xVallerie Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Hello(:I Joined on Second Life this May 5 (And Still a Noob ^^)I Already Knew The Most steps of Second life, I Love Exploring Here on SL.. Lots of Things to do.. But No one to Talk To Eh :\, And I Feel So Lonely.. Since I Got No one to Talk To.. I'm a Pretty Shy person So I Dont Really Like Asking Peoples, I Feel Dumb When i Ask someone Cause I'm afraid If I Talk to them and They'll Say Something mean like Go Away xDSo Who Else Needs a Friend? Cause I Do :matte-motes-not-even:I'm a Playful, Shy, And Sometimes Hyper :matte-motes-bashful-cute-2:So Will Anyone Be My Friend? Someone Who Will Help Me, Explore With Me And Interact?Right Now I'm So Bored, Grabbing up Freebies.. :matte-motes-asleep:If you would be My Friend,Add me I'm xVallerie (: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majestic12 Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Welcome to SL! I am only a couple of months old, but have been to many places and made many friends and admirers in my short time. At first, I did not know where to start...I did not have a game plan on what I wanted to accomplish on SL...I just dove into the water. First off, you might want to write up your profile so people who click on you will know you a bit better. Second, add pics of your avatar as a profile pic. Third, go to places that interest you, join a few groups there. Shop around at a freebie marketplace and get some clothes/apparel, a new skin/shape, anything to make yourself look less like a noob and more like fitting in. So far, this is all looks and profile I am speaking of, in my experience how your avatar looks and how your profile is seen determines how much social interaction goes with first contact. I am normally a sociable person in RL and SL, i received more responses when I rid myself of my noob status. In terms of places to go, SL area that pique your interests may not be popular with other people, so many places may be devoid of any life (been there, done that). Try to go to places like clubs if that is your scene, malls, concerts if you like that. Go to destination guide and look under the pull-down menu "Popular Places" It might be hard to teleport to due to many people being there, but its a start. I met many friends and dates at those popular places. Have fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xVallerie Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 Thank You Majestic12. I Guess its Time To Make Myself More Social, Your Tip is Very Helpful Imma Go Explore Grab up Cool Freebies, Go to Popular Places & Write more Infos About me In my Profile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majestic12 Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Add me as a friend, I will go exploring with my new sister and friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuda Oh Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 You can add me, as most of my friends are women or women avatars. I could possibly show you a place or 2 and even introduce you to some of my friends. I have one who likes finding amusement rides lol. I think she would enjoy having a new friend to go exploring with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone Emerald Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Maybe look for some very basic building classes - or classes in any subject that interests you. Happy Hippo has some good beginning building classes. One of the best teaches the tabs on the Edit menu. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayiefai Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 hello im new here can u help me play second life ?? :matte-motes-smile: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippie Bowman Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 xVallerie wrote: Hello(: I Joined on Second Life this May 5 (And Still a Noob ^^) I Already Knew The Most steps of Second life, I Love Exploring Here on SL.. Lots of Things to do.. But No one to Talk To Eh :\, And I Feel So Lonely.. Since I Got No one to Talk To.. I'm a Pretty Shy person So I Dont Really Like Asking Peoples, I Feel Dumb When i Ask someone Cause I'm afraid If I Talk to them and They'll Say Something mean like Go Away So Who Else Needs a Friend? Cause I Do :matte-motes-not-even: I'm a Playful, Shy, And Sometimes Hyper :matte-motes-bashful-cute-2: So Will Anyone Be My Friend? Someone Who Will Help Me, Explore With Me And Interact? Right Now I'm So Bored, Grabbing up Freebies.. :matte-motes-asleep: If you would be My Friend,Add me I'm xVallerie (: Hi XVallerie! I would be glad to be your friend! Just friend me in world. There is a place that comes to mind also if you are looking to chat. Try Help People Island. Lots of friendly and helpful people there, and a great free store! Woot! Peace! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveAngeL Lyre Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Hello vallerie and welcome to Second Life. My feeling is that you will make many friends with this topic. Feel free to add me in world if you wish. Also my advice is that you don't need to be shy neighter to afraid to talk to new people. You never know where and under which conditions you will find your best friends. So no more sad emoticons, only happy ones. We are all here at first to have fun! Try to enjoy and all of use we are here for everything you need in your first SL steps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valerie Inshan Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Hi Val, welcome to SL (and to the forums). Majestic gave you good tips. If you enjoy music and dancing, clubs are good places to make friends. I met almost all the friends I have in clubs (and some in this forum too, /me winks at Hippie). In general, smaller clubs are more friendly (and less laggy). I would suggest you pick up some according to your taste in the Destination Guide and visit. And, don't be shy, type in local chat with others, friendship offers will come very quickly! I wish you a happy SL life! :smileyhappy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xVallerie Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 Thank You Valerie, I Knew i could Trust in all of You ^^ I'll Go Start Shopping for More Cool clothes & Get ready to find some Friends to Explore & Interact With Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valerie Inshan Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 You are most welcome! And remember: HAVE FUN!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippie Bowman Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 That a girl! Be like my lady! She is most happy when shopping! Sigh. LOL! Don't forget to friend us inworld, so you can yell if ya get lonely! Far out and groovy! Peace! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valerie Inshan Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Oh, I forgot, if you need cool LMs for shopping, IM me inwolrd (I am not often online though), I will send you some. And for clubs, just let me know what kind of music you like, I have quite a few too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xVallerie Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 Ahaa I Cant Thank Enough x] You Guys are Real Awesome, It may be a Little Tip But its alot of Help ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majestic12 Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 *accepted your in-world friendship request* Welcome to SL and my "sisterhood" friendship list! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DjWhiteBoi Posted May 21, 2011 Share Posted May 21, 2011 Welcome to SL! I've only been here a lil over a month. It's a lot of fun, most peple you meet are sooo nice. I stumbled across a site for SL that is identical to facebook but strictly for SL users. Check it out if interested www.2ndhub.com I'm actually learning to DJ currently to increase my social life, but there's alot more paths you could take. I just love my music :matte-motes-sunglasses-1: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miguelangel55 Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 I'm new too, not much time to learn the ropes. Work and famiy stuff make it a challenge to put more time in, at least for now. I started around May 15. Let's be friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Finley Verlack Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 Hey I'm new too! Although it says i join over a year ago, just finally had time to get on here and start exploring! You can add me too as a friend, i will gladdly go shopping with you! Also so far clubs have been the best spot for me. Good luck! Look forwarding to shopping with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashy Calcutt Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 hey i'll help you out if needed... just search for me i m always willing to help new people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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