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How far is to far with a Master

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It sounds like he has more problems than just being a bad 'dominant'.

Weak and whiney is never a good look on a Dom/me.

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On 3/28/2020 at 4:40 AM, estherbyrne said:

It is about control and I put distance between us that I found my own place.

Am happy to be free to have a life again and do things I enjoy on second life 

This right here is what matters the most. That you are happy and able to enjoy your time on sl. The fact you were giving up so much to be with him was wrong on so many levels. No relationship is worth that ever. No matter if is a sub a pet a slave a doll or robot.

A relationship should be about mutual enjoyment, not one sided ever.

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From the RL BDSM scene in the 1990s, a few comments:

  • It's a head game. You're playing with the mind of your partner.
  • Being a top is hard work. To do it really well, you need the timing for stand-up comedy.
  • Being a sub is not for the fragile.
  • The scene attracts losers and the obsessed. Neither are much fun.
  • People who call themselves "Master" are usually losers.

 

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I've been part of the SL BDSM scene for a long while, normally I'm just lurking and listening in on lectures as I find them,  I don't have any kind of Dominant (I attract dumbinants instead.) As my owner currently.

But, I would see wanting to know about every minuscule detail about your SL that is private to you to be a breach of contract imo.  I'd rather not enable that person and allow them to stalk me in SL which would eventually force me to leave if things went sour due to harrassment.

This is something that was talked about in a lecture recently, it was on online saftey for s-types, which what it ended with is what I agree with;  There is a chance of it going sour and you get stalked and harrassed until you leave 

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Posted (edited)

https://sites.google.com/view/drakonas-musings/about/personal-feelings-about-bdsm

I'll just leave this here for anyone else that is curious about bdsm in sl and rl. I hope any of what is on there helps anyone else that has any questions or concerns about what is right or wrong in their D/s realtionship.

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