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I have been reading  these forums, even when not participating, for a very, very long time. I read nearly everything posted, and I have a pretty good memory. 

There are very few people that can actually say they always try to be nice. I'm not one of them  nor would I ever say I am, even if I'm a nice person most of the time, lol. 

 You  two seem to have this kink involved with making everything a public spectacle, lol,  that I don't think anyone here will ever understand. No one here has to, either, I'm not necessarily judging it. I mean, go for it if it tickles your pickles, you do you. You two play this game and then wonder why it ticks people off, or makes people pass judgement(s), though, and that I definitely don't understand.

I'm not saying you're a bad person, you're not, you're human, we all have those quirks that others will never understand, we all have our moments, we all have times when someone simply doesn't like something we do, or say. It is what it is. 

Sure you can't control what he says or does, but I really don't understand why anyone would WANT to be friends with someone like that.  It's a mystery, and if I'm being honest (I am) it probably gets you a decent amount of judgment (deserved or not, it happens) from people too, because you do very much associate with him, and in doing so, defend him. Just on the forums alone, he's been a jerkface of epic proportion to people (this is the nicer version of what I had here, and I'm certain he doesn't give one flying puck what I think, anyway, lol). 

I used to have a good friend (of many years) that behaved the same way, it took me way too long to realize it, or acknowledge it anyway, but once I did, I dropped them like a bad habit. Might've sucked at first, we had years together after all, but, eventually, I felt better for doing it. What I'm saying is, he probably doesn't treat (or think of) you as well as you think he does, regardless of how much fun the two of you might be having now. He's bound to leave a lasting impression not just on you, but for you,  and it isn't likely to be a positive one. I can't imagine that adventure is going to remain fun once the dust settles. I think you can do way, way better. 

Then again,  maybe I'm the weird one. 

 

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3 hours ago, Tari Landar said:

 

I used to have a good friend (of many years) that behaved the same way, it took me way too long to realize it, or acknowledge it anyway, but once I did, I dropped them like a bad habit. Might've sucked at first, we had years together after all, but, eventually, I felt better for doing it

 

But if that friend was paying your rent, buying you anything you wanted, basically kissing your @ss, you might have put up with it a bit longer?   A person can put up with a lot of crap if they get more out of the relationship than they seem to be putting in.  

 

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1 hour ago, RowanMinx said:

But if that friend was paying your rent, buying you anything you wanted, basically kissing your @ss, you might have put up with it a bit longer?   A person can put up with a lot of crap if they get more out of the relationship than they seem to be putting in.  

 

 

I do really wish I had seen that kind of *****ty behavior sooner than I did. The only excuse I have is that I didn't personally see it myself, firsthand, until right before I decided that parting ways was the best option. I did try to explain just why others had such a problem with the person after seeing it firsthand, to no avail. It really wasn't worth the effort on my part.  There is no reasoning with people that act like this, no matter how much someone might wish they could stop someone from being a crappy person. If someone can't see their behavior for what it is and has to constantly be told, it's not a friendship worth having. 

I expect better of the people around me (which I keep to a rather small number, I have way more acquaintances than I do friends). I also expect them to have the same expectations of me. Some people might be easier bought than I am, though.

 

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On 1/16/2021 at 4:15 PM, Bagnu said:

An SL porn producer who is now permanently banned from the forums. Twice over.

Ex-Porn Producer. A dinosaur. His main "business" at the time (many years ago) was actually not porn. It was smear campaigns and black mailing.

He bears relevance in today’s sex and porn business. Most people in the industry don’t even know that name. Actually until recently I did't even know he was still active in SL. A blast from the past , so to speak. He was recently trying to discredit me via some popular sl blogs (calling me a racist! Me!) and contacted members of staff for whatever reason.

Gone. History.

 

 

 

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10 hours ago, Tari Landar said:

You  two seem to have this kink involved with making everything a public spectacle

I have put everything I ever did in SL on public display since the very start. No one ever objected to it before. That is how I ended up with over 40000 rep points. Now however I see it needs to stop. I like to create, and I like to have what I create seen, now i have an opportunity to create things I never had before, but I have to hide it. I totally understand where you are coming from though. You have given me a lot to think about.

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2 hours ago, Talligurl said:

I have put everything I ever did in SL on public display since the very start. No one ever objected to it before. That is how I ended up with over 40000 rep points. Now however I see it needs to stop. I like to create, and I like to have what I create seen, now i have an opportunity to create things I never had before, but I have to hide it. I totally understand where you are coming from though. You have given me a lot to think about.

No one objects to your pictures which is probably where most of the points are from.  People still react to those in a positive way.  It was the running commentaries we found a bit odd.  No one has said stop showing your pictures, just skip the interpersonal back and forth with him.  Save that for Flickr.

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1 minute ago, Talligurl said:

I have stopped and I have told him to stop posting here altogether. I am pretty sure pictures of things he had paid for are not appreciated here. So yes I suppose if I go to another sim, wear something I bought and take a pictute it's ok.

No one would even know what someone paid for unless one of you mentioned it.  However, since it's been made known already that he's funding your SL now, people will probably assume.  Pics are fine.  Commentary, which we have no interest in, isn't especially if it's personal in nature.

 

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6 hours ago, Talligurl said:

I have put everything I ever did in SL on public display since the very start. No one ever objected to it before. That is how I ended up with over 40000 rep points. Now however I see it needs to stop. I like to create, and I like to have what I create seen, now i have an opportunity to create things I never had before, but I have to hide it. I totally understand where you are coming from though. You have given me a lot to think about.

For me, it's just this relatively recent back-and-forth across pictures conversations that has been a little strange.  Prior to this, I always enjoyed the little bits of commentary about some situation you added on individual pictures.  

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