Pearl making it clear

[Silent Mistwalker 1,894]

1 minute ago, Bagnu said:

That is so true!!! I do actually like some of my clients!!!

So then you do agree the discussion includes relationships of all kinds?

[Bagnu 2,738]

3 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:

Maybe they do , here the rates are a bit high to sit and chat or smoke some weed, minimal 200usd for an hour.

(*talking about professional escorts from agencies, not street girls..)

Here, for a true professional $500 CAD per hour. And that was years ago.

[Bagnu 2,738]

1 minute ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

So then you do agree the discussion includes relationships of all kinds?

Ok, you lost me. I do love discussing all kinds of relationships!!!!

[FairreLilette 3,828]

10 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:

Maybe they do , here the rates are a bit high to sit and chat or smoke some weed, minimal 200usd for an hour.

(*talking about professional escorts from agencies, not street girls..)

Well, if all they want is sex, why not a cheaper "street girl" as opposed to a high class call girl or an escort?  Here in America, I believe some are considered high class call girls and these are the kind that are specially picked and some times for the rich man with special etiquette as some go on an actual date with the man like to a dinner function for example.  They have to offer a lot and some times it's personality or humor or compassion, etc.  So, it would seem to me with the more money involved, it's more than mere sex as in instant "pounce".  

 

Edited July 27, 2020 by FairreLilette

[Nick0678 2,191]

1 minute ago, Bagnu said:

Here, for a true professional $500 CAD per hour. And that was years ago.

We have those VIP escorts too who also go higher than that amount, they usually fly to town for a few days but it's way too high for the "local economy standards" so it's rare to select those.

 

[Luna Bliss 5,869]

22 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:

36 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

I think what they need is what they determine they need, and not what you tell them they need or who they should be talking to.

I can understand your frustration,  you have never been with an RL sex escort (from a professional escorts agency) so... You can think whatever you like it's a free world.

It's true, I haven't.  Have you?  If so,  should you assume that any professional escort in your country would be the same as escorts in other countries?   And should you assume that experiences in RL in any country would be the same as what happens with virtual escort experiences?

[Nick0678 2,191]

34 minutes ago, FairreLilette said:

Well, if all they want is sex, why not a cheaper "street girl" as opposed to a high class call girl or an escort?  Here in America, I believe some are considered high class call girls and these are the kind that are specially picked and some times for the rich man with special etiquette as some go on an actual date with the man like to a dinner function for example.  They have to offer a lot and some times it's personality or humor or compassion, etc.  So, it would seem to me with the more money involved, it's more than mere sex as in instant "pounce". 

Street girls have their customers too.

Same way that some people buy Iphones and some people buy Nokias.. they are both phones if you think of it but still Iphones look better than Nokias..

Compassion.. sure

[Silent Mistwalker 1,894]

45 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

Ok, you lost me. I do love discussing all kinds of relationships!!!!

We were discussing whether or not sex is one of the most (if not the most) important aspect of a relationship. All kinds of relationships, including escorts and their clients. All I was saying is for most relationships, sex is pretty much the least important thing. There are far too man other things that are far more important. 

Anyway, we did agree to disagree so I'll leave it at that.

[Bagnu 2,738]

2 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

We were discussing whether or not sex is one of the most (if not the most) important aspect of a relationship. All kinds of relationships, including escorts and their clients. All I was saying is for most relationships, sex is pretty much the least important thing. There are far too man other things that are far more important. 

Anyway, we did agree to disagree so I'll leave it at that.

I can't agree to disagree, because I fully agree with you. Sex is a starting point. Other things become more important afterwards in a relationship. It can fall apart though if the libidos don't match. I'm not in SL for a relationship. I have that in RL. I want to live my sexual fantasy, and of course to make friends!!!

[Solar Legion 3,691]

From the perspective of someone who is quite sexual: Sex is not a starting point nor is it high on the list of priorities for a relationship of any sort.

Is that just my take? Yep, people differ - failing to understand this will cause varied issues.

Also, I am in agreement that this topic as a whole ought to be moved into the Adult section of the forum. Said section - much like Adult rated regions - exists for a reason.

[Bagnu 2,738]

I wrote sex IS a starting point lol!!! At least that's how it's been in my RL!!!

[Talligurl 42,502]

On 7/26/2020 at 12:58 PM, Bagnu said:

After having been in the forums for a bit, I do feel "different "here!!!

Yeah I feel the same way sometimes, actually most of the time. It still feels like I am crashing someone's party. 

[Bagnu 2,738]

2 minutes ago, Talligurl said:

Yeah I feel the same way sometimes, actually most of the time. It still feels like I am crashing someone's party. 

This party is for all of us lol!!!

[FairreLilette 3,828]

1 hour ago, Nick0678 said:

Compassion.. sure

LOL

Not into that, eh?  

You never know though.  

 

[Nick0678 2,191]

1 hour ago, FairreLilette said:

LOL

Not into that, eh?  

You never know though. 

Hahaha but of course .. Compassion is the very first thing we think of since our childhood when we look at a woman, especially when browsing escort's naked photos, who am i to say no.

Edited July 28, 2020 by Nick0678

[Silent Mistwalker 1,894]

3 hours ago, Bagnu said:

I can't agree to disagree, because I fully agree with you. Sex is a starting point. Other things become more important afterwards in a relationship. It can fall apart though if the libidos don't match. I'm not in SL for a relationship. I have that in RL. I want to live my sexual fantasy, and of course to make friends!!!

It's not even a starting point if you want a relationship that lasts the test of time. You start with trust and honestly. And no it won't fall apart just because libidos don't match. It will fall apart if you don't bother to work on the relationship. It is a two way street not one way.

Good luck.

[Bagnu 2,738]

35 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

It's not even a starting point if you want a relationship that lasts the test of time. You start with trust and honestly. And no it won't fall apart just because libidos don't match. It will fall apart if you don't bother to work on the relationship. It is a two way street not one way.

Good luck.

I won't debate over this, because all our relationships are different. Working on a relationship is very important for sure. Long term definitely has it's ups and downs, and I am speaking from over over a decade of RL experience.

No relationship is a one way street. Friendships included.

Edited July 28, 2020 by Bagnu

[Akane Nacht 1,735]

1 hour ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

It's not even a starting point if you want a relationship that lasts the test of time. You start with trust and honestly.

and friendship & similar sense of humour... worked for me, 25 years and counting! 

Seks is a bonus - definitely need a shared sense of humour for that as you grow older 

[Akane Nacht 1,735]

10 hours ago, FairreLilette said:

Also, I have seen people respond to posters with an anime avatar forum badge, such as for an example, "you want your post to be accepted as adult, while your forum badge says otherwise".  Stuff like that.  Taking pot shots at the animes which I'd gather are not very liked and judged without question quite often. 

heh I chose my avatar name for an anime character. 😘

[Silent Mistwalker 1,894]

On 7/27/2020 at 6:14 PM, Bagnu said:

I won't debate over this, because all our relationships are different. Working on a relationship is very important for sure. Long term definitely has it's ups and downs, and I am speaking from over over a decade of RL experience.

No relationship is a one way street. Friendships included.

Wait until you've had 3 or 4 decades of RL experience, then you'll understand.

[Bagnu 2,738]

4 hours ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

Wait until you've had 3 or 4 decades of RL experience, then you'll understand.

 I'm not arguing your point. I'm just saying I've seen it happen, but relationships are all different