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The guy does sound creepy and worth avoiding in the future.

However, I know quite a few normal, every-day, people in SL (both male and female) who have over their time in SL collected numerous pics of intimate "bits" received from others. Whether foolish, misguided or otherwise, and contrary, perhaps, to the impression given by those posting here, I don't think that the exchanging of such pics is especially rare. Along the same lines, I know of lots of SL residents who (notwithstanding the risk of screenshots being taken and possibly distributed) engage in "intimate" camming with people they have met in SL.

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Mayalily wrote:

If you really like the person and they like you, you just need to say NO that's not my style, so take me as I am or forget about me. 


I was tempted into reading in this thread through, and the above was the most sensible thing I found in a sea of hostility.

Noone else aks, what is the OPs interest in this affair? OP doesn't speak of boyfriend or love, and I get the feeling that the pair did not exchange portrait photos. So ok, the guy looks like a creep interested only in "sexting".

But the girl must have feelings for him, for why would she else be frustrated an starting this thread.

I came to SL to do business, and I feel much like an outsider not playing by SL rules. I object to some things that are natural to regular SLers, for instance the lack in chat of some social barriers that exist in rl.  I play by rl rules.

 

But there are only kneejerk reactions on this thread. The best advise I can give to the OP is be careful. Say NO for now, say you want to get to know each other better. If he is creepy, then you will find out before you allow him to "see" you.

 

To all those that say they would NEVER do such a thing: apparently you have NEVER been in a relationship where it would be a natural step :matte-motes-bashful-cute-2:

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 To all those that say they would NEVER do such a thing: apparently you have NEVER been in a relationship where it would be a natural step :matte-motes-bashful-cute-2:

from the sounds of it you haven't been in one and had a breakup where those pictures end up getting passed around..

ya it's all good and natural step until it's time to get some revenge on her..

thats an RL and an SL reality..

from someone with actual experience in the matter..not just blowing smoke to godwin some thread..

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Tracy Redangel wrote:

 And I've lost count of how many unsoclicited **bleep** pics I've been passed. A couple I kept and passed around to let a few others know they really didn't have much to brag about.


Whenever I get passed one of those, I thank the chap politely, saying , "How cute! It looks just like a real one, only smaller".

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Ceka Cianci wrote:


from the sounds of it you haven't been in one and had a breakup where those pictures end up getting passed around..

 

No.

And I am not encouraging her to do it, so there you go. 

But couples are doing it, and just condemning all these residents as either stupid or creeps, that is uncalled for. You can be burned in relationships in many ways, and this is one of them. 

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DanielNX wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:


from the sounds of it you haven't been in one and had a breakup where those pictures end up getting passed around..

 

No.

And I am not encouraging her to do it, so there you go. 

But couples are doing it, and just condemning all these residents as either stupid or creeps, that is uncalled for. You can be burned in relationships in many ways, and this is one of them. 

ya i agree they are not creeps just for asking...

i think they become creeps when they put pressure on the other person to where they become uncompfy about it..

 

my pictures were not something i had uploaded on the internet myself.. and they were not up close like the ones this one is wanting..

they were from me and someone when we were dating..

he broke up with me for someone else..then he decided to be a jerk when i found someone else..so he uploaded them and some videos as well and then sent out emails and posted links for them in forums he knew i was in..before you know it they were all over the place..

i just think people should think long and hard before they do something crazy like give pictures and things out to strangers..

because if someone we know will do something crazy with them..someone we never met in rl will be even more ruthless i would think if they happened to be upset and holding something like that in their bag of tricks..

mine pretty much faded from the net by now..it's been almost 8 years ago.. it takes a long long time for things like that to go away or to be forgotten about..

myself i would never trust anyone in sl enough to do that..but then again i am already gun shy about that stuff anyways..

i guess if someone is willing then it may be different and all..

as long as they know the chances are good that they won't just be seen by the person they give them to..some people like that kind of attentions..

not me though..

i haz a big embarrass going on for a long long time LOL

 

 

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I've never passed around nudie pics of myself. I wasnt burned the way you were (ouch:( ) My sister used to work at a place that developed pictures. I know from her that when intimate pics would come through, more often than not copies of them made their way home with the guys that worked there. Totaly illegal I'm sure, but, it still happened.  You just never know where somthing goes once it leaves your hands.

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Some of the answers here seem a little, well, reactionary.   What i'd say is do not under any circs give any pictures to *this* particular guy, cos he's an obvious creep and trying to pressure you into doing things his way.   Some choose to share pictures, some don't ...  depends a lot on how you spend your time inworld, and where you choose to visit.  This guy likely thinks every sim in SL is a sex sim as well.  LOL.  

nb:  This guy you mention reminds me of another guy who was active in the old forums.  His thing was that anyone who didn't voice was a coward.  Another tosser, both senses of the word.

 

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Winter: gross. Block him. Weird o. Nice guys don't ask for any pics, face or otherwise. I had a jerk bug me for RL pics forever. I finally ditched him. I don't have a problem giving a pic of my face, but it has to be on my terms, not a demand. You've no idea who you're giving pics to, so don't do it!

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LOL, never done it and never will. If he wants a picture of your boobs send a picture of your tv. Then go outside and get a picture of a bush on around your house, and if you have a pet cat or dog a picture of their tail. :smileyvery-happy: 

I agree all he wants is wanking material and could care less about how you look since he doesn't wanta picture of your face.

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Ceera Murakami wrote:

Send him to a porn site to harvest whatever he wants (assuming he is old enough to get access to one), 

 

Which brings up a good point: There is absolutely no way to know who the other person is, which might mean the OP would be guilty of passing pornography to a minor. Whatever legal or moral dilemmas would follow, I'm sure they could do without.

Anyone passing real pix of themselves or adding those to their profile or rezzing those in world should remember there is a program that will search those same pix anywhere in the internet. At which point someone could end up with your facebook or other website information, and your real identity. Since you have no clue who that person is, or what their capability for violence is, that seems unwise at best.

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I would never give my pictures (intimate or not) to someone is SL.... Exception are the few persons I know in RL as well :).

But you have to be careful with pictures on the Internet anyway. Some years ago I placed some nice pictures of me on a forum about horses (I love horseback riding).
Months after that a friend came laughing to me asking that I needed a date-site these days? It seems someone copies the pictures from the forum and used them on that dating site. As my friend already remarked, she was so surprised to see those pictures there... as I have a very happy and healthy relation for already many years!!!!

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