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Hi everyone,

So, here's a bit of backstory before I get onto to my questions. I've only been on SL for a few months. During this time, I've done a small bit of dancing and escorting here and there but mostly due to receiving a couple weird requests early on... that although didn't all end in sex per-say, definitely ventured me into that strange fetishy part of SL. Although it did come across like a weird but (mostly) fun writing assignment (and was surprisingly lucrative?), after those experiences I'm still not quite sure I want to pursue escorting (even though I find that much easier than dancing for some reason? More variety I suppose..) I think I would rather pursue dancing as of now. So! That being said! Finally onto my questions....

For anyone who dances (primarily freelance):

How many emotes should I have written up and ready in my arsenal? Obviously, I understand some things will have to be improv and done on the fly depending on the situation - that's fine. But how many standard ways of doing certain things do you have written up? Do you have it organized by section?

How long do one-on-one dances usually go on for? If someone sits at your chair, how long are they generally there for? What's your standard 'rule' for disrobing? Do you go back to the pole after removing an item of clothing or stay with the client?

Do you expect them to pay you before/during/after? If they ask for you to go elsewhere with them 'for more fun' when you'd rather just keep dancing is there a way to politely decline?

I'm sure I have more questions but these are the ones that immediately spring to my mind. Like I said, I've only done a small bit of any of this (and honestly was just very lucky with timing, as these things sort of fell into my lap. It also helps that the gentlemen I have been with were very understanding upon seeing how new I was). I'd really appreciate any help anyone can offer.

Thanks!

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2 hours ago, alixxilhice said:

Hi everyone,

So, here's a bit of backstory before I get onto to my questions. I've only been on SL for a few months. During this time, I've done a small bit of dancing and escorting here and there but mostly due to receiving a couple weird requests early on... that although didn't all end in sex per-say, definitely ventured me into that strange fetishy part of SL. Although it did come across like a weird but (mostly) fun writing assignment (and was surprisingly lucrative?), after those experiences I'm still not quite sure I want to pursue escorting (even though I find that much easier than dancing for some reason? More variety I suppose..) I think I would rather pursue dancing as of now. So! That being said! Finally onto my questions....

For anyone who dances (primarily freelance):

How many emotes should I have written up and ready in my arsenal? Obviously, I understand some things will have to be improv and done on the fly depending on the situation - that's fine. But how many standard ways of doing certain things do you have written up? Do you have it organized by section?

How long do one-on-one dances usually go on for? If someone sits at your chair, how long are they generally there for? What's your standard 'rule' for disrobing? Do you go back to the pole after removing an item of clothing or stay with the client?

Do you expect them to pay you before/during/after? If they ask for you to go elsewhere with them 'for more fun' when you'd rather just keep dancing is there a way to politely decline?

I'm sure I have more questions but these are the ones that immediately spring to my mind. Like I said, I've only done a small bit of any of this (and honestly was just very lucky with timing, as these things sort of fell into my lap. It also helps that the gentlemen I have been with were very understanding upon seeing how new I was). I'd really appreciate any help anyone can offer.

Thanks!

Usually it's $L250 for topless. and $L500 for naked. I never have any prewritten emotes. I say what we have fun with!!!  But do have a prewritten arsenal for you to practice with. I personally enjoy Escorting more. Too many rules as an employed dancer for my taste. The time we stay with a client depends on the club rules before we go back to a pole.

For Escorting, always get paid before. Make sure to friend your client before starting, so that if they crash, or you do you can refund $L. I do it prorated.

If a client want's to go elsewhere for more fun that's fine...if they are willing to pay!!!

Some guys are not nice, so be prepared for that.

Escorting IS hard work, so you have to really be dedicated. I love it personally!!!

I would love to meet you inworld sometime. IM me. It will be fun and easier to discuss these things inworld!!!

P.S,: be sleazy and kinky, but NOT cheap!!!

 

 

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2 hours ago, Bagnu said:

Usually it's $L250 for topless. and $L500 for naked. I never have any prewritten emotes. I say what we have fun with!!!  But do have a prewritten arsenal for you to practice with. I personally enjoy Escorting more. Too many rules as an employed dancer for my taste. The time we stay with a client depends on the club rules before we go back to a pole.

For Escorting, always get paid before. Make sure to friend your client before starting, so that if they crash, or you do you can refund $L. I do it prorated.

If a client want's to go elsewhere for more fun that's fine...if they are willing to pay!!!

Some guys are not nice, so be prepared for that.

Escorting IS hard work, so you have to really be dedicated. I love it personally!!!

I would love to meet you inworld sometime. IM me. It will be fun and easier to discuss these things inworld!!!

P.S,: be sleazy and kinky, but NOT cheap!!!

 

 

Wow! I didn't expect to receive any kind of quick responses as I wasn't sure if my questions were too obvious or overly asked, so I really appreciate the feedback!

Yeah, that's understandable. When I was briefly considering trying to work as an 'employed dancer', I quickly realized some of the rules seemed a bit too restrictive for my liking. I'm here for fun and to make some $L on the side and unfortunately they make it sound like such an obligation (well... it's a job, so I understand it absolutely *IS* an obligation. Just not one I'd currently be willing to take on unless I found the right place) so freelance seems like the way to go for me for now.

In regards to escorting ... that's really smart about about friending them first!

Unfortunately, I've definitely already been on the receiving end of someone who turned out to be not-so-nice. Thankfully, this all happened AFTER our first encounter was already done with and he had already compensated me; so there was no love-loss once they turned out to be a jerk. Apparently he felt I was obligated to continue things with him well after our VERY LONG (and incredibly bizarre/hilarious) first encounter.

That would be great! I'll be sure to reach out! Thanks again!

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You have to tell me!!! Just not here in the forums. Some people here aren't friendly lol!!! Either message, or inworld!!!

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Talk to Caroline Takeda as well. She runs an Escorting agency. And OMG, it's so great to chat with another one of us here in the forums!!! Here we are few and far between!!!

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