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How Often Do You Have Sex in Second Life? A Poll.


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Hello fellow Residents,

I am curious about how often people have sex in Second Life. I started a poll on twitter with that question. This will be part of a blog post I am working on.

Please take part in the poll and retweet if you have SL followers.

 

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My answer would probably vary quite a bit depending on how you define an individual sex-act. . .

I recently decided to delegate my sexy-time activities to a specific alt, who logs in at least a few times per week.

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It depends sometimes I can find a decent RP partner sometimes I can't because some will contact me when I post in a group and not even know how to emote or RP properly so I say maybe about once or three times a month anymore a rarity in finding RP partners is even harder to find on SL.

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Once a year, maybe? The first reason being that there are (IMHO) very few people who know how to have SLex besides jumping onto an appliance and typing or saying "ohhh baby..." Because of this (reason 2) random SLex is uninteresting. I have found that just like real life, sharing head space before bumping uglies (knocking boots, pushing the one eyed minister into heaven,) is really important. Which leads me to reason three: becoming intimate with someone takes time. For this reason I have a few close SL friends that from time to time will slide into a debauched howling at the moon with me. It kind of just happens. Sometimes my RL wife joins in. But yeah... its not on my daily, weekly, or even monthly to do list.

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Escorting for more than 10 years off an on. Lots.

I enjoy it because I can really get my kinks on here, and can be more daring and playful with the guys (and girls) who hire me.

I average 5+ customers per week.

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I worry this will turn into a generalization of SL.

You are asking the adult forum how often they have sex. A lot of people don't regular the adult forum, and a lot more who don't partake in sex in SL often outright ignore this forum. That is like trying to do an opinion survey where a majority of the people in a city have the same opinion.

So the answer isn't as straight forward as a simple poll. There is a big mix of people on SL, some who play games, some who do asset creation, some who do adult stuff, some who hang out, and some who do business/virtual meetings in SL, just to name a few. And some even partake in multiple of those.

Please keep this in mind when making the blog post. Second Life isn't red light district(adult focused game), but rather a world where you make what you want of it.

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I’m not into “relationships”, but hooking up in SL for the purposes of “erotic creative writing” with the right person is quite fun.

If I can find someone who is good at that, with compatible kinks and no need to have a “normal relationship: I can easily do one long session a week.

Unfortunately…..

COVID saw a massive influx of people into SL who like the IDEA of no-commitment fun, but when offered the opportunity they try to slip back into “relationship” traditions that include jealousy, monogamy and reaching into Real Life.

So for the past bit, its been kind of fraught and several had to be blocked/muted.

I’m not a mean person, but no one ever has to “decode” anything when I tell them what I’m into and what the limits are.

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I have a few people on my friends list, who, like myself, enjoy writing longer paragraphs of sexual content. Because it does take some time to think up creative responses, and we're not exactly glued to our screens, these are encounters that last... A while. So it's somewhat rare that both parties have ample time and motivation to engage in pixel naughties.

 

On average, I do the deed once a week.

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 In sl i am very sexually active because i can try things i would never consider or dare to try in reality. Relationships without a physical connection is not for me so forget all about singing me a" A lady should always stay classy", sl is my playground.

On a good day i have pixel intercourse 1-15 times on a 24 hour period, always prefer voice over emoting personally mostly because of my native language and more freedom with hands..  Sometimes with one, sometimes with a group, gender or race does not matter to me i like them all the same, i have even tried the famous pyramid of love, (One man, One Woman, One Transgender) i made a new category for my sl sexual orientation just so people can box me in and categorize to feel more secure, and it's called.., bi-bi-butterfly.

Too much information ? here in Europe sharing is caring, that is how you learn to understand it better rather than fearing it.

 

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Used to be pretty often. Since being away for a few years and all the mesh avis coming in, Im kinda worried that I dont know how to slex anymore :(:D so I have been a tad more prudish recently. Purely for fear of my own incompetence.

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6 hours ago, AnnabelleApocalypse said:

Used to be pretty often. Since being away for a few years and all the mesh avis coming in, Im kinda worried that I dont know how to slex anymore :(:D so I have been a tad more prudish recently. Purely for fear of my own incompetence.

If you need a tutor ;) ...

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