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I would suggest before getting too far into BDSM in SL that you first:

1. Join groups such as Blacksilks/Omega, Adult Community Education Society, Chapter 2, Houses of Jana, and Unrestrained Desires.  

2.  Attend lectures and discussion groups hosted by these groups.  Get to know people, see what they have to say, learn from their experiences.

3.  Join groups such as Open Collar, Fire Flower, and a support group for the viewer you are using.

4.  Read up and educate yourself on RLV and collars (e.g., Open Collar, and Peanut No. 9).

5.  Join the Cambridge Oxbridge University group and take their classes on Avatar Safety.

As tempting as it is to just jump in, you should approach this as though you would in RL, with your safety in mind.  And while some precautions we may take in RL might not apply or seem unnecessary, being aware of them, at least, will help provide you with some foundation to explore this.

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Be very careful about sharing any RL info. My simple rule is don't. With long standing friends I may share bits and pieces, but always be cautious.

Finding a dominant match takes a long time. If you jump in fast it probably won't last. Take it slow and it can work well.

 

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