Michael Blackwood Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 I have recently returned to SL after a very long and necessary break. Unfortunately I often find myself rather lonely now, because most friends left SL or have moved on. So I decided, that instead of renting a skybox or a house of my own (and ending up lonely in there, as well) why not find a friendly person to live with as roomate. Therefor I am looking for you to share your home with me! I want to be your roomate! I am fairly easy-going, low maintenance, and I don't have too high expectations. We can become friends and hang out together, or just live side by side and come & go - either is fine. We can share every room or each have our own room(s) / area - either is fine, too. I also don't care much if it is an apartment or a house, small or huge. It would be awsome if it was on a developed sim or an urban RP sim, but it's by no means necessary to me. At first, I will most likely spend quite some time at the new home, given that I don't really have many reasons to go elsewhere, yet and currently work from home in SL, as well. Needless to say that as your roomate, I will pay my part of the rent! If you're up to the challenge, send me a PM or an IM inworld! Looking forward to hear from y'all! 🙂 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnnHerrick Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 For my part I like having my home to myself. In RL I have had many roommates, all of them nightmares, and now I live alone, for the last 7 years and love it. I would never have another roommate in RL, or SL. You never know who or what that other person will bring into your life and home. It's not worth the risk. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evil Littlepaws Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 This might sound strange but you don't actually need a home in SL. Having a home is for more or less entertaining people and engaging in things privately. If you don't do adult things then there isn't really a need for it. Find something you like to do, perhaps you like the sounds of waves? Go to a beach and let that be your outdoor office. There are cafes around you can work from and get to know people. There are places you can rent your own space for L$40/week. So there isn't a need to have a place where you share with people. If you want someplace out in the open to talk to someone, you can try merely finding a park or a place to talk to others. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayeleeon Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 7 hours ago, Bruno Darkheart said: This might sound strange but you don't actually need a home in SL Pretty sure he is looking for the social interaction here more than a place to call home. I get it, i dont have a home as yet either but would love a roommate situation. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael Blackwood Posted July 18, 2021 Author Share Posted July 18, 2021 8 minutes ago, Ayeleeon said: Pretty sure he is looking for the social interaction here more than a place to call home. I get it, i dont have a home as yet either but would love a roommate situation. You got it right. Why don't you toss me a message if you're in the same situation? That is, if you're interested, of course! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liv Simondsen Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 (edited) @Michael Blackwood @Ayeleeon i have a lovely room in some friends' house, it's a pity their online time doesn't match so well with mine and wouldn't mind to split rent to have one more place, along that room, and more friends .. if interested drop me an IM (Liv Simondsen) There is also a female friend of mine that could be interested, we already shared a house but the land has closed and we are looking for another one. Edited July 18, 2021 by Liv Simondsen 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutantbeth Posted July 19, 2021 Share Posted July 19, 2021 I’m renting a place but don’t use the bottom floor at all. So if anyone’s looking for a studio let me know~ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liv Simondsen Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 If other 1-2 people would like to share a house with us they are welcome ! Answer this thread or reach me IW. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted July 23, 2021 Share Posted July 23, 2021 Hi Michael. I sent you a message inworld. Â 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AliasCinderella Posted July 27, 2021 Share Posted July 27, 2021 Sent you a message in world! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted July 29, 2021 Share Posted July 29, 2021 What about lots of roommates and a home for free? Here is the plan:https://www.second-life-adventures.com/the-squatters-club/ 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted July 30, 2021 Share Posted July 30, 2021 (edited) Confused Michael? The way it works is, we find abandoned parcels, build homes on them which we share with group members. A whole group of new flat(s)mates sharing places for free. Just a fun little game/adventure (there is always the risk that we loose some places, when they get auctioned out) Non-commercial and not to be taken too serious. Edited July 30, 2021 by Caroline Takeda 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liv Simondsen Posted July 30, 2021 Share Posted July 30, 2021 On 7/29/2021 at 10:28 AM, Caroline Takeda said: What about lots of roommates and a home for free? Here is the plan:https://www.second-life-adventures.com/the-squatters-club/ i sent you an IM, if it gets capped please let me know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 I sent him several messages inworld. He didn't respond to the first two, then said please send me a nc, which I did, and he never responded to that. Just an FYI to others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael Blackwood Posted August 1, 2021 Author Share Posted August 1, 2021 52 minutes ago, Annabell Wandsworth said: I sent him several messages inworld. He didn't respond to the first two, then said please send me a nc, which I did, and he never responded to that. Just an FYI to others. Well, hon, for YOUR info: If you want to use the public forum to name shame someone (a nasty attitude in itself and quite pathetic), stay with the facts, can you? I did reply to you and told you that I never received your first 2 IMs as they must have gotten lost - a common thing in SL at the moment. I also told you that I was very busy working and couldn't communicate - and thus asked you to put them in a NC and send them again (so I could read them later and reply when I have time). You declined rudely, ignored my request and announced you'd just "spam" (not your exact words) me by sending them as IMs again, anyway. To which I simply temp-blocked you, as I told you I was busy. THAT is the real story you should stick to. It's a story of you being rude and ignoring when someone tells you they are busy. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you should simply respect it and move on, rather than bringing it to a public forum in the most pathetic way. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathlen Onyx Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 AND now we know the rest of the story.  which I kind of figured anyway. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 6 minutes ago, Michael Blackwood said: Well, hon, for YOUR info: If you want to use the public forum to name shame someone (a nasty attitude in itself and quite pathetic), stay with the facts, can you? I did reply to you and told you that I never received your first 2 IMs as they must have gotten lost - a common thing in SL at the moment. I also told you that I was very busy working and couldn't communicate - and thus asked you to put them in a NC and send them again (so I could read them later and reply when I have time). You declined rudely, ignored my request and announced you'd just "spam" (not your exact words) me by sending them as IMs again, anyway. To which I simply temp-blocked you, as I told you I was busy. THAT is the real story you should stick to. It's a story of you being rude and ignoring when someone tells you they are busy. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you should simply respect it and move on, rather than bringing it to a public forum in the most pathetic way. What I said was accurate and factual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan Amore Posted August 2, 2021 Share Posted August 2, 2021 28 minutes ago, Michael Blackwood said: Well, hon, for YOUR info: If you want to use the public forum to name shame someone (a nasty attitude in itself and quite pathetic), stay with the facts, can you? I did reply to you and told you that I never received your first 2 IMs as they must have gotten lost - a common thing in SL at the moment. I also told you that I was very busy working and couldn't communicate - and thus asked you to put them in a NC and send them again (so I could read them later and reply when I have time). You declined rudely, ignored my request and announced you'd just "spam" (not your exact words) me by sending them as IMs again, anyway. To which I simply temp-blocked you, as I told you I was busy. THAT is the real story you should stick to. It's a story of you being rude and ignoring when someone tells you they are busy. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you should simply respect it and move on, rather than bringing it to a public forum in the most pathetic way SOP for some. Do hope you find a roomie. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted August 2, 2021 Share Posted August 2, 2021 1 hour ago, Rowan Amore said: SOP for some. Do hope you find a roomie. If he wanted a roomie he would have found it here.  1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayla Nightingale Posted August 2, 2021 Share Posted August 2, 2021 17 hours ago, Michael Blackwood said: Well, hon, for YOUR info: If you want to use the public forum to name shame someone (a nasty attitude in itself and quite pathetic), stay with the facts, can you? I did reply to you and told you that I never received your first 2 IMs as they must have gotten lost - a common thing in SL at the moment. I also told you that I was very busy working and couldn't communicate - and thus asked you to put them in a NC and send them again (so I could read them later and reply when I have time). You declined rudely, ignored my request and announced you'd just "spam" (not your exact words) me by sending them as IMs again, anyway. To which I simply temp-blocked you, as I told you I was busy. THAT is the real story you should stick to. It's a story of you being rude and ignoring when someone tells you they are busy. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you should simply respect it and move on, rather than bringing it to a public forum in the most pathetic way. She did the same thing to me, when I couldn't make time to talk to her in the first 4 days since she messaged me. She sent me a very bizarre rant then removed me. 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted August 5, 2021 Share Posted August 5, 2021 On 8/2/2021 at 12:04 PM, Loelia Pancake said: She did the same thing to me, when I couldn't make time to talk to her in the first 4 days since she messaged me. She sent me a very bizarre rant then removed me. Your response is inappropriate and not related to this post, so is against SL TOS.  2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted August 5, 2021 Share Posted August 5, 2021 (edited) To clarify, my post was to let other people know that the OP was unlikely to respond to posts here, for whatever reason. Some people lose interest in a topic or idea, and just drop it, or he could have found what he was looking for and just decided not to say so here. I have no idea which it was. I will not go into what happened between my and a previous poster because that would be inappropriate. Edited August 5, 2021 by Annabell Wandsworth typo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabell Wandsworth Posted August 5, 2021 Share Posted August 5, 2021 On 8/1/2021 at 6:40 PM, Michael Blackwood said: Well, hon, for YOUR info: If you want to use the public forum to name shame someone (a nasty attitude in itself and quite pathetic), stay with the facts, can you? I did reply to you and told you that I never received your first 2 IMs as they must have gotten lost - a common thing in SL at the moment. I also told you that I was very busy working and couldn't communicate - and thus asked you to put them in a NC and send them again (so I could read them later and reply when I have time). You declined rudely, ignored my request and announced you'd just "spam" (not your exact words) me by sending them as IMs again, anyway. To which I simply temp-blocked you, as I told you I was busy. THAT is the real story you should stick to. It's a story of you being rude and ignoring when someone tells you they are busy. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you should simply respect it and move on, rather than bringing it to a public forum in the most pathetic way. I told him I would send him an IM in addition to the the notecard he requested, which I did send. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
REBBBEECCAA Posted May 29, 2022 Share Posted May 29, 2022 just realised im a whole 1 year late to this thread 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love Zhaoying Posted May 29, 2022 Share Posted May 29, 2022 41 minutes ago, REBBBEECCAA said: just realised im a whole 1 year late to this thread The forum should be giving you warnings that you are replying to an old thread. This is what I get on mobile when about to reply to an old thread: Â 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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