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I owned a Ford Escort station wagon for 16 years. I had to wait for 13 or so of those years before I had the opportunity to spring the stupid joke that was forever in the back of my mind. While at a c

Well escorts can be classics these days and worth a lot.  You should probably do your homework before you buy   

ask them?  ..."are you a hooker" .. please post the replies...lol

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5 hours ago, Orwar said:

   No, because the so-called 'feminists' go rabid when a girl dresses in too revealing a manner, and need to lecture them straight or drop a hurtful comment.

Ah now that makes sense of the comment I got about being  middle aged Barbie......maybe that's what was going on..........

Reality check................this is not real life. 

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58 minutes ago, carolinestravels said:

Am I now officially the Riley Reid of Second Life?
/me laughs

Nah, she's probably got a long way to go before she's in your league!  😆  (was basically just the first "modern day" porn star to come into my head really., but if you'd like to claim that title? works for me, lol).

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31 minutes ago, BelindaN said:

Ah now that makes sense of the comment I got about being  middle aged Barbie......maybe that's what was going on..........

Reality check................this is not real life. 

reality check... to some they do take sl serious as if its just an extension of their normal daily life like facebook or any other social media platform.

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9 hours ago, Elena Core said:

Not only in SL: in both world we should be wearing whatever we choose, without anyone judging. It is the 21st and still someone people think we are after something when wearing specific outfits

Maybe the issue is not in the clothes, but in the watcher's mind 

Uh huh.

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11 hours ago, carolinestravels said:

Many of my regular clients are partnered 🤣
 

Yeah, but the man said it's just been a week.  Give him another week.  lol  (just kidding)   I know I get bored with things real quick in SL that is the main reason I don't want to partner plus I like my freedom.  Partner in real life, maybe, but not SL.  

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On 6/7/2020 at 9:36 PM, Lindal Kidd said:

I don't think there is ANY word for "prostitute", including the word prostitute, that isn't at least somewhat demeaning.  Which probably says something about humanity, but I'm not sure what.

I've been having a think about that too.  But you know, back at the beginnings of the evolution of Homo Sap. the girls that got the protection of powerful guys are the ones who's kids got to survive.  So you could say we are all descended from, ummm, gang molls? 

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25 minutes ago, Fiona Atheria said:

I've been having a think about that too.  But you know, back at the beginnings of the evolution of Homo Sap. the girls that got the protection of powerful guys are the ones who's kids got to survive.  So you could say we are all descended from, ummm, gang molls? 

In primitive societies the women provide most of the food, so you could say that men / children with good women providers are more likely to survive?

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Hi Everone!!!

I'm an SL Escort, so let me try and answer your questions. They may not apply to everyone, but they do also to my friends.

Indeed we are paid for our time and not sex. The sex part is free. It mostly a RL legal issue, as it is more difficult to be charged with prostitution. It carries over here, as some of us worry we could be breaking RL laws. I don't do this at all in RL though, and wouldn't. For must of us it's a safe and fun way to explore a fantasy that we wouldn't in RL. We don't make huge amounts of $L, but it pays for our outfits, and more.

I also feel that we SL Escorts provide a valuable RL service. There are also a lot of disabled people here in SL, and we help them feel human again!!!

Syo is totally right. We hang around clubs and dedicated places. As for standing there,  we're not just waiting...that's a poor way to do business. I watch my nearby avatars and radar, and immediately IM any new guy who pops in. I also IM the other girls who look professional. Not for sex, but to share tips and make friends. I also friend guys who I have long conversations with. It's not all about the $L!!! I immediately friend any client, in case one us crashes, so I can refund their money (prorated). I have also been unexpectedly paid after a long conversation with a guy, simply because they enjoyed the conversation.

I have a VERY long friends list lol!!!

Being an SL Escort is way of life here in SL, not a job. It's not worth it unless you actually enjoy it!!!

We are also very insulted by requests for free sex from anyone (unless a good friend)!!! It makes us feel worthless, as we spend a lot of time, effort and $L to be who we are!!! 

Me, I'm not a hooker, but an Escort!!! I wear the title proudly!!!

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If you get sex from an escort it's because it's what they want, not because you paid for it. 

It all boils down to hookers are paid for sex and escorts are paid for their time/companionship. Which makes a legal difference.

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I continue to disagree.  If a guy hires an "escort", either in RL or SL, and she begs off sex, he's gonna want his money back.  Loudly and insistently.

Not that there's anything wrong with being an escort (or for that matter, calling yourself a hooker) in SL!

Having said that, I've run across at least one very classy establishment whose "courtesans" do offer high class companionship, in addition to sex.

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2 hours ago, Lindal Kidd said:

I continue to disagree.  If a guy hires an "escort", either in RL or SL, and she begs off sex, he's gonna want his money back.  Loudly and insistently.

Not that there's anything wrong with being an escort (or for that matter, calling yourself a hooker) in SL!

Having said that, I've run across at least one very classy establishment whose "courtesans" do offer high class companionship, in addition to sex.

Then he should have hired a hooker instead of contracting for companionship.

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I don't beg for sex....And I've NEVER been asked to give their money back. If I felt I couldn't satisfy, which has been rare, I give it back immediately!!!

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5 hours ago, Lindal Kidd said:

I continue to disagree.  If a guy hires an "escort", either in RL or SL, and she begs off sex, he's gonna want his money back.  Loudly and insistently.

Not that there's anything wrong with being an escort (or for that matter, calling yourself a hooker) in SL!

Having said that, I've run across at least one very classy establishment whose "courtesans" do offer high class companionship, in addition to sex.

It's a fine line.  I've always heard the person is paying for the companionship say to go to a function when he (let's say he) doesn't have anyone to attend the function with and doesn't want to attend the function alone.  Then, sex can be negotiated later for extra money but it is not included because the sex money is not included in the main money.  It has to be negotiated as an after fact, which probably would help it look more "legal" in real life.

However, I think it should be legalized.  It's an old archaic and stupid law from religion.  It's the persons money, who are we to tell people how to spend their own money?  It should have been legalized a long time ago.  

In SL, it's their business and it's my business how I like to try on different styles of clothes.  My clothes mean nothing though.  I think cybersex is boring as is emoting.  I want the real life thing.   I'd do the afk thing in SL where I am not there just my avatar is but that's it.  

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I just read up on this. A RL Escort would no more negotiate $ for sex than I would in Second Life. The sex is ALWAYS free!!!

Escorting in SL is usually about exploring a fantasy.  We don't make enough to make it RL work. Other girls who do voice or cam are crossing from SL to RL  i know some who have regretted it, and also know few who also do this RL, so it's another way of making $. I don't recommend voice or cam to anyone who doesn't do this RL. I have close Second life friends in both groups, but I only know a few who actually do this as a true living in RL though, and they are all equally nice!!!

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22 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

I just read up on this. A RL Escort would no more negotiate $ for sex than I would in Second Life. The sex is ALWAYS free!!!

Escorting in SL is usually about exploring a fantasy.  We don't make enough to make it RL work. Other girls who do voice or cam are crossing from SL to RL  i know some who have regretted it, and also know few who also do this RL, so it's another way of making $. I don't recommend voice or cam to anyone who doesn't do this RL. I have close Second life friends in both groups, but I only know a few who actually do this as a true living in RL though, and they are all equally nice!!!

While I liked your post for your honesty to share, I thought the actual opinion might vary on that.  So, I searched it myself by typing in what is the difference between an escort and a hooker and found this:  I'm getting varied opinions.  The sex is supposed to be free as an addition but is not a requirement.  It can consensual or it can be "gift money or gifts" to make it appear legal.  

An escort can be a companion or someone who would entertain you whenever there are some special events available wherein you would need to have someone who will accompany you. A prostitute is someone who will provide sexual services to people who would be paying for it. ... They will not always provide sex.

https://www.google.com/search?q=what+is+the+difference+from+an+escort+as+opposed+to+a+hooker&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS784US784&oq=what+is+the+difference+from+an+escort+as+opposed+to+a+hooker&aqs=chrome..69i57.12273j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

 

 

I think with most things "internet", there are varying opinions though.  

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Sorry, by sex I meant sexual services. I don't really know about RL though. I don't talk about this kind of stuff with my friends who do this IRL. I was paid to do an interview with an inworld mag about my experiences as an SL Escort, so it wouldn't be fair. Plus I don't care...They're my friends. Everything else might be fake, but our friendships are real!!!

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Six pages arguing about whether prostitutes and escorts are the same thing... lol.

An escort provides time for payment.

A prostitute provides sex for payment.

Escorting is legal in the US. Prostituting is not, except in Nevada (minus six counties and the state capital).

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3 minutes ago, Beth Macbain said:

Six pages arguing about whether prostitutes and escorts are the same thing... lol.

An escort provides time for payment.

A prostitute provides sex for payment.

Escorting is legal in the US. Prostituting is not, except in Nevada (minus six counties and the state capital).

There's an echo in here. xD

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33 minutes ago, Selene Gregoire said:

There's an echo in here. xD

I confess I didn’t read all six pages... Did you already say the exact same thing? You did, didn’t you? 

... goes back to arguing with racists... 

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OK, let's make this clear. I AM a real SL Escort. I provide TIME for payment. The sex, if there is any, is free. And there isn't always sex. But here, it's not about accompanying someone. somewhere. It's about chat when there are no sex beds, couches, etc. etc. involved. This may involve sexual RP, or simply friendly talk. All my friends are the same, whether they be SL or RL Escorts.

All of you are arguing a fine point that's best suited for a lawyer. I'm telling all of you how it actually works!!!

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