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This thread has gotten me thinking about my former partner. We often would set our Avis on a piece of adult furniture and then talk about all kinds of things other than sex. We would also participate in group chats, sometimes dropping subtle hints about what our Avis were doing. It was a lot of fun, neither of us were real comfortable with the whole emoting thing, but for us this was an intimate moment.

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@LeGustav

Did you try Cafe CumCum?

The waitresses there  are available to be used for that.
They do role play (emoting) but are open to pose balling with some dirty talk too. A few can be used AFK as well (Tandy, Bex).

The policy is to serve every guest (even the ugly ones and noobs). It's free, but they do appreciate tips when you finished.

Here the website:
[NSFW] https://cafecumcum.com/

Alternative:
Just hire a hooker. You get a nice choice at a place called "Street Whores".
I could suggest some of my girls, but they are maybe a bit expensive for a bit of pixel porn.

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Why not just meet some women in game and share your interests. Wouldn't it be a lot more enjoyable for you? I'm almost certain you could strike up a conversation or two, like you have here. Make some friends that eventually will share the same urges. Then both of you would have at least a mildly small connection and or attraction. Most likely a repeat performance if you're any good. Probably a much more satisfying experience for the both of you.

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On 6/5/2020 at 4:56 AM, Jordan Whitt said:

Not volunteering, just making some harmless comments.  

Personally the pure poseball thing does NOTHING for me.  It's the equivalent of watching cartoon porn, which also does nothing for me.  That being said, I have been involved with guys who were into the "poseball action" thing and I enjoyed some shopping on MP whilst they rubbed one out, jumping back every so often to type out a quick "Oh that's so hot baby".  Worst would be the 2+ years of same furniture, same position, same listening to him moaning on voice.  At least he was quick!

For me, if there was someone on the other end, I liked some interaction.  I'm all about the shared emoting. 

Oh and I agree, you have a very handsome avatar.  Good luck!

Far be it for me to point out the obvious, but if your on voice with the guy and he is moaning in your ear and your on market shopping then there is way entirely bigger issues then what pose balls your using. lol I'm just saying. Lmao!!!!🤣😂😁😎

On 6/5/2020 at 9:13 AM, PixieGirrrrl said:

You had me nodding along in agreement with you, until you mentioned "moaning on voice"...then I was like...ok, that bit does actually sound hot. 

If you're bumping pixels with the same person for 2+ years though, you GOTTA mix it up! If there's one thing that SL isn't in short supply of it's sex location options! No excuse for same furniture or same position. 🤭

I agree be it SL or RL you have to spice it up a bit for any long term relationship to work. You don't even have to go to different sex locations or even change furniture. Sometimes you can just do different things then the same old normal routine and mix it up a bit. Even kinky role plays can add a bit of spice to a relationship depending on what your in to. lol There is certainly no shortage of options there either. lol🤣😂😁😎

On 6/5/2020 at 9:36 AM, Jordan Whitt said:

I made the mistake of replying to the age old "so what is your fav position?" question.  From then on it was ALWAYS on the swing with the greatest version of that position at our home.  I was too nice to say anything...till he caught me at a 'shall remain nameless' sex club on the alt he knew was me with someone else.  He hadn't "touched" me for 6 months and I WAS BORED!!!!  Although what he was doing there too at a time he is usually not online....well I have my suspicions.

I am willing to bet the fly on the wall had got a good laugh out of that conversation. Lmao!!!!🤣😂😁😎

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Lol, i didn't realize that "no emoting" meant pure poseball in this thread!!! I've had clients who want almost that, and it's such a turn off for me.I love chatting while we're having sex!!! What I don't like is excessive 3rd person emoting, describing the scene. I had a client once do that throughout the whole session, and I couldn't talk to him it all. It was actually creepy. And it's usually me who's expected to emote..but I like mixing it with regular (sexy and kinky) conversation!!! And it's incredibly kinky forcing myself to type when I'm ultra horny, teetering at the edge....

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On 6/6/2020 at 2:59 PM, InventedSuicide said:

I always thought emoting was describing stuff as if it were happening in a story book, no?

That's exactly what it is. The defintion is mostly important to those of us who Escort or dance at a club, as we have to learn the do's and don'ts of emoting properly. It does help in a forum discussion to know the exact meaning, but I understand how someone could be mistaken though, if neither are their careers in SL!!!

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7 minutes ago, Bagnu said:

That's exactly what it is. The defintion is mostly important to those of us who Escort or dance at a club, as we have to learn the do's and don'ts of emoting properly. It does help in a forum discussion to know the exact meaning, but I understand how someone could be mistaken though, if neither are their careers in SL!!!

yes. emoting is the act of describing the action that is taking place and often done in third person where as rp'ing is the act of talking about what was is being done and how makes you feel and is often done in first person. and poseballing is just pixel bumping with little to nothing of either.. usually just cartoon porn where the poseballer gets to be their own star in some fantasy porno to their liking.

sometimes you combine all three to make a really good scene.. use of animations and emoting and rp'ing..

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22 minutes ago, Drakonadrgora Darkfold said:

yes. emoting is the act of describing the action that is taking place and often done in third person where as rp'ing is the act of talking about what was is being done and how makes you feel and is often done in first person. and poseballing is just pixel bumping with little to nothing of either.. usually just cartoon porn where the poseballer gets to be their own star in some fantasy porno to their liking.

sometimes you combine all three to make a really good scene.. use of animations and emoting and rp'ing..

Exactly!!! 

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One of my home girls on here gave me the best emote ever. Inma share it with you ladies so you can use it the very next time you get a really bad lay in SL. You ready? Wait for it.....wait for it......wait for it!!!! It's, "OMG! OMG! These animations are so good!!". lol Your all very welcome. Lmao!!!!🤣😂😁🤪😎

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17 hours ago, Velk Kerang said:

One of my home girls on here gave me the best emote ever. Inma share it with you ladies so you can use it the very next time you get a really bad lay in SL. You ready? Wait for it.....wait for it......wait for it!!!! It's, "OMG! OMG! These animations are so good!!". lol Your all very welcome. Lmao!!!!🤣😂😁🤪😎

Wait, We never...did www....Nahhhhhh!

:P

hehehehe

 

 

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On 6/26/2020 at 8:09 PM, Bagnu said:

 The defintion is mostly important to those of us who Escort or dance at a club, as we have to learn the do's and don'ts of emoting properly. It does help in a forum discussion to know the exact meaning, but I understand how someone could be mistaken though, if neither are their careers in SL!!!

Bullsh**.  Understanding emoting is not "mostly important to Escorts and Dancers".  Emoting is a vital part of many people's sexual activity in SL, regardless of what profession they are in, and even for those of us that have never worked a day in our SLife - and even to some people's non-sexual SLife.  IMO, everyone in SL should have a basic understanding of emoting, even if they don't do any RP or SLexy activities.

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1 hour ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

Bullsh**.  Understanding emoting is not "mostly important to Escorts and Dancers".  Emoting is a vital part of many people's sexual activity in SL, regardless of what profession they are in, and even for those of us that have never worked a day in our SLife - and even to some people's non-sexual SLife.  IMO, everyone in SL should have a basic understanding of emoting, even if they don't do any RP or SLexy activities.

In her post before that one, I get the impression she doesn't really understand what and why people emote.  She doesn't like "3rd person emoting"?  Pretty much what melting is imho.

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On 6/26/2020 at 4:29 PM, Bagnu said:

What I don't like is excessive 3rd person emoting, describing the scene. I had a client once do that throughout the whole session, and I couldn't talk to him it all. It was actually creepy. And it's usually me who's expected to emote..but I like mixing it with regular (sexy and kinky) conversation!!! 

In the context you mentioned, that's your job.  To engage as the client would like.  If someone is paying for slex, usually all they're wanting is to climax so assume their hands might be busy and that they want YOU to do all the work. If they're paying for conversation as well as slex, I'm sure that would be obvious.  

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8 hours ago, RowanMinx said:

In the context you mentioned, that's your job.  To engage as the client would like.  If someone is paying for slex, usually all they're wanting is to climax so assume their hands might be busy and that they want YOU to do all the work. If they're paying for conversation as well as slex, I'm sure that would be obvious.  

It depends.

In my little experience as a sex worker, people who pay for it do often have certain expectations in the quality of sex play. 
Most (not all) do expect erotic and imaginative emoting and they typically do the same. Those also expect the escort to do all the pose adjustments and choose the right animations to form nice sequences (fitting the emotes and in an realistic order).

Others are the opposite. They hire an escort because they do NOT want to emote and can not find a partner for that as most non-professional girls actually do expect a bit more than animations and chat. There is always bit of dirty talk involved, but without the role play part. But those are a not that many really.

I literally never had a client who wanted silent poseball hoping (except when afk-ing).

Basically we serve what they can not find elsewhere and that is different for each client. "usually all they're wanting" does not exist in our profession.
The individual wants and desires are very diverse.

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3 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said:

It depends.

In my little experience as a sex worker, people who pay for it do often have certain expectations in the quality of sex play. 
Most (not all) do expect erotic and imaginative emoting and they typically do the same. Those also expect the escort to do all the pose adjustments and choose the right animations to form nice sequences (fitting the emotes and in an realistic order).

Others are the opposite. They hire an escort because they do NOT want to emote and can not find a partner for that as most non-professional girls actually do expect a bit more than animations and chat. There is always bit of dirty talk involved, but without the role play part. But those are a not that many really.

I literally never had a client who wanted silent poseball hoping (except when afk-ing).

Basically we serve what they can not find elsewhere and that is different for each client. "usually all they're wanting" does not exist in our profession.
The individual wants and desires are very diverse.

Pretty much what I said.  To engage as the client would like.  

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It is definitely our job to engage the client as they would like. They are paying for our services. That's why I refer them to one of my friends or co-workers if I don't feel I can fulfill their needs. Also, pleasing a client involves personal satisfaction. If I don't feel I pleased them (which is fortunately very rare), I am displeased with myself, and go on to learn more from myself and others in our way of life. Being a good Escort requires study. Reading articles on human sexuality is a big part of that. And simply doing what excites us personally is another.

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On 6/27/2020 at 4:33 PM, Ceka Cianci said:

Wait, We never...did www....Nahhhhhh!

:P

hehehehe

 

 

OMG!!!! Lmao!!!! I was hoping ya didn't remember. *Coughs.* No that wasn't me. lol You got me good. lol I know I am late on the response, but I just caught this now since I recently been back on the forums. That was a good one. I so totally walked right in to that. lol *Hi5!* Lmao!!!!🤣

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