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I am very confused about the relationships formed in this sub-forum... I have seen a lot of topics stating "looking for a sugar mommy/daddy" or "looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend in sl".ย 

So, does anyone even IM the OP inworld? Do they talk to each other, become good friends or they hardly talk or, don't even talk after they meet for the first time? I have some conflicting opinions on this ๐Ÿค”

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10 minutes ago, shiviex said:

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So, does anyone even IM the OP inworld?ย ๐Ÿค”

I would say no.ย 

Well maybe some guys if you looking for a sugar daddy maybe.ย 

Personally I imed. A few people from the forum but nothing really happened after a few ims.ย 

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for good friendships it's needed to know a lot more than what most tell here, talking in real (inworld) shows fast that many times the interests and personalities don't match at all .. and born is the next disapointment ( for poster and replier)
There aren't many real searchers for sugardaddies but it mostly are jobless escorts looking for sponsors for their business and is a different thing.
Sometimes people also write they are bored or bored fast.. well gues what happens with that frienships soon....

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45 minutes ago, Alwin Alcott said:


There aren't many real searchers for sugardaddies but it mostly are jobless escorts looking for sponsors for their business and is a different thing.
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If it is only about looking for sponsors, then aren't they looking in the wrong sub-forum?

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1 minute ago, shiviex said:

If it is only about looking for sponsors, then aren't they looking in the wrong sub-forum?

yes, but there's no real forum for ehm.. that profession, although the pg employment section is full of this stuff in the form of adult clubs.

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I'd say it is probably a mixed bag of results, though likely not a high percentage of success.ย  I think some people have made a few initial contacts from their posts here, but just like in RL the people must be compatible in order to actually manage a friendship / relationship out of it.

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2 hours ago, shiviex said:

I am very confused about the relationships formed in this sub-forum... I have seen a lot of topics stating "looking for a sugar mommy/daddy" or "looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend in sl".ย 

So, does anyone even IM the OP inworld? Do they talk to each other, become good friends or they hardly talk or, don't even talk after they meet for the first time? I have some conflicting opinions on this ๐Ÿค”

sometimes yes..

does it last or work out.. most times no.

those looking for the sugar mommy/daddy are really just try to find gullible or foolish people that they can reverse findom/me and trick them into being the pay piggy giving them lindens to buy the avatar and clothing they want at which point they leave them. then go into groups and post lures to find the next fool and rinse and repeat the process. its an old scam/trick that many people play here and think that everyone is just dumb enough to fall for it.

some people are..

'buy me daddy/mommy i'll be your good little girl/boy'.... 'leaves a few days or weeks later laughing at the fool'...'posts in xyz group "im a sub/pet/slave/doll looking for a Master/Mommy/Daddy to own me and pamper me"... fool steps up and gets taken for a ride.. rinse and repeat...

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3 hours ago, shiviex said:

I am very confused about the relationships formed in this sub-forum...ย So, does anyone even IM the OP inworld? Do they talk to each other, become good friends or they hardly talk or, don't even talk after they meet for the first time? ย 

If itโ€™s remotely related to people or relationships, be they romantic, friendly, or otherwise, it is found here. I assume that conversations depend on the personalities of both parties, as all relationships do.ย 
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Iโ€™ve reached out a couple of times, but my schedule and personality tend to not be what folks need and I understand that. After the initial base-building period,ย I can go for weeks or months without talking to somebody and still consider that person a friend or acquaintance and catch up at a later date with no flow issues. A fair number of people require more attention and justification than that, and thatโ€™s okay too.ย 
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I suppose I should also note that I am not and have not looked for anyone that could be a romantic or kink interest. I suppose Iโ€™m rather dull in that regard. ๐Ÿ˜›ย 

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23 minutes ago, Drakonadrgora Darkfold said:

'buy me daddy/mommy i'll be your good little girl/boy'

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1 hour ago, shiviex said:

All the topics of people seeking sugar mommy/daddy end up in comedy mostly.

A person has every right according to the constitution and human rights to be a simp. Nothing wrong with that!

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12 hours ago, Nick0678 said:

A person has every right according to the constitution and human rights to be a simp. Nothing wrong with that!

At least in theory, the sugar daddy should get more action and attention than the simp.

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4 hours ago, Syo Emerald said:

At least in theory, the sugar daddy should get more action and attention than the simp.

Yes, although an online sugar daddy is actually a simp. At least in RL he gets some "service" in return.

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1 minute ago, Nick0678 said:

Yes, although an online sugar daddy is actually a simp. At least in RL he gets some "service" in return.

That is true, although I think RL sugar daddying is a bit more expensive than the SL equivalent. But of course, in RL you can put your hands on that sugar babe of yours. Thats why I compared the SL sugar daddy to the average online simp and by that comparison the SL sugar daddy might get a better deal than some dude thosing money at some twitch streamer girl.

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3 minutes ago, Syo Emerald said:

That is true, although I think RL sugar daddying is a bit more expensive than the SL equivalent. But of course, in RL you can put your hands on that sugar babe of yours. Thats why I compared the SL sugar daddy to the average online simp and by that comparison the SL sugar daddy might get a better deal than some dude thosing money at some twitch streamer girl.

Twitch "E" girls are a whole new category when it comes to simps but i assure you there are serious money being gifted in SL as well. For instance i happen to know a couple of girls in SL who have gold dug amounts of mid range 4 digits USD (not L$ pocket change). Women can easily spot an idiot who is willing to gift away money over realistically speaking nothing.

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3 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:

Twitch "E" girls are a whole new category when it comes to simps but i assure you there are serious money being gifted in SL as well. For instance i happen to know a couple of girls in SL who have gold dug amounts of mid range 4 digits USD (not L$ pocket change). Women can easily spot an idiot who is willing to gift away money over realistically speaking nothing.

I'm not doubting that, as there are always men giving silly amounts of money to women online. So I think that is not really SL specific sugar daddying.

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This forum is mainly used to vent if you're ultra-bored. There may be 1 serious, non-idiotic post once in a while but I seriously doubt 95% of the posts here really end up with any lasting relationships. I mean 90% of the posts are literally "hey I'm looking for friends/partner/poseball sex buddy/sugar daddy" with completely empty profiles. If that's how relationships are formed then I would have 508 husbands by now.

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