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3 minutes ago, Drakonadrgora Darkfold said:

well you missed one a little while back..  courtesy of me. I stirred up the hornet nest a few times on a few threads. even managed to maybe be the reason a few were locked or even removed.

Well here's looking forward to reading your future posts!

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Since everyone else can answer, I shall too. Yes, OP, you advertise, constantly, knowingly, while pretending it's not. I mean it's not hard for even the most English language challenged to see, i

Do you truly not see the absolute logic fail here?  

Because she isn't talking about her experiences as an escort.  It's the constant "I'm an escort" dropped into pretty much EVERYTHING.  Thread about renting a skybox - "I'm an escort".  Thread about Al

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11 hours ago, Bagnu said:

After having been in the forums for a bit, I do feel "different "here!!!

very few of the SL population frequent the forums. we're already all "different". 😉

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4 hours ago, Bagnu said:

The whole point of my thread was to point out I am not trying to self promote. 

Do you truly not see the absolute logic fail here?

 

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10 hours ago, Amina Sopwith said:

Do you truly not see the absolute logic fail here?

 

I don't claim to be infallible lol!!!

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12 hours ago, Akane Nacht said:

very few of the SL population frequent the forums. we're already all "different". 😉

Yes, we are different because we post on the forum but even on the forum there are those who are more different and some even disliked or come with a stigmata.   For example, "anime" avatars in the forum badge; many people seem to make comments that the person is "weird" or for child avatars in adult regions where they aren't supposed to be.  There are those that are "different" from the different but ultimately we'd like all to be accepted.  Except, most of us, if not all, are not for child avatars in Adult only no child avatar areas.  That's the one thing most, if not all, of us agree on.  Plus, I think many clubs would like us all to be human because many clubs don't want other kinds of avi's there as it takes away from the realism which I understand.   

As far as Bagnu, she is the first I've ever heard speak about her Adult SL so candidly.  I liked the honesty about it.  If it appears as advertising, I don't care as long as it's taken to private IM's here or inworld because otherwise it's someone soliciting Bagnu on the forum which she has already said she does not want unless it's in the WANTED or appropriate section but not in this thread.  

Also, I have seen people respond to posters with an anime avatar forum badge, such as for an example, "you want your post to be accepted as adult, while your forum badge says otherwise".  Stuff like that.  Taking pot shots at the animes which I'd gather are not very liked and judged without question quite often.  

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@Bagnu

Bagnu, if you care to share, and in a way that would not violate the personal information of those you work with, I'd be interested in knowing more about the companion aspects of your services -- the non-sexual parts. This interests me because I find it fascinating how people can change or feel better about life via interacting with others, and because I used to provide Reiki services in SL. Whether one believes in hands-on healing (in-person or virtually), it's interesting to note how people begin talking about their problems during a Reiki session, and I'm wondering if they do that when you are providing companionship. My clients would feel better after processing their problems while I listened and provided minimal feedback, as I would be giving my full attention and making it clear I desired to help. I think this 'listening' is an immeasurable service we can provide to others, often done in friendship but also a part of other paid helping venues.

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41 minutes ago, FairreLilette said:

As far as Bagnu, she is the first I've ever heard speak about her Adult SL so candidly.  I liked the honesty about it.  If it appears as advertising, I don't care as long as it's taken to private IM's here or inworld because otherwise it's someone soliciting Bagnu on the forum which she has already said she does not want unless it's in the WANTED or appropriate section but not in this thread.  

 

Thank you!!! I AM very candid, and PROUD of what I am!!! 

SL is an Adult community, and sexuality is a large part of it. Take out the Adult, and SL dies. It is a necessary part of our existence, both SL and RL!!!

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24 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

Thank you!!! I AM very candid, and PROUD of what I am!!! 

SL is an Adult community, and sexuality is a large part of it. Take out the Adult, and SL dies. It is a necessary part of our existence, both SL and RL!!!

I

On the "sex is a necessary part of our existence" we'll have to agree to disagree. Sex is only necessary for procreation. It is not necessary to have a meaningful relationship. I've never had sex in SL and will not. Partly because it doesn't interest me and partly because I have someone in RL and to me it would be cheating. That is something I do not do. In my RL relationship, sex is a very minor part of the relationship. You could even go so far as to say it is nonexistent. The relationship has endured some extremely rough times for over 20 years now.

As far as removing the sex aspects of SL, I have to agree to some extent. I don't believe it would kill SL completely. It could conceivably increase registration and retention once word got around that SL is no longer so sexually oriented. 

No, I'm not a prude. It just took a few decades to learn that sex really is not as important (the be all and end all!) in a relationship as I believed it to be when I was young. Some never do learn.

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This thread was ridiculous at its inception. There was, and IS, nothing that needs to be "made clear". Now it's gained ridiculousness and not even the good kind, it's not even remotely entertaining at this point (and glad to see I'm not alone in this). So...

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I don't know how many more people need to express their distaste for something before someone clues in and either locks the thread, or does what they's supposed to do, and removes the whole damn thing (compromise, move to to ADULT where it goes). I've seen people have threads removed for much, much less...but god forbid we offend the escort by telling her take her escorting to the section where it belongs.

I have no idea why they let this eff'n thread, started by an escort (I removed what I had here, lol) who has continuously insulted the entire community of people who have varying handicaps by saying that sleeping with a glorified hooker somehow makes them normal......

especially since they removed a post not long ago where a woman was referred to as a chick, and it offended someone.

Dear lord, stop the ride, I want off

 

 

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1 hour ago, Bagnu said:

Thank you!!! I AM very candid, and PROUD of what I am!!! 

SL is an Adult community, and sexuality is a large part of it. Take out the Adult, and SL dies. It is a necessary part of our existence, both SL and RL!!!

I

SL would not die if you removed the "paid sex" aspect of it. Remove the escorts, and prostitutes and SL as a whole would not collapse. I think you are giving those aspects way too much credit. Most people dont pay for sex. And those that do, how exactly does that keep SL running? Without influx of USD to L$ the economy would die. Merchants and land barons keep SL running. 

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41 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

@Bagnu

Bagnu, if you care to share, and in a way that would not violate the personal information of those you work with, I'd be interested in knowing more about the companion aspects of your services -- the non-sexual parts. This interests me because I find it fascinating how people can change or feel better about life via interacting with others, and because I used to provide Reiki services in SL. Whether one believes in hands-on healing (in-person or virtually), it's interesting to note how people begin talking about their problems during a Reiki session, and I'm wondering if they do that when you are providing companionship. My clients would feel better after processing their problems while I listened and provided minimal feedback, as I would be giving my full attention and making it clear I desired to help. I think this 'listening' is an immeasurable service we can provide to others, often done in friendship but also a part of other paid helping venues.

That is a very interesting question.  A few clients do like to chat. Some I've spent a lot of time chatting with on different occasions before they rent me. And I do enjoy the chat.

A true professional RL Escort will also provide emotional relief, and I certainly would do the same in SL if a client needed it. 

My clients are sexually excited when they pay for my companionship. Some open up about their sexual fantasies, and we do actually discuss that during our session. It's my responsibility to help with that. It does get them even more excited, and myself as well. When they go to you for healing, they have a need for relief of their issue. That's exactly the same in my profession. You listening to your clients discuss their problems is the same as me telling one to use every part of me. Just different relief for different issues.

 

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12 minutes ago, Drake1 Nightfire said:

SL would not die if you removed the "paid sex" aspect of it. Remove the escorts, and prostitutes and SL as a whole would not collapse. I think you are giving those aspects way too much credit. Most people dont pay for sex. And those that do, how exactly does that keep SL running? Without influx of USD to L$ the economy would die. Merchants and land barons keep SL running. 

 I meant the sexual aspect, free or otherwise. Nowhere in my post did I refer to paid sex.

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48 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

On the "sex is a necessary part of our existence" we'll have to agree to disagree. Sex is only necessary for procreation. It is not necessary to have a meaningful relationship. I've never had sex in SL and will not. Partly because it doesn't interest me and partly because I have someone in RL and to me it would be cheating. That is something I do not do. In my RL relationship, sex is a very minor part of the relationship. You could even go so far as to say it is nonexistent. The relationship has endured some extremely rough times for over 20 years now.

As far as removing the sex aspects of SL, I have to agree to some extent. I don't believe it would kill SL completely. It could conceivably increase registration and retention once word got around that SL is no longer so sexually oriented. 

No, I'm not a prude. It just took a few decades to learn that sex really is not as important (the be all and end all!) in a relationship as I believed it to be when I was young. Some never do learn.

We will have to agree to disagree lol!!!

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16 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

A true professional RL Escort will also provide emotional relief,...

Well not really, an RL Escort is not a psychologist and at least here in Europe most don't even speak the local language well enough to listen to some random dudes personal issues plus the clock starts ticking the moment she enters the apartment, you have already arranged for a specific amount of time and she does have other appointments after yours. Maybe it seemed to be like that in the "Pretty woman" movie.

In SL it's easy to do such stuff due to not having physical, everyone is at home drinking some orange juice / trimming their nails and the cost is nowhere near to having an RL escort for a couple of hours.

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6 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:
58 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

A true professional RL Escort will also provide emotional relief,...

Well not really, an RL Escort is not a psychologist

Providing emotional relief does not equate to being a Psychologist anymore than helping a friend during a tough time means the helper is a Psychologist.

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Just now, Luna Bliss said:

Providing emotional relief does not equate to being a Psychologist anymore than helping a friend during a tough time means the helper is a Psychologist.

We are talking about RL sex escorts here, not friends.

She is not a friend, she is a professional and definitely not your girlfriend.

Fact is she probably already had her own psychology "traumatized" before your appointment, having whatever kind of sexual intercourse with any type of weird, ugly people you wouldn't even imagine having sex with or tolerating. Not everyone who calls an RL escort looks or acts like Richard Gere you know.

They do the job and are gone. So if somebody wants emotional support they should get a girlfriend or talk to their mom.

 

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Here in north America some men will pay for a "companion", even if no sex is involved. Some will just smoke crack, or talk. I have heard this from RL Escorts that I know.

I can't speak from personal experience, because I don't Escort in RL, and I won't pretend that I do. 

Pretty Woman is nothing like Escorting, even in SL.

The SL part I DO know!!!

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9 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:
21 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

Providing emotional relief does not equate to being a Psychologist anymore than helping a friend during a tough time means the helper is a Psychologist.

We are talking about RL sex escorts here, not friends.

She is not a friend, she is a professional and definitely not your girlfriend.

Fact is she probably already had her own psychology "traumatized" before your appointment, having whatever kind of sexual intercourse with any type of weird, ugly people you wouldn't even imagine having sex with or tolerating. Not everyone who calls an RL escort looks or acts like Richard Gere you know.

They do the job and are gone. So if somebody wants emotional support they should get a girlfriend or talk to their mom.

I think what they need is what they determine they need, and not what you tell them they need or who they should be talking to.

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1 hour ago, Bagnu said:

We will have to agree to disagree lol!!!

I get the impression you are in your 20s or 30s.  You've got a decade or two to go. For most people, the older you get, the less important sex is to a relationship. 

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/is-sex-important-in-a-relationship#underlying-need

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sociability/201304/how-important-is-sex

And for the grins n giggles: https://www.yourtango.com/2017302475/4-reasons-sex-least-important-part-relationship

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1 minute ago, Luna Bliss said:

I think what they need is what they determine they need, and not what you tell them they need or who they should be talking to.

I can understand your frustration,  you have never been with an RL sex escort (from a professional escorts agency) so... You can think whatever you like it's a free world.

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8 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

I get the impression you are in your 20s or 30s.  You've got a decade or two to go. For most people, the older you get, the less important sex is to a relationship. 

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/is-sex-important-in-a-relationship#underlying-need

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sociability/201304/how-important-is-sex

And for the grins n giggles: https://www.yourtango.com/2017302475/4-reasons-sex-least-important-part-relationship

Lol I wish!!! I'm not an old lady though!!! And this discussion is not about relationships..

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20 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

Here in north America some men will pay for a "companion", even if no sex is involved. Some will just smoke crack, or talk. I have heard this from RL Escorts that I know.

Maybe they do , here the rates are a bit high to sit and chat or smoke some weed, minimal 200usd for an hour.

(*talking about professional escorts from agencies, not street girls..)

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1 minute ago, Bagnu said:

Lol I wish!!! I'm not an old lady though!!!

Gee thanks. I am. Did you know you don't have to wait until you are 65 to join AARP? You can join at age 50. I can honestly say 50 is not old. And yes, I am well past 50.

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6 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

Lol I wish!!! I'm not an old lady though!!! And this discussion is not about relationships..

Whether you want to look at it this way or not, escorts do have a kind of relationship with their clients.

 

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Just now, Silent Mistwalker said:

Whether you want to look at it this way or not, escorts do have a kind of relationship with their clients.

That is so true!!! I do actually like some of my clients!!!

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