Looking for a female to hangout/possible relationship.

[RavenSS22]

Hey, used to play a long time ago and have recently been getting on. A lot of friends are currently not active so I’m just looking for a girl who is down to chat and hangout together! I don’t have a lot of places I usually go and well I forget a lot of SL now. So if your interested just leave a message down below and I can add you.

[Ayeleeon]

While the ladies of the forums are indeed wonderful, they represent a tiny fraction of the ladies in SL as a whole. The best way to find that special someone is to get out in world. Do things you like, and meet people as you go. 

[Jordan Whitt]

6 minutes ago, Ayeleeon said:

Whilst SOME the ladies of the forums are indeed wonderful...

Fixed it for ya

[Rowan Amore]

5 hours ago, RavenSS22 said:

Hey, used to play a long time ago and have recently been getting on. A lot of friends are currently not active so I’m just looking for a girl who is down to chat and hangout together! I don’t have a lot of places I usually go and well I forget a lot of SL now. So if your interested just leave a message down below and I can add you.

You may have a bit more luck inworld if you worked on your profile.  Nothing at all in your picks and always the first thing I look at when someone messages me.  I'd also suggest being more selective on which groups are shown unless you prefer to.let people know what you're into using those.  

[Ayeleeon]

2 hours ago, Jordan Whitt said:

Fixed it for ya

Once again we have a difference of opinion. 

[Kalegthepsionicist]

try writing this on your profile

willing to spent 5000 L per week, with ladies

 

[Nick0678]

25 minutes ago, Kalegthepsionicist said:

try writing this on your profile

willing to spent 5000 L per week, with ladies

 

... well for L$5000 i will gladly log in with my female alt and be the best partner/lover he ever had in his life.

Will even use a voice morph and ASMR him to sleep during those cold harsh winter nights!

 

[Caroline Takeda]

On 12/16/2021 at 6:12 PM, Kalegthepsionicist said:

try writing this on your profile

willing to spent 5000 L per week, with ladies

 

Come on, that gets you an hour  voice or two hours text.

[Alwin Alcott]

5 minutes ago, Caroline Takeda said:

Come on, that gets you an hour  voice or two hours text.

perhaps it doesn't have to be fulltime 

[Kalegthepsionicist]

23 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said:

Come on, that gets you an hour  voice or two hours text.

text ?

how text make ppl horny Lol

[LilNosferatu]

8 minutes ago, Kalegthepsionicist said:

text ?

how text make ppl horny Lol

Things like erotic literature, romance novels, sexting, and erotic roleplay wouldn't really exist otherwise.

[LydiavonK]

On 12/16/2021 at 6:12 PM, Kalegthepsionicist said:

try writing this on your profile

willing to spent 5000 L per week, with ladies

 

Your picture of females seems to be heavily skewed. Maybe You should hang at different places more often. 

[Alwin Alcott]

2 minutes ago, LydiavonK said:

Your picture of females seems to be heavily skewed. Maybe You should hang at different places more often. 

perhaps have a look at the posts in this section .. i don't think the "picture" is skewed badly, there are always a few that advertise for that kind of approach here.

[LydiavonK]

2 minutes ago, Alwin Alcott said:

perhaps have a look at the posts in this section .. i don't think the "picture" is skewed badly, there are always a few that advertise for that kind of approach here.

The loud minority represents the silent majority? That 202x's internet spirit. 

 

EDIT: "overhauls" 

Edited December 19, 2021 by LydiavonK

[Alwin Alcott]

4 minutes ago, LydiavonK said:

The loud minority represents the silent majority? That 202x's internet spirit.

at first, the subject by the OP did derail into the paid companionships, and however a minority, it's clearly active and present, here on the forums ánd even more inworld.

And yes, the loudest gets most attention.

[Cinnamon Mistwood]

On 12/16/2021 at 12:03 AM, RavenSS22 said:

Hey, used to play a long time ago and have recently been getting on. A lot of friends are currently not active so I’m just looking for a girl who is down to chat and hangout together! I don’t have a lot of places I usually go and well I forget a lot of SL now. So if your interested just leave a message down below and I can add you.

What kind of things do you like to do inworld?  Exploring, shopping, taking pics, gaming, RP, science lectures, book clubs, anime, live music?  What times and how often are you online?  Are you an introvert looking for an extrovert to adopt you and take you to places of their choosing?

[Kalegthepsionicist]

13 hours ago, LydiavonK said:

Your picture of females seems to be heavily skewed. Maybe You should hang at different places more often. 

lol im not female, I changes the pic , coz everybody scare

[Rowan Amore]

45 minutes ago, Kalegthepsionicist said:

lol im not female, I changes the pic , coz everybody scare

Your picture of females.means...how you see females and how they behave.  I certainly wouldn't spend time with someone simply because they gave me 5000L a week.  That's absurd.  Who would want someone to be around them just because they're being paid to be there?  That's not a girlfriend, that's an escort/whore or as some like to call it...sugar baby.  

I don't think that's what the OP is looking for.

[Kalegthepsionicist]

28 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

Your picture of females.means...how you see females and how they behave.  I certainly wouldn't spend time with someone simply because they gave me 5000L a week.  That's absurd.  Who would want someone to be around them just because they're being paid to be there?  That's not a girlfriend, that's an escort/whore or as some like to call it...sugar baby.  

I don't think that's what the OP is looking for.

its a joke, .

you cant judge someone by its cover  lol

anyway I make friend without seeing gender, some people here I add and chat.

Edited December 20, 2021 by Kalegthepsionicist

[Rabid Cheetah]

43 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

Your picture of females.means...how you see females and how they behave.  I certainly wouldn't spend time with someone simply because they gave me 5000L a week.  That's absurd.  Who would want someone to be around them just because they're being paid to be there?  That's not a girlfriend, that's an escort/whore or as some like to call it...sugar baby.  

I don't think that's what the OP is looking for.

And YOUR picture of females is revealed by your word choice for sex workers.

[Rowan Amore]

37 minutes ago, Rabid Cheetah said:

And YOUR picture of females is revealed by your word choice for sex workers.

Prostitute, whore, sex worker, call girl, escort...take your pick.   Harlot, trollop, lady of the night...the list goes on and basically the same thing.  Whore is the shortest.  No offense to any prostitutes, sex workers, escorts, call girls, trollops, etc. intended.

[Orwar]

2 hours ago, Rabid Cheetah said:

And YOUR picture of females is revealed by your word choice for sex workers.

   Generally speaking, only people who advocate prostitution to be embraced as a legal activity care to use the term 'sex worker'; to people who aren't involved in that very small demographic it concerns, the words 'prostitute' and 'whore' are still commonly in use.

   Not being 'pro-prostitution' doesn't mean one is 'anti-women' in any way, shape, or form. It's as absurd an idea, as that someone thinking McDonald's Fillet 'o Fish sandwich is disgusting must therefor mean that they want to illegalise all consumption of fish. Heck, even among feminists, prostitution is a divisive topic.

[Rabid Cheetah]

"Whore" has a pejorative connotation.  It does NOT mean the same thing as "prostitute" or "sex worker".  Using it so casually is as offensive as claiming the N-word just means "black".  You'd be well advised to drop it from your vocabulary, if you're serious about not being anti-women or s-lutshammer.  Given your past posts, @Rowan Amore, I'll definitely give you the benefit of the doubt.  I have a high opinion of you.

The other guy, not so much, for the same reason.

Edited December 20, 2021 by Rabid Cheetah

[Orwar]

18 minutes ago, Rabid Cheetah said:

The other guy, not so much, for the same reason.

   Oh noes, my feelings. However shall I cope? 

[Scylla Rhiadra]

Sex work is indeed a divisive and contentious thing within, well, most communities, including among feminists.

It is possible, however, to oppose the principle of the objectification of women's bodies through prostitution, while still offering support for sex workers.

There are, of course, women who are in a position to choose to do sex work, and do it because they like it, earn lots of money from it, etc. They would argue it's just another form of labour, and/or that it is a choice that they have the right to make, because they have sovereignty over their own bodies and sexuality. And that principle is a good one.

But there are a lot of sex workers doing it through lack of choice -- poverty, abuse, etc. And even if you don't "agree" with the principle of sex work, blaming the women who, for whatever reason, are providing the service rather than the men who have created the market for it, or the culture that accepts that women and their bodies are "for sale" is grabbing the stick by the wrong end.

A really important reason to avoid pejorative characterizations and labels for sex workers is that they have historically been especially vulnerable to abuse -- abusive and unsafe labour practices, and violence and abuse from their clients, who, having decided that they are "whores" or "sl*ts," refuse to afford them the basic rights owed to any human being.

Using the term "sex worker" needn't imply that you are in favour of prostitution as a cultural practice. It's about changing attitudes towards the women (and men) who are engaged in the work, and working to ensure that they are safe from abuse from both "management" and clients.