Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 Um. This is all beginning to sound a bit stalkerish, perhaps? I get the people are becoming annoyed and/or confused about her comments, but perhaps speculating about, and actually investigating her publicly on the forum is not a great idea? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillith Hapmouche Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 😄 ... as if such a weirdo would be worth the effort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beth Macbain Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 28 minutes ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: This is all beginning to sound a bit stalkerish, perhaps? I think calling checking out her public profile in SL "stalkerish" is devaluing how vile stalking actually is. You were the one who suggested she may not realize that SL is a virtual world so I checked out her profile. Nothing more, nothing less. If she actually hasn't been in SL, knowing that would be useful for responding to her comments and questions, and helping her understand what SL is. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 (edited) 20 minutes ago, Beth Macbain said: I think calling checking out her public profile in SL "stalkerish" is devaluing how vile stalking actually is. Oh puhlease . . . seriously? My actual words, which you even quoted, were "a bit stalkerish." That's hardly conflating threatening or vicious stalking with what people have been suggesting here. If you prefer, though, why don't I just say it's all "a bit mean-girlish"? We're speculating about her in the third person, which is, to begin with, a little rude. And talking among ourselves, publicly, about who she may be, what her background is, and so on. And how we can find out more. How is this likely to look to someone new to the forums? It suggests that if you don't fit in here, or are a bit "different," or maybe even don't speak English well, you are going to be "talked about," and people will find out whatever they can about you, and talk about that too. Sorry if this seems an overreaction on my part, but this is a bit high school, it comes across as cliquish, and it's not welcoming. It's not a big deal, but it's still kind of crappy. Edited May 8, 2020 by Scylla Rhiadra 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beth Macbain Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 Okay, @Scylla Rhiadra... I sometimes forget who actually rules these forums. Forgive me for stepping out of line. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 2 minutes ago, Beth Macbain said: Okay, @Scylla Rhiadra... I sometimes forget who actually rules these forums. Forgive me for stepping out of line. Oh, where is that eye-rolling reaction when I really need it? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 I'm not going to apologize for checking the profile. LL created profiles specifically for people to check them out. No different than me checking out the profile of someone that says something to me inworld. If someone comments on the confusing posts by questioning whether the person had ever logged in, I don't think there is any problem is stating whether or not the person had logged in if the information is publicly available. Public information is PUBLIC. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 Just now, LittleMe Jewell said: I'm not going to apologize for checking the profile. LL created profiles specifically for people to check them out. No different than me checking out the profile of someone that says something to me inworld. If someone comments on the confusing posts by questioning whether the person had ever logged in, I don't think there is any problem is stating whether or not the person had logged in if the information is publicly available. Public information is PUBLIC. The issue is not checking on her profile. That's why profiles exist. What is rather uncool is talking and speculating about her in the third person here, publicly, as though she wasn't posting in this thread. You really don't get why talking among yourselves about her this way, as though she weren't here, and then thinking of ways of finding things out about her, instead of asking her, is kind of ugly sounding? I sometimes find it rather unsurprising that new posters find this place intimidating or cliquey. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexis Kiyori Posted May 8, 2020 Author Share Posted May 8, 2020 💩 ... this thread really got out of hand. I think a lot of people misinterpreted the question I originally asked. Is there a way to delete a thread 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 2 minutes ago, InventedSuicide said: 💩 ... this thread really got out of hand. I think a lot of people misinterpreted the question I originally asked. Is there a way to delete a thread You can ask a mod to do so by ARing it yourself. Sometimes they do . . . and sometimes they don't! But it's worth a shot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 10 minutes ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: You really don't get why talking among yourselves about her this way, as though she weren't here, and then thinking of ways of finding things out about her, instead of asking her, is kind of ugly sounding? Given how confusing pretty much all of her posts here have been, then Nope I do not have any problem with the rest of us discussing it. Write me off as a bad person or write the behavior off as bad. Either won't bother me. Wouldn't be the first time someone didn't agree with something I did - and definitely won't be the last. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 18 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said: Write me off as a bad person I haven't, and wouldn't. We all sometimes do sort of unfair or crappy things, Lil -- it doesn't make us crappy people. I seem to recall you, quite correctly, calling me out a while ago over an unfair humorous aside I made in another thread. You were right, and I apologized for it. But the fact that I said it doesn't make me a nasty person. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cristiano Midnight Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 This thread certainly took a turn. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 3 minutes ago, Cristiano Midnight said: This thread certainly took a turn. Like vinegar and milk. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregorian Chant Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 4 minutes ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: Like vinegar and milk. At least vinegar and milk will get you buttermilk and paneer cheese. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillith Hapmouche Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 Milk and orange juice is much nicer... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 Just now, Gregorian Chant said: At least vinegar and milk will get you buttermilk and paneer cheese. Funny you should say that. I had to make my own buttermilk the other day for a recipe. I don't think I'd know what to do with paneer, as I don't really like Indian desserts (although I love love love curry). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beth Macbain Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 (edited) Never mind. It's not worth the argument. Edited May 8, 2020 by Beth Macbain Idiocy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregorian Chant Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 7 minutes ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: Funny you should say that. I had to make my own buttermilk the other day for a recipe. I don't think I'd know what to do with paneer, as I don't really like Indian desserts (although I love love love curry). Saag paneer, matar paneer, and paneer korma. You can even stuff them in a dosa, a thin savory crepe. Great, I just had lunch and now I'm hungry again. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 23 minutes ago, Cristiano Midnight said: This thread certainly took a turn. Not unusual around these parts. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neilina Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 Methinks this thread was kind of doomed from the beginning. Perhaps a better title might have been.. " Shapes, are they worth buying? " To say that any product or service "should" be free is going to spark a feeling of entitlement or choosing/beggar to the poster by many reading such a post. It's like saying water should be free and then demanding they put it in a bottle and stock it in your local store as well. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 (edited) redacted because it is indeed not worth the argument Edited May 8, 2020 by Scylla Rhiadra Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 27 minutes ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: I haven't, and wouldn't. We all sometimes do sort of unfair or crappy things, Lil -- it doesn't make us crappy people. I seem to recall you, quite correctly, calling me out a while ago over an unfair humorous aside I made in another thread. You were right, and I apologized for it. But the fact that I said it doesn't make me a nasty person. This would be true, but then you are a better person that some running around here. That is also why I gave the option of 'bad person or bad behavior'. Some will choose the former. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 5 minutes ago, Gregorian Chant said: Saag paneer, matar paneer, and paneer korma. You can even stuff them in a dosa, a thin savory crepe. Great, I just had lunch and now I'm hungry again. Oh wow, ok. This! https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/matar-paneer Also, you can put it in pakora!!!!!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blaise Glendevon Posted May 8, 2020 Share Posted May 8, 2020 I think this is an AI experiment. Or else, I'm really high in isolation. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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