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Not sure if this is a troll post but I will take it in good faith. Yes it is cheating. Online affairs can be just as devastating to your partner as real life affairs. What matters is the affect it has

If your wife feels that it is and you did say "caught" so I'll assume you had been hiding that from her, than yes, it's cheating.

Just tell her it was with another dude. Because, as we've all been told, time and time again, there are no women on the internet. (And if there were, they wouldn't be interested in virtual sex.)

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21 minutes ago, Ceka Cianci said:

I don't know who that is, Did she stab the hell out of a bed or something?

Lol, Lorena Bobitt - cut off her hubby's pee pee with a knife for cheating! (he had it sewn back on and ironically later became a porn star!).

My view on the subject - If you can't tell your respective partner about what you're doing for fear of anger/ divorce/ loss of important parts etc, it's "cheating". Porn is something else entirely! 
I have spoken!  

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4 minutes ago, Cindy Evanier said:

I may get a temper going, but I'm not crazy.. Why would i do something like that when I could bring him years of torture and pain and suffering, with him wishing I had shot him instead of the bed.. hehehe

Seriously though I  would blast the hell out of that bed, because I know for a fact I could never sleep in that it again..

 

 

 

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I said SL was porn but that was in a comparison with romance novels.  I simply think it's porn because it's very graphic and I'm only speaking about Marketplace alone and how graphic it is on there.  Now written sex is also considered graphic but I think most romance novels are milk toast compared to how graphic stuff is and again I'm only speaking of Marketplace alone.  0.0  Some of what is sold on Marketplace is even repugnant it's so graphic but violent, even.  But, ultimately, I'm speaking of SL as porn in comparison to romance novels though.  Not all sex in SL is xxxxxxxxxxxx-rated.  

However, really, ultimately, each person needs to take care of their own SL and RL.  

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I think a lot of people are disconnected from feelings even in RL, and even more so when interacting with what to them is just a computer screen with cartoon characters. The OP needs to learn that others aren't so emotionally disconnected and respect their feelings.

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14 hours ago, Roxy Couturier said:

Just tell her it was with another dude. Because, as we've all been told, time and time again, there are no women on the internet. (And if there were, they wouldn't be interested in virtual sex.)

I know you are joking, but my guess is she would be even more unhappy because not only would he be cheating, but also gay.

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48 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

I think a lot of people are disconnected from feelings even in RL, and even more so when interacting with what to them is just a computer screen with cartoon characters. The OP needs to learn that others aren't so emotionally disconnected and respect their feelings.

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@Macy Wezzog It's a bit late now but when your wife came in, you should have laughed and pointed at the screen and said "Look at this Second Life game, it's completely bonkers what players get up to! Whatever next?" and then closed the viewer and changed the subject 9_9

 I really hope SL sex DOESN'T count because someone once tricked me into clicking sit on a giant tentacle. I can't say anymore but you can probably guess...

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IMHO, it may or may not be porn.

However, if you are having pixel sex with someone other than your RL Partner and;

(a) you are in an exclusive relationship 

(b) your Partner has not said its OK to Pixel other people in SL

Then you most likely meet the definition of Cheating.

Sl has plenty of people who are into open relationships/Poly/whatever - so long as everyone knows in advance whats on the menu, then the only possible drama is someone discovering that this is *not* for them.

Someone who decides sneaking around is the way to go (maybe they like the thrill of taking the risk of discovery) - well; you knew what you were getting into......

Cheating can lead to conversations that begin like the .gif below and get worse.........

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No judgement here, we all have to live however we can square with our collective consciences....just bear the consequences like a grownup........

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First we need to define the terms sex and porn.  Are they synonyms?  I would say they are not. Sex can be had with or without porn. Porn can be considered an aid to the consummation of sex. Porn can be viewed with or without sex. But really, why? 

Sexual role playing in SL is not porn. Sexual role playing in SL is more than masturbation, there is another person taking part. Sex with a person other than your partner is cheating if you are in a relationship that defines itself as exclusive.  SLex is a form of sexual intimacy; it is sex with another person. Yes, that counts as cheating.

Sex with your self, also known as masturbating is not something I consider to be cheating. Viewing porn while masturbating, is not cheating. Watching someone else in SL sexually role playing, now that could be considered porn.

But that's only my opinion.  Any relationship has it's own parameters for what is cheating and what is not. 

It doesn't matter what the world thinks, it only matters what you and your partner have agreed to.

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15 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said:

I humbly submit that masturbation is sex, even if it is not cheating. 

Oh, I agree, it's sex.  But in order to be cheating, sex has to be with someone other than yourself. For that matter one needs to be in an exclusive relationship with someone other than yourself in order to cheat. Single people have been cheated enough I suppose, they can't be cheated on too.

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7 hours ago, Cindy Evanier said:

I wonder how many of you boys squirmed a little when I mentioned her name 😂

Yeah but, yeah but...they already kind of are "bobbitted" in SL.  You have to use ADD I think.  LOL.  I don't know I've never owned one nor been a dude in SL.  But, one has to use ADD/DETACH.  LOL

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17 hours ago, Roxy Couturier said:

Just tell her it was with another dude. Because, as we've all been told, time and time again, there are no women on the internet. (And if there were, they wouldn't be interested in virtual sex.)

Reminds me of that scene from White Chicks

 

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