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I think in the past I've asked a similar question...  But...  Recently LUSTHOUSE has changed their sim completely.  I very much dislike the new sim set up/ look/ environment, etc...  I'm curious to know if there is somewhere similar in set up.  I prefer places you can hang out at and even not speak to anyone if u wish not to. 

Upon looking around at different places.  I have come across gentlemens clubs.  Problem with gentlemens clubs is they are usually ultra 'stripper focused' to the upmost degree.  I have no problem at all with strippers.  But....  If I walk into a gentlemens club with my bf its usually a situation where we are being asked constantly and immediately about dances, tips, etc.  I'm looking for a place a little  more low key. 

In the past I have even had an issue with a clothing item when i tp to a gentlemens club...  The piece of clothing was not covering up all of the top area like it should.  I was OUTSIDE trying to fix the clothing and I got booted out before I could even fix it.  The only reason why I'm sharing this story is because I prefer to avoid situations like this.  I am a member of a few gentlemens clubs you pay a fee for that are in fact nice.  but...  I do realize the type of place I seem to be looking for is more of a sex club and less of a 'gentlemens' club.

I'd like to find a place a little more relaxed like LUSTHOUSE where you can say nothing if you don't feel like talking, watch only or even have decent conversation with others.  If anyone has any ideas I'd be interested to know.

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Unfortunately all places lately saying they’re a “gentleman’s club” are a strip club . It really sucks because I too would love to find an adult place to chill at in-world and not be asked if I want to work there the second I teleport in (seriously places that do this - stop that *****. Not every girl wants to work in your club -_-) 

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Caroline Takeda

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Girls

"Gentlemens Club" is actually a synonym for strip club. It is the same thing just a more fancy term for it. If you want to go to a chill adult place search for swinger resort, nude beach or adult similar. Another option is search for bar, music club, spa or similar and un-check G and M in the rating filter.

I  found one which is really nice and relaxing, It#s called "Senz". Swinger friendly beach resort with a club house and bar area. It is on a homestead hence max 20 avatars at the time. Actually good idea for yet another blog post. 🙂 I will post it here when finished.

Another rather busy one is "Maui Swingers" and "Temptations".
Cathy wrote something about Maui:
http://catherinepalen.com/2019/08/25/i-tested-for-you-the-maui-swingers-resort/

Top ones for members only (fees apply to join):

- Teqi's Lounge
- The Chamber Hotel

 

 

 

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Pussycat Catnap

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The problem with a lot of 'watcher friendly' places is that you end up with 40 avatars standing on the landing spot watching the 2 avatars that moved inside and waiting for something to 'happen'...

The 2 eventually give up at what looks like a dead joint full of bots and TP out.

It's kind of like nude beaches in RL... there's usually a huge stack of blokes up on the hill just outside the property with camera equipment... which destroys the desire to engage for anyone that actually went there to enjoy using the place.

 

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Cherylinn

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You might like one of my boyfriend's properties. We built it for our family and it's not geared toward stripping or a cash grab. Completely open and free for people to use.

There is no dress code for women (just men), and no open sex, but there are skyboxes for that.

There's a voyeur style dressing room for girls only. There is a men's cigar room with lapdance chairs and and some stripper poles.. but anyone can use them, we don't employ girls and don't allow escorting. Just thought it would be great if there was a place where couples could come to live out their play a bit.
We have a dance machine that I set up ... it's not one of those bad flappy arm dance machines either. There are some nice couple dances and some single dances too!

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tyrell Prime/36/39/63

 

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Jordan Whitt

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On 9/4/2020 at 8:32 PM, Caroline Takeda said:

Cathy wrote something about Maui:
http://catherinepalen.com/2019/08/25/i-tested-for-you-the-maui-swingers-resort/

I have to agree with the commenter who said this was a breach of the rule "What happens at Maui stays at Maui" regardless of whether the participants agreed to it or not.  It does make me reluctant to return there too.

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Jordan Whitt

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On 11/12/2020 at 9:40 PM, Caroline Takeda said:

Jordan,

 

I personally asked the owners of the place if it is ok to publish stuff from Maui as long as we have explicit consent from all participants.

It is!!

I personally disagree.  But not my sim, not my rules.

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Caroline Takeda

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11 hours ago, Sandra8675 said:

Maybe I missed something....  What exactly is okay with the owner to publish from Maui?

My colleague Cathy Palen published a story about Maui in her  "testet for you" series.

The two other protagonists of the story did consent to this being published, including explicit photos. Everybody involved was fine with  that, including the region owner. They even knew  before, that Cathy is a blogger and does write for SLA Media. But a few forum members here, who were not part of the story at all and had absolutely nothing to do with it, disagree with such stories being published.
 

P.S.: No. Cathy is not an ALT of me. Just in case somebody was wondering.

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Jordan Whitt

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2 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said:

But a few forum members here, who were not part of the story at all and had absolutely nothing to do with it, disagree with such stories being published.

Despite how the world and social media seems to be these days - ie people not being allowed to have differing opinions or thoughts of their own - as a member of Maui, I AM allowed to have an opinion about this.

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Caroline Takeda

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2 hours ago, Jordan Whitt said:

Despite how the world and social media seems to be these days - ie people not being allowed to have differing opinions or thoughts of their own - as a member of Maui, I AM allowed to have an opinion about this.

Of course you are entitled to have and voice an opinion.

It is just a little weird to me, that you disapprove of something being published, which has absolutely nothing to do with you at all, whilst at the same time the people involved did approve  it, including the actual sim owner. In fact, the guys actually enjoyed to be the protagonists.

It just happen to happen at a club you are a member off as well. That's all.

 

 

 

 

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Jordan Whitt

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9 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said:

Of course you are entitled to have and voice an opinion.

It is just a little weird to me, that you disapprove of something being published, which has absolutely nothing to do with you at all, whilst at the same time the people involved did approve  it, including the actual sim owner. In fact, the guys actually enjoyed to be the protagonists.

It just happen to happen at a club you are a member off as well. That's all.

No, I just agreed with a comment that said that the article in question broke one of the main rules of the club, and that it made me feel uncomfortable.

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3 hours ago, Jordan Whitt said:

No, I just agreed with a comment that said that the article in question broke one of the main rules of the club, and that it made me feel uncomfortable.

I just didn't see the point of posting the link at all.  Oh wait!  Exposure!   

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Drakonadrgora Darkfold

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a gentlemen's club is just a classy strip club. and all strip clubs are sex clubs at the end of the day. for that is the entire reason for them existing.

if you were a furry or didnt mind furries I could have listed a few clubs where most of the people there are chil and just there to enjoy the music of have a good time and respect each others limits.

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I have also had some issues finding "adult clubs" that aren't purely stripper-focused. For human avatars, that is. It's more or less the norm for furries.

For humans I've found Teqi's (dead silent except for horny IMs), Chamber Society (no free entry events, and I'm not going to spend that massive entry fee blindly, if at all) and even more exclusive places like that Maui beach that was mentioned that require interviews. Interviews, for erotic roleplay!

I don't know why those kinds of places are so rare or expensive on the human side of SL.

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Jordan Whitt

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On 12/5/2020 at 12:30 AM, Cinos Field said:

Teqi's (dead silent except for horny IMs)

Valid.

On 12/5/2020 at 12:30 AM, Cinos Field said:

Chamber Society 

Dead silent except for horny IMs.  Save your lindens.

On 12/5/2020 at 12:30 AM, Cinos Field said:

Maui beach that was mentioned that require interviews. Interviews, for erotic roleplay!

Past interviews I have had to join places were to ensure I knew what went on and that it wouldn't be a shock or surprise, and that I met the requirements.  

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Jordan Whitt

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1 hour ago, ballparkdogg said:

Any place beside Maui that is recommended that does not require interviews or hoops to jump thru?  My sl partner does not have a mesh head so that leaves us out

If it is a question of lindens, she should check out the Lelutka gift head that is being given away at the moment.

That being said, it may totally be a question of being her choice.  I resisted getting a mesh head for AGES because I loved my system look and didn't see the point in going mesh...until skin makers stopped supporting system and only did mesh appliers.

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