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Since everyone else can answer, I shall too. Yes, OP, you advertise, constantly, knowingly, while pretending it's not. I mean it's not hard for even the most English language challenged to see, i

Do you truly not see the absolute logic fail here?  

Because she isn't talking about her experiences as an escort.  It's the constant "I'm an escort" dropped into pretty much EVERYTHING.  Thread about renting a skybox - "I'm an escort".  Thread about Al

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21 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

I feel so terrible that I caused all this fighting and confusion!!!

You're a very nice person, Bagnu.  

I don't mind how you want to advertise.   I've always had sigs turned off because there is much to read on here as it is plus sigs would just be repetitive.

This thread is not about 'what' you advertise as Love has asked, that may make this thread need to be in the Adult section.  Besides, what you do offer should be in your inworld profile and not asked in this thread.  That's too Adult a subject to get into in this section.

I did request that the thread be moved; however, it is never known if a mod can or will show up on a Sunday, so movement of the thread to the Adult section may take some time.  

 

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18 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said:

Got a male avatar for customers that want your services from one, or just female?

I'm only Pearl. It would be impossible for me to establish another AV on a psychological level. So no alts for me unless it's administrative, and they are inactive inworld

The test was me trying to change line spacing. I didn't know it would post lol!!!

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1 minute ago, FairreLilette said:

You're a very nice person, Bagnu.  

I don't mind how you want to advertise.   I've always had sigs turned off because there is much to read on here as it is plus sigs would just be repetitive.

This thread is not about 'what' you advertise as Love has asked, that may make this thread need to be in the Adult section.  Besides, what you do offer should be in your inworld profile and not asked in this thread.  That's too Adult a subject to get into in this section.

I did request that the thread be moved; however, it is never known if a mod can or will show up on a Sunday, so movement of the thread to the Adult section may take some time.  

 

Thank you!!! I'm really not trying to advertise here. I go inworld for that sort of thing!!! I have no issues with this thread being moved.!!!

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32 minutes ago, AdminGirl said:

Aw no need. You're lovely and always civil. I appreciate that ❤️

Thank you!!! I always try to be civil. I really don't like it when others aren't. Rudeness truly bothers me!!! Both RL and SL!!!!

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6 minutes ago, Bagnu said:
28 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said:

Got a male avatar for customers that want your services from one, or just female?

I'm only Pearl. It would be impossible for me to establish another AV on a psychological level. So no alts for me unless it's administrative, and they are inactive inworld

The test was me trying to change line spacing. I didn't know it would post lol!!!

Are your services only for males? I can always switch to my female avatar..

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2 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said:

Are your services only for males? I can always switch to my female avatar..

You are losing me this. If you want to join me inworld to Escort too, it would be fun!!!

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12 hours ago, AdminGirl said:

However, you don't have to care about how others perceive you. That's your prerogative. And it is true as you said, anyone who dislikes what you say can easily just ignore your posts. But you did create this thread to at least talk about it. So here we all are.

I have felt "different" for being a Dinkie.  I have spoken about what a Dinkie is and what a tiny is as we are not human child avatars.  

I was wondering if Bagnu felt "different" here too.

There are some of us who are different.  She did out herself for the first time I saw in the "Hookers or Not?" thread which I thought was taking women back hundreds of years as the OP of that thread presumed that women who dress sexy in SL are hookers.  I dress sexy in SL for myself because it's clothes I would not buy in my real life at this time.  Plus, I try on all kinds of looks here.  I have not tried the Kawaii dress yet because I feel I would not be accepted in too many places inworld as a Kawaii and I am not going to do the cyber thing at all anyways whether Kawaii or not so I would be Kawaii for non-sexual reasons, of course.  But, as a Dinkie, it's already very limiting as to where one can and cannot go inworld.  Plus, I wanted to let people know what a tiny is.  When sims say "tiny friendly" that does not mean child avatar.  Tiny friendly means tinies and Dinkies and other small avatars such as a dancing flower or a bee for a couple of examples.  Tinies are all non-human but have human characteristics, and the very small petite fairies hang out with tinies too.  Dinkies are a tiny cat with a human soul, kind of like Mickey Mouse is a mouse but a boy also.  

But, I was wondering, since Bagnu outted herself in a thread where I was glad she came on board to talk about which was the Hookers or Not thread, if she felt nervous or "different" and maybe she is speaking about it because she wants it to be acceptable and/or she wants to be accepted.  

So, all I can say, with all my arm chair psychology here, is that the vast majority are not going to judge Bagnu for what she does and I hope she feels more comfortable just being herself.  

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5 minutes ago, FairreLilette said:

I have felt "different" for being a Dinkie.  I have spoken about what a Dinkie is and what a tiny is as we are not human child avatars.  

I was wondering if Bagnu felt "different" here too.

There are some of us who are different.  She did out herself for the first time I saw in the "Hookers or Not?" thread which I thought was taking women back hundreds of years as the OP of that thread presumed that women who dress sexy in SL are hookers.  I dress sexy in SL for myself because it's clothes I would not buy in my real life at this time.  Plus, I try on all kinds of looks here.  I have not tried the Kawaii dress yet because I feel I would not be accepted in too many places inworld as a Kawaii and I am not going to do the cyber thing at all anyways whether Kawaii or not.  But, still, as a Dinkie, it's already very limiting as to where one can and cannot go inworld.  Plus, I wanted to let people know what a tiny is.  When sims say "tiny friendly" that does not mean child avatar.  Tiny friendly means tinies and Dinkies and other small avatars such as a dancing flower or a bee for a couple of examples.  Tinies are all non-human but have human characteristics, and the very small petite fairies hang out with tinies too.  Dinkies are a tiny cat with a human soul, kind of like Mickey Mouse is a mouse but a boy also.  

But, I was wondering, since Bagnu outted herself in a thread where I was glad she came on board to talk about which was the Hookers or Not thread, if she felt nervous or "different" and maybe she is speaking about it because she wants it to be acceptable and/or she wants to be accepted.  

So, all I can say, with all my arm chair psychology here, is that the vast majority are not going to judge Bagnu for what she does and I hope she feels more comfortable just being herself.  

I truly didn't know what it was like here in the forums. I was just being honest and speaking my mind in that thread, Inworld, I'm a part of my community, so I never even had to think about being different. Although my personality is quite forward, and eccentric so people remember me. After having been in the forums for a bit, I do feel "different "here!!!

Really for me, there was nothing to out. I started off being sexual, and I"m proud of it!!!

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10 hours ago, Bagnu said:

I truly didn't know what it was like here in the forums. I was just being honest and speaking my mind in that thread, Inworld, I'm a part of my community, so I never even had to think about being different. Although my personality is quite forward, and eccentric so people remember me. After having been in the forums for a bit, I do feel "different "here!!!

Really for me, there was nothing to out. I started off being sexual, and I"m proud of it!!!

I felt "different" here too as a Dinkie.  I was sure people were wondering..."what's that?"  I'm not a that.  It's actually adorkable especially the way the Dinkies animate.

I am not sexual in SL.  And, what I meant about even being involved in Kawaii, there would be nothing "pervy" about it because I am not involved in cybering even as an Adult female in SL.  But, people might presume that being a Kawaii is really wrong and that I am doing something wrong when I wouldn't be.  

But, I really didn't know if I wanted to get into the Kawaii community with it being limited to Kawaii like tinies are limited to tiny.

As far as you talking about what you do, it's a part of who you are in SL and there is nothing wrong with it.  Most of us simply do not agree with the child stuff in regards to SL in general, not speaking to you Bagnu, because you present yourself as an Adult woman always.  I mean most of us know that SL has a very Adult community and most of us are quite accepting of it unless the child thing.  

And, as far as Adult, it's part of what SL is and it includes paid for services.  There is no need to hide it, deny it, or think it strange that it's someone's SL.  

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2 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said:

To the OP: do we need to send you L$ first? What's your rate? Asking for a friend.

 

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I discuss my rates with other Escorts to compare notes., or a potential client inworld. Please don't refer anyone to me.

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7 hours ago, Bagnu said:

I added a signature, which I didn't know how to do before. I'm confused though. No one complains if someone has a link to their business in their signature, but I offend people by discussing what I know and am comfortable with? I do understand some may be uncomfortable with my profession, and that's fair. But I would rather be chastised for something I do, rather than than something I truly never meant to do!!!

 

It's not really a matter of "us" (forum users) getting offended or uncomfortable by your repeated emphasis on being an escort, and/or being happier that it's in your signature now.

It's actually in the forum rules. Self-promotion in a signature is allowed - maximum 2 lines. Self-promotion within the body of a post is not allowed. It doesn't matter whether we, the readers like it or not. But if the Lindens or the moderators decide they don't like it, it can get you suspended or banned from the forum. 

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The whole point of my thread was to point out I am not trying to self promote. I don't know if I can make it any clearer. Please go and try to do what you believe I have done, and see how many clients you get.. You will find you are wasting your time...just as I have been replying here.

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Even clearer. It is in my signature that I don't accept clients from the forums. I will reply to an ad, but not deliberately self promote.

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9 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

Even clearer. It is in my signature that I don't accept clients from the forums. I will reply to an ad, but not deliberately self promote.

That seems like a bad business model... Refusing customers just because they have posted on the forums? Thats discrimination... 

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2 hours ago, Maitimo said:

It's not really a matter of "us" (forum users) getting offended or uncomfortable by your repeated emphasis on being an escort, and/or being happier that it's in your signature now.

It's actually in the forum rules. Self-promotion in a signature is allowed - maximum 2 lines. Self-promotion within the body of a post is not allowed. It doesn't matter whether we, the readers like it or not. But if the Lindens or the moderators decide they don't like it, it can get you suspended or banned from the forum. 

The very first post I EVER did (in the old forums) was a self promotion. I didn't get banned from the forums...not for THAT lol.

I've broken all kindsa rules in THESE forums and never got in any trouble. I say do what ya wanna do, and just play cool til the gov team comes!

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Oy.

Vey.

Like Lil said up there somewhere, I'm an infrequent visitor to the Forum these days, yet every single time I come in to look at a thread there's "I'm an ESCORT!!!" being stated. Regardless of the topic of the thread. If *I* am getting sick of it, I can imagine what the people who are still regulars must think.

I think Jordan mentioned that she's several things inworld, most of us are, to some extent. I know I've talked about some of my :::cough::: reasons for being in SL (photography, I'm talking photography). We just don't hammer people over the head with it with a 2x4 repeatedly.

And like other disclaimers: I couldn't care less, not one eff less, if you are an escort or a squirrel barber in SL.  

THIS whole thread was ludicrous, frankly. Escort, escort, did you mention escort? Enthusiastic escort. Btw, escort. By hey, not advertising the fact.... nope, not at all. Just letting everyone know every single moment, "Escort" and nothing else.

Since you have figured out signature lines, and you are now advertising your business in the ways that comply with the community guidelines, it will be interesting to see if you actually have anything remotely interesting on any other topic besides: Did you know I'm an escort?

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3 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said:

Since you have figured out signature lines, and you are now advertising your business in the ways that comply with the community guidelines, it will be interesting to see if you actually have anything remotely interesting on any other topic besides: Did you know I'm an escort?

If you want to discuss photog, fashion, or even PC's, then sure. Otherwise no.

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Literally why does this thread even exist?

1. Whoever made the original accusation should've just reported and moved on. If the Lindens think Bagnu is breaking rules too much, they can clean it up and give her a warning.

2. Making your own dedicated thread about how you're an escort but "totally not advertising" is like taking a shotgun to your own foot. You've now created a bright neon sign in the general (most popular) section of the forum about yourself and what you do. This is literally the opposite of what you're defending.

3. As others have pointed out, Bagnu does mention her hobby-profession very frequently, which is arguably exactly what people are saying.

4. Responding to someone else's post with an offer to get paid for it is totally fine. Otherwise the Inworld Employment / Wanted sections would be pretty pointless. Even outside of those specific sections, it'd be stupidly strict to absolutely restrict any kind of offer when someone is asking for something related, like the screenshot on the first page of this thread where someone is looking for a pet. Even if they didn't say they'd pay for it, it's pretty reasonable to offer that option in case they are interested. As long as it's directly related. See #1. 

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10 hours ago, Bagnu said:

but I offend people by discussing what I know and am comfortable with?

For the bazillionth time, I'm not offended by you being an escort!  You do you and all power to you!  What offends me is...  "Blah blah blah about generic topic blah blah.  I'm an escort!  Blah blah blah about generic topic."  What offends me is pointing out it's coming across as trolling for clients and getting "but I'm new and it's all I know" in response.  And now you are justifying it by calling it your "identity."  We ALL have identities, but we're not all throwing it out there and shoving it down the forum's throats every chance we get.  

10 hours ago, Bagnu said:

I do understand some may be uncomfortable with my profession

As it has been pointed out incredibly eloquently by others, no-one cares that you are an escort.  Speaking for myself, I am not uncomfortable with it.  Like many in SL, I started out my SL journey working in that field and I have no qualms about anyone who does.  What I am uncomfortable with is pointing out, repeatedly, that you are promoting yourself, and instead of taking a moment and reflecting and saying to yourself, "Hey maybe all these people who think I'm trolling have a point," you've not only continued doing it, but now you have a whole thread trying to excuse yourself for doing it.

10 hours ago, Bagnu said:

But I would rather be chastised for something I do, rather than than something I truly never meant to do!!!

You were...and here we are with a thread where you are playing the victim.

10 hours ago, Bagnu said:

This actually reminds me of the first thread I replied to, where the OP was questioning if girls standing around were hookers or not. In this case advertising or not. I have to say the same thing here. When we are advertising or soliciting we make it very clear. 

No-one said anything about you mentioning you're an escort there did they?  I wonder why that would be.  Hang on...BECAUSE IT'S A THREAD ABOUT ESCORTING.

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13 hours ago, Drakonadrgora Darkfold said:

And not all escorts do cam or voice or have to either because some males think they need to because they are an arrogant ignorant delusional homophobic narcissistic chauvinistic egotistical pig.

that if they refuse that it must mean they have to be a male and not a female if it was a female escort that was being paid for.

what an escort does within the time being paid for is his/her choice, not entirely up to the patron.

I found something else we can agree to disagree on!!!

1.  I don't think it's very nice to call men names just because they want cam or voice.  They have their reasons - they want to be sure the escort is female, it's what they like/gets them off etc.  Name calling uncalled for.

2.  My "go-to" response to "no pics/no voice/no cam" has always been "cos I have a pen*s and it's probably bigger than yours".  And I am not a man.  It's just human nature to think "hmm what are they hiding?"  

3.  What an escort does with the time being paid for is up to the one paying them.  They have their rate cards which should clearly state what they will and won't do, how much they charge for said services, and they are able to say "Yeah, no," if they are approached for a service they do not want to do.  After all, if I am paying you for a painting of an apple and you give me a painting of a banana instead...

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1 hour ago, Seicher Rae said:

Oy.

Vey.

Like Lil said up there somewhere, I'm an infrequent visitor to the Forum these days, yet every single time I come in to look at a thread there's "I'm an ESCORT!!!" being stated. Regardless of the topic of the thread. If *I* am getting sick of it, I can imagine what the people who are still regulars must think.

I think Jordan mentioned that she's several things inworld, most of us are, to some extent. I know I've talked about some of my :::cough::: reasons for being in SL (photography, I'm talking photography). We just don't hammer people over the head with it with a 2x4 repeatedly.

And like other disclaimers: I couldn't care less, not one eff less, if you are an escort or a squirrel barber in SL.  

THIS whole thread was ludicrous, frankly. Escort, escort, did you mention escort? Enthusiastic escort. Btw, escort. By hey, not advertising the fact.... nope, not at all. Just letting everyone know every single moment, "Escort" and nothing else.

Since you have figured out signature lines, and you are now advertising your business in the ways that comply with the community guidelines, it will be interesting to see if you actually have anything remotely interesting on any other topic besides: Did you know I'm an escort?

They sanitized THESE forums a LONG time ago. I for one wouldn't MIND reading a buncha  escort-self-promotin' threads FOR REAL. lol or a good lil forums WAR! Hehehehehehe

 

Like "Folks Gettin' Woke"...man. go 'head on hahahahahahahaha

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5 minutes ago, Jumpman Lane said:

They sanitized THESE forums a LONG time ago. I for one wouldn't MIND reading a buncha  escort-self-promotin' threads FOR REAL. lol or a good lil forums WAR! Hehehehehehe

well you missed one a little while back..  courtesy of me. I stirred up the hornet nest a few times on a few threads. even managed to maybe be the reason a few were locked or even removed.

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