Looking for a relationship

[bree82 1]

Hello Everyone

Am looking for a relationship in SL.I have been roaming about in sl and trying to socialise at various venues but no luck hence am placing this ad here.

In rl am a 38yr old Black  female living in london

In rl you must be male and live in london.In sl you must also be male.Any Ethnicity welcome

I can be online every other day as from 8pm.

I want to experience life in sl, build a home together,explore places,travel together and and just have fun.

Relationship will progress gradually and at some point we can move in together in sl

I can do voice chat sometimes.

Am quite shy in rl and sl.

 

 

Edited January 13 by bree82
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[Pumpkin Wumpkins 58]

I would highly recommend continuing to explore the grid and just get familiar with all kinds of people. I'd imagine there are lots of men out there who do live in London, but unless you plan to bring this relationship in to RL, I wouldn't make that a requirement. I know there are many match making sims in SL, as well as groups catering to that kind of thing, so I don't think it'd hurt to start there. 

I would also suggest listing some of your interests, if this really is what you want to do. It might help people to get a good impression of you if they knew what you liked to do with your free time, or perhaps what your favorite music is. Little things like that really do help people connect with you. 

Good luck! 

[bree82 1]

Thanks for your input.Highly appreciated.I have joined av match now and will be on the look out for match making sims.

I do hang about in london city and other newcomer friendly sim and I do join in chats but nothing has come of it.

 

[ballparkdogg 225]

I would try actually love dating agency in SL and do a search of dating agencies in SL.  Av match is ok, but you need to keep getting tokens.  Some of the dating agencies in SL might cost 1 or 2 linden to post your profile. I met my SL partner while she was putting her profile up on the wall

[Velk Kerang 419]

On 1/13/2021 at 9:21 PM, Pumpkin Wumpkins said:

I would also suggest listing some of your interests, if this really is what you want to do. It might help people to get a good impression of you if they knew what you liked to do with your free time, or perhaps what your favorite music is. Little things like that really do help people connect with you. 

Good luck! 

I second this right here. If you tell us a bit about your interests then perhaps we can tell you where to best go to meet people. For example if your in to Ballroom dancing and dressing up then I'd say join Franks Elite and try and meet people there and socialize. If you more in to the BDSM scene some people like going to the House of V. Do you like roleplay sims and if so what kind of role play or do you play SL merely to socialize? It helps to know what your SL is for you basically so people will know if they will have anything in common. Also like it was mentioned knowing what type of music your in to helps us know what places to try and recommend to you. Good luck mate.😎

[Chic Aeon 19,238]

Please keep in mind -- and I am saying this because you truly appear to be new to virtual worlds  -- that asking for people to be of a certain age, sex, ethnicity and location really means nothing.   Some people are very up front and honest about who they are in real (we call it corporeal) life and others are not. 

 

"I" for example could be an eighty year old male atheist living in the farm belt of Ohio (nothing against any of those choices just trying to make a point LOL) OR I used to say I could be the vice president of the US (that was long ago and I don't say that any more).  We don't necessarily know who we are really communicating with; we only know what that communication tells us about the person.   Over time -- sometimes years and sometimes decades we get a sense of who our "SL friends" are but it is NOT automatic.   People LIE.  

 

For many folks here  the whole point of being in a virtual world like SL is so that they can "be" a completely different person.  Until you understand that and how the virtual world works it could be very dangerous -- emotionally -- to go out looking for someone special.   So please be careful. 

[Rowan Amore 8,367]

Just as @Chic Aeonsaid, sometimes it takes years to develop relationships here.  The best ones should.  Things in SL seem to flow at a much faster pace than in RL.  People meet one month, partner the next because they are THE one, only to be the one you hate next month.

Build friendships and just like RL, they may develop into something more or they may not.  I'd say the worst thing to do is to treat everyone you meet as a potential partner.  Not everyone is here to find that and you may lose a great friend.  In my experience, friends last longer than relationships in SL.  My 4 longest friendships have lasted 6+ years.  All men and only one that I've been in a relationship with.  

[Apolez Taurus 15]

Years ago I joined  speed dating a few times, met a couple or one friend that lasted.  I think that they no longer exist though because the search didn't bring them up; although I found this one that said speed dating is coming soon. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Yellowstone Falls/114/210/41 ,anyways that was pretty fun and I got to meet and talk to a bunch potential longer dates in a short time. Good Luck. Apolez Taurus

Edited January 23 by Apolez Taurus