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4 hours ago, KanryDrago said:

No I really don't think there is

If someone has a nut allergy and insists on working in a peanut packing plant and then goes on record saying the factory should be nut free and people point out they are being ridiculous is that victim blaming? SL hands you powerful tools called log off, block, tp away and ar to deal with dicks. No one here is supporting people being dicks. We are merely saying you have the tools to deal with them and if people used them guess what dicks would disappear because they cant come and be dicks because no one sticks around to play with them. The ones claiming victimhood are part of the problem just as the dicks are.

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Hook up with him, then when he gets started put on a freenis and click “swap”.

It is so upsetting to see some in SL be so rude and downright scary. I had to spend a bit of time calming a good friend down after her Escorting session turned unpleasant, and her client started to pu

I’m glad you were there for your friend to support her. And I guess it makes me antisocial, but I have a zero tolerance policy for putting up with people in a SL who desire to treat me crummy or

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23 minutes ago, rushingaround said:

Sex fantasy roleplay is not for everyone.  Have to be able to improv in a moments notice when things don't go as well as planned or set limitations in your profile.  There are other things to do in SL to make money

A true Escort doesn't do this purely for the money. I don't.

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5 minutes ago, Drake1 Nightfire said:

So, the only question that hasnt been asked is: Does your friend talk to her customers before hand and tell them what is and isnt going to happen and what is and isnt permitted to happen?

Seriously???....We ARE Escorts!!!!

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58 minutes ago, Sukubia Scarmon said:

How do you want to help her? What is your solution?

I already did, and she's fine now. We bought outfits for each other for a laugh. Our styles are different, so that was fun!!! Then we Escorted like that lol!!!

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2 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

I already did, and she's fine now. We bought outfits for each other for a laugh. Our styles are different, so that was fun!!! Then we Escorted like that lol!!!

obviously you just wanted attention and bring some business to your escorting scam. 

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2 hours ago, Bagnu said:

 

I think rushingaround doesn't understand that Escorting is a valuable service in SL Some people are RL disabled, and we help them feel human again. We are entertainers as well, and deserve to be paid!!! Also we keep the SL economy going. We are high maintenance, and we put the money back into rentals, clothes, etc, etc...

 

I am sorry I just have to wtf at the bolded part.....you make them feel human again? Because the poor dears obviously need to pay for it because else they would have no sex in SL because they as DISABLED in RL.

I have plenty of disabled irl friends in sl and they do just fine getting sex without having to pay for someones "valuable service". Frankly I think you need to get over yourself that is the most absurd statement I have read ever on the forums,

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4 minutes ago, Tarina Sewell said:

obviously you just wanted attention and bring some business to your escorting scam. 

What point would I have to do that??? I don't solicit here. I make what I am in SL known here, so there are no misunderstandings. I don't want clients from the forums.

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3 hours ago, Roderic Ravenhurst said:

Oh man, what the heck is going on here?

Look, your analogy is flawed in the sense that you're assuming this "person with a peanut allergy" isn't aware of the dangers of working in a peanut factory. So are you assuming that SL escorts aren't aware there are jerks out there? I mean, they ARE aware.

This is like a person with a peanut allergy trying to avoid peanuts as best as they can, but there are peanuts in everything! Because peanuts are cheap and versatile and no one feels that that should change because such is life. 

So, instead of holding those who would treat SL escorts like trash because they just happened to throw them a few lindens, it seems you're putting the entire onus on SL escorts to protect themselves. And if that protection fails, *obviously* they weren't trying hard enough?

I dunno, man, that sounds like blaming the victims to me.

And if the same happens to you? If some sort of relationship turns sour in your SLife and you can't be the calm, cool rational that you think you are, will you finally understand then? I guess that's what it takes, I suppose. 

Here's a solution, maybe listen to these folks and not hand wave their feelings away just because they happen to be more emotional types. 

No my analogy isn't flawed

People know their are huge dicks in sl, they know they don't handle dicks well and it affects them hugely rl. They still choose to come here, they then further choose to use sl in a way that vastly increases their exposure to dicks. Their friends then come hand wringing to the forums whining about the fact their are dicks in SL.

That to me is exactly the same as someone who knows they have a nut allergy going to work in a peanut packing factory

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3 minutes ago, KanryDrago said:

No my analogy isn't flawed

People know their are huge dicks in sl, they know they don't handle dicks well and it affects them hugely rl. They still choose to come here, they then further choose to use sl in a way that vastly increases their exposure to dicks. Their friends then come hand wringing to the forums whining about the fact their are dicks in SL.

That to me is exactly the same as someone who knows they have a nut allergy going to work in a peanut packing factory

 

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4 minutes ago, KanryDrago said:

I am sorry I just have to wtf at the bolded part.....you make them feel human again? Because the poor dears obviously need to pay for it because else they would have no sex in SL because they as DISABLED in RL.

I have plenty of disabled irl friends in sl and they do just fine getting sex without having to pay for someones "valuable service". Frankly I think you need to get over yourself that is the most absurd statement I have read ever on the forums,

Some of us like to be paid, and some like to pay.  That is our niche.

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2 hours ago, Madelaine McMasters said:

Only the friendless are invulnerable here.

I wish that were true in all cases. It isn't. For some of us being friendless makes us that much more vulnerable.  Think about that for a bit. Think about the desire to have friends and how vulnerable that can make someone who has none.

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1 minute ago, Bagnu said:

Some of us like to be paid, and some like to pay.  That is our niche.

Which has nothing to do with being RL disabled you just cast a huge aspersion on every disabled person in SL....they need escorts else they cant get sex

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1 minute ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

I wish that were true in all cases. It isn't. For some of us being friendless makes us that much more vulnerable.  Think about that for a bit. Think about the desire to have friends and how vulnerable that can make someone who has none.

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44 minutes ago, Sukubia Scarmon said:

I don't get it, and it's frustrating me so much...

When I tell someone to get help, it's ALWAYS from a place of compassion. Because ultimately, I'd want them to be well. That's not effing victim blaming. Why do people view that as victim blaming?! I don't understand it. Getting help isn't mutually exclusive with the OTHER PERSON being to blame. As in, the one who DID the crap. And of course, bad behaviour should have consequences. That's obvious to me? And telling somebody to get help isn't mutually exclusive with being there for someone and listening to them. 
It's a long term solution, because you CAN NOT controll how others act, and will never be able to.

Telling someone to get help isn't necessarily the same as helping if you aren't offering suggestions as to what kind of help to get and where.

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Just now, Bagnu said:

Please keep your replies civil, and discuss the issues accordingly. 

There have been no uncivil replies perhaps you meant "only reply if you agree with me"

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Replies that say I'm scamming, and saying what I say is ridiculous are not civil. 

I started this thread to show how some can be very uncivil, and frighten people in RL. Not to get clients here. If someone feels what I say is incorrect, then I expect them to discuss that appropriately. 

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4 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

Telling someone to get help isn't necessarily the same as helping if you aren't offering suggestions as to what kind of help to get and where.

I'd call that incomplete advice, or halfassed, but not victim blaming, tho.

Also, I'm not american, I do not know where and I don't know about the healthcare systems and stuff enough to say "Yo, just go to the next best therapist that specialises in XY!" because that may not be an option from a financial perspective. 
But ultimately? Therapy. It depends on some factors, not all forms of therapy are helping everyone the same. Some do better with behavioural therapy, some with deep analysis (I'm certain they have different names in english. >_< ) I'd start with looking what kind of mental healthcare I can get with my insurance and try to get in contact with someone. Make a first appointment and ask them questions, and try to see if they'Re cool with internet usage (some therapists I had seemed to think the internet is the devil, and friendships formed here aren't real. those have not been therapists of mine for long, lol.), and explain the situations, and reactions. Usually they should be able to tell a person what sort of therapy would be benefitical.

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7 minutes ago, Drake1 Nightfire said:

So, not going to answer? Not all escorts Discuss their allowed actions beforehand.. Way to make a sweeping declaration.

Sorry. I can only speak for myself and my friends. I don't know what every SL Escort does.We share notes, so I know what my friends do, but not beyond that.

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36 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

I wish that were true in all cases. It isn't. For some of us being friendless makes us that much more vulnerable.  Think about that for a bit. Think about the desire to have friends and how vulnerable that can make someone who has none.

You're right Silent, let me rephrase.

Only the friendless can be invulnerable here.

Hugs.

 

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