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2 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said:

A little step by step guide to find sugar daddy(s):

1. Make sure you have a really good looking avatar which represents the kind of person you are or want to be. Make sure it is not just sexy (those we have thousands in sl) but has personality and kinda stands out of the croud.

2. Make sure you have a meaningful, complete profil.

3. Go to sex places. Preferably the more classy ones, but busy ones will do as well.

4. Wait to get approached. Do not make the first step ever. Respond friendly.

5. Check his profile and looks. "Payment info on file" is your qualifier. Complement him on whatever you find is worth a compliment. Be honest about it , don't make it up.

6. Have good sex with him. Try to really please him. Be helpful and friendly. Foremost helpful! A little help will go a long way.

7. Meet him again and again). Keep being helpful and make sure he has a great time (including but not limited to sex).

8. Drop from time to time how well you are doing without having much money. Talk to him about your latest great freebie you found and what you would buy  if you only had money. Mention when rent is due and that you just managed to make ends meet.

9. Wait. Do not ask for money. Never.

10. Say thank you when he starts supporting you.

11. Repeat 3- 10. It might take a few unsuccesfull trials.  Sorry, that's what it takes.

Btw: Do not state anywhere , that you are looking for a sugar daddy. 

 

 

 

Isn't this how you get a job in the Cabinet?

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6 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said:

A little step by step guide to find sugar daddy(s):

1. Make sure you have a really good looking avatar which represents the kind of person you are or want to be. Make sure it is not just sexy (those we have thousands in sl) but has personality and kinda stands out of the croud.

2. Make sure you have a meaningful, complete profil.

3. Go to sex places. Preferably the more classy ones, but busy ones will do as well.

4. Wait to get approached. Do not make the first step ever. Respond friendly.

5. Check his profile and looks. "Payment info on file" is your qualifier. Complement him on whatever you find is worth a compliment. Be honest about it , don't make it up.

6. Have good sex with him. Try to really please him. Be helpful and friendly. Foremost helpful! A little help will go a long way.

7. Meet him again and again). Keep being helpful and make sure he has a great time (including but not limited to sex).

8. Drop from time to time how well you are doing without having much money. Talk to him about your latest great freebie you found and what you would buy  if you only had money. Mention when rent is due and that you just managed to make ends meet.

9. Wait. Do not ask for money. Never.

10. Say thank you when he starts supporting you.

11. Repeat 3- 10. It might take a few unsuccesfull trials.  Sorry, that's what it takes.

Btw: Do not state anywhere , that you are looking for a sugar daddy. 

I'd drop 3 and 4, makes you come across like a hooker. If you want to be a hooker, that's fine. If you're looking to be treated well too though, you don't want to project that image.

Like someone else said, a guy that's well off will give you things just because, if he likes you. You can meet him anywhere, and if you surprise him and say hello to him and make conversation first, you stand out.

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39 minutes ago, Paul Hexem said:

I'd drop 3 and 4, makes you come across like a hooker. If you want to be a hooker, that's fine. If you're looking to be treated well too though, you don't want to project that image.

Like someone else said, a guy that's well off will give you things just because, if he likes you. You can meet him anywhere, and if you surprise him and say hello to him and make conversation first, you stand out.

This was my thought also.  Most men I've talked to appreciate when a woman takes the initiative and messages them first.  And you're right, sex places aren't the best places to meet a sugar daddy.  They're either people just looking for a one time hookup or a no strings attached playmate when they're in the mood.  Rarely are you going to find anyone will to pay for your rent or your SL.  I'm also aware that some people enjoy the power that comes from basically owning someone's SL because they pay for everything.  Not my cup of tea but to each their own.  I've had men buy me things.   Not because I want or need or in any way asked but because they enjoy my company and just want to show their appreciation.  And never with an expectation of anything in return.  I've also given gifts for the same reason.

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On 1/2/2021 at 1:51 PM, RowanMinx said:

This was my thought also.  Most men I've talked to appreciate when a woman takes the initiative and messages them first.  And you're right, sex places aren't the best places to meet a sugar daddy.  They're either people just looking for a one time hookup or a no strings attached playmate when they're in the mood.  Rarely are you going to find anyone will to pay for your rent or your SL.  I'm also aware that some people enjoy the power that comes from basically owning someone's SL because they pay for everything.  Not my cup of tea but to each their own.  I've had men buy me things.   Not because I want or need or in any way asked but because they enjoy my company and just want to show their appreciation.  And never with an expectation of anything in return.  I've also given gifts for the same reason.

That part I highlighted in bold, reminded me of guys that would come into the club that i was dancing at, that would try to save me from, what i guess in their eyes was a, Tragic life of a stripper.. hehehe

This was one of the top clubs in second life.. If you were good, you could make around 60k in a few hours on a busy night..Which that place was always busy..

This was also before gambling was removed from SL.

I can't remember if my sim was 25k a month or a week back then, but either way I had no problem paying for that, for all my shopping and anything else I wanted ,with plenty left over..

Even on a slow night I could still make my tier..

Even after gambling was gone you could still make 7k a set,which was maybe an hour, then leave the stage get dressed, go back out there or go do something else..

I didn't really do it for the money, sometimes i would just get on the stage and not even log into the tip jar and just do what I called ,making love to the crowd hehehehe

Dancing was something I really loved to do, especially at the club i was at..It was a turn on..

Sorry I'm starting to drift off course of what I was getting at..

Aaaaanyways,

Every once in awhile there would be guys that would come into the club and try to talk me out of being on the stage and want to take me under their wing to give me a better life..

I don't know if they were doing some sort of role playing or what, but i know some of the girls would say, They loved doing it..Like it was a fetish or something..

You'd see some girls get on stage and the same guy sit in front of them tipping 1k at a time, then some other guy sit next to him and tip her 2k..Then the tipping war would get going and the guy she came in with would be tipping her 10k at a time  having the other guy give up...

What that did was get a lot of the other dancers mad at that girl for making them look bad..hehehe

Club Life Drama!!\o/ hehehe

 

OK I'm done rambling..I probably went in more depth than I intended to, but memories start popping up and they start chain reacting hehehe

 

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On 1/2/2021 at 4:15 AM, Caroline Takeda said:

9. Wait. Do not ask for money. Never.

10. Say thank you when he starts supporting you.

11. Repeat 3- 10. It might take a few unsuccesfull trials.  Sorry, that's what it takes.

Btw: Do not state anywhere , that you are looking for a sugar daddy. 

I found this interesting.  I thought the relationship of sugar baby and sugar daddy/momma was based on a relationship that resembles a couple but it is for money period.

I see no harm in someone being upfront and honest about it.  Also, people aren't mind readers.  Thus, the person will/could think it's a couple relationship and monies split 50/50 most likely if the honesty is not there at first.    

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2 hours ago, JanuarySwan said:

I see no harm in someone being upfront and honest about it.

   I see all the more harm in not being upfront and honest about it.

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Damn trying to accomplish finding a 'sugar daddy' sounds pointlessly complicated and time consuming -- and then being stressed they're going to stick around and keep giving you the exact amount of money you 'deserve'. If I desperately needed money I think I'd just focus on trying to make it rather than retrying all those steps on repeat :| Plenty of creative ways to make lindens. 

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3 hours ago, Titheling Atheria said:

Plenty of creative ways to make lindens. 

   In the same vein as finding a sugar daddy, it's much easier to just dance or escort. 

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5 hours ago, Titheling Atheria said:

If I desperately needed money I think I'd just focus on trying to make it rather than retrying all those steps on repeat

I give myself a monthly allowance from my RL earnings to spend in SL and don't allow myself to go over that amount. If I'm under then I can save it up. I find this preferable to spending my time in-world doing boring jobs (dancing, hosting, stripping..)  in the hope of making $L. I come to SL to relax, unwind, have some fun and lolz. Having another job in-world felt exactly like working two jobs and it sucked!

Some people might enjoy dancing, hosting or stripping in-world, which is great! But I would do it because you enjoy it, not because you're desperate to make $$$. If that is your main motivation then it truly does become a second job and that gets real tiring very quickly. 

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