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Hook up with him, then when he gets started put on a freenis and click “swap”.

It is so upsetting to see some in SL be so rude and downright scary. I had to spend a bit of time calming a good friend down after her Escorting session turned unpleasant, and her client started to pu

I’m glad you were there for your friend to support her. And I guess it makes me antisocial, but I have a zero tolerance policy for putting up with people in a SL who desire to treat me crummy or

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14 minutes ago, rushingaround said:

The only real service provided is convenience.  Some guy doesnt want to have to look around the nude sex beach for someone

I disagree, as some like to pay. That is their kink, as mine is get paid. And we as Escorts support the SL economy. We need to maintain ourselves constantly, so we are always buying clothes and shoes. Of course there is a lot of free sex in SL, and we don't charge our close friends.

As well, some of us can't afford to buy our outfits, so we depend on making $ in SL. We choose to do it by Escorting, because we enjoy it. Of course, I can't speak for everyone. 

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2 hours ago, Tarina Sewell said:

obviously you just wanted attention and bring some business to your escorting scam. 

 

2 hours ago, Bagnu said:

What point would I have to do that??? I don't solicit here. I make what I am in SL known here, so there are no misunderstandings. I don't want clients from the forums.

I have to say I kinda agree with @Tarina Sewell on this.  In almost every post you do there will be "I'm an escort" somewhere in it.  Looking for a skybox - "I'm an escort".  Alts - "I'm an escort".  Making friends - "I'm an escort".  

If you aren't trolling these boards looking for clients, why is it so important to make that announcement?  Who cares what you do in SL!  I manage events and I don't feel the need to announce that, just so people know what I am known in SL for.  

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I'm new, and I wan't people to know what I am so they understand my perspective. I'm not here in the forums for anything other than to discuss what I experience in SL, and express my opinions about that. Period. 

I repeat that I'm an Escort because I don't know who knows, and they have a chance to understand my perspective. I don't want to get clients here in the forums. I want to discuss things. And if anyone says they learned about me in the forums, I will refuse them!!!

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Honestly, this is all going way off topic. I felt bad for my friend because she got RL scared. And I have been too. We should all be here to have fun, and not hurt each other!!!

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I just know I will be banned someday for protecting a friend. It will be worth it.

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15 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

Honestly, this is all going way off topic.

we'r on page 6 ! ... thats even pretty late for side tracks.

 

6 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

I just know I will be banned someday for protecting a friend.

if you present it as you did in this thread i don't see any reason to get a ban, some others see the subject a bit different doesn't make your view wrong.

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I respect everyone and their views. I certainly will argue the points, but in a civil manner.  I see no reason why people call each other scammers or ridiculous in their thinking.

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59 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

I respect everyone and their views. I certainly will argue the points, but in a civil manner.  I see no reason why people call each other scammers or ridiculous in their thinking.

I'm actually wondering why 99% of your posts start off with words along the line of "I'm an escort".  To me, it seems that you're just trying to advertise subliminally, IE getting around the forum rules.

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8 hours ago, Bagnu said:

I already did, and she's fine now. We bought outfits for each other for a laugh. Our styles are different, so that was fun!!! Then we Escorted like that lol!!!

apparent not too broken up in RL to go out and escort again. 

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11 hours ago, Bagnu said:

Claiming victimhood??? ??? My friend RL panicked!!! This was not roleplay from her!!!! Just like my anger at the guy isn't roleplay either!!!

Nobody is saying any of the behavior (neither yours, nor your friends or the rude client) is roleplay. I have no idea why you think anyone said or implied that. Nobody says your friends reaction wasn't real. BUT there is more between the poles of "its just roleplay" and "I'm having a panick attack", when reacting to things happening in Second Life (or other, virtual spaces). And questioning if its good or reasonable to panic because of someone being a dick in SL is exactly pointing at that. 

I'm with @Sukubia Scarmon on that one. Situations like this will occur again, given enough time.

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To be fair, I said something about SL escorting all arguably being roleplay, because you're not really having acrobatic sex in a four-poster bed in a suite at Claridge's. I certainly wasn't referring to abusive behaviour and reactions to it, though. 

 

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I'm really sorry that your friend had a bad experience. That is never fun. It is wonderful that you were there for her as you were. It can be easy to freeze up in situations, but perhaps help her learn the tools in place so she can avoid this type of upset in future. Knowledge is power.

I'm a very shy, anxious and sensitive person to a large extent. I know this and realize at times I need to step away from Second Life for my own well-being because it isn't healthy to let someone upset me to the point I'm having an anxiety attack. Sometimes it is hard to remember that, but I force myself to remember because if I don't I'm at fault too for my own upset to an extent. Not just the toxic person causing the mayhem. The toxic people intent on making someone miserable in both worlds don't deserve that kind of upset. I think your friend needs to take a step back and realize this for her own mental health because she is letting a person have control over her who should never have that type of power over her.

Life is a learning experience in either world. We learn from past mistakes and actions hopefully coming out the other side better than where we began. This experience could be a positive outcome by her making an active decision to put her own well being first by using the tools at her disposal when situations like these occur in future. Closing out of Second Life for awhile to take a breather to calm down from toxic situations is important if people can upset her this much in a virtual world. There is no shame in admitting one's humanity and necessity to space ourselves sometimes from bad situations for positive mental health.

This is coming from someone who has been in therapy most of my life, and who will be in therapy for the rest of my life. I'm so thankful for that because making sure we take care of our mental health is so important. Taking care of ourselves is also realizing that we must help ourselves for others to successfully help us too though.

 

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18 hours ago, Bagnu said:

A true Escort doesn't do this purely for the money. I don't.

Are you also a Scotsman?

Escorts are paid for time and company at the very least. If you do this, you're an escort (why do you always cap it up?). I'm sure that it helps to enjoy it, as with any job, but it isn't some mystical Jedi-like calling whereby only the pure of heart can be true followers. 

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16 hours ago, Alwin Alcott said:

this is a escort

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the job of escorts in SL is often just a euphimism for a total different job in real.

O.M.Gor🙀  how DARE you! THIS is an Escort.
Yours is the wrong colour and doesn't come from the right place. 😖😡
Which are words we haven't heard much over the last few hundred years....👈🥴

ford-escort-1896.jpg

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1 hour ago, Maryanne Solo said:

O.M.Gor🙀  how DARE you! THIS is an Escort.
Yours is the wrong colour and doesn't come from the right place. 😖😡
Which are words we haven't heard much over the last few hundred years....👈🥴

ford-escort-1896.jpg

I had an 84 ford escort wagon.  Got it used and it had an AM radio only in it.  Back then i got an FM converter

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