dres

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butwad wrote:

Maybe your right if your not on the receiving end of this BS but those of us being screwed over always look

for answers. and its DUMBASS like you who try to insult our pain and suffering that continues the BS of second life

Yes calling me a dumbass is clearly proving yuour point isn't it? I was mearly pointing out you necroed a thread (should have started a new one) how was I insulting your situation? I wasn't. You clearly need help if your getting this defensive over the internet at someone who hasn't even said anything to you remotly deserving that reaction. either try marraige counsoling or leave the situation. You'renot going to find answers calling people names on forums (you're not going to find answers necroing old threads on forums either) since no one on this forum is a marraige counsiler.

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Hi not sure if this is the right place to post his but I'm trying to find Gorean role play on here but have had not look finding it 

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