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What does an SL relationship mean to you?

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On 12/14/2019 at 6:01 AM, Drake1 Nightfire said:

 The third one actually showed up at my house

W...T....F.... That's so stalkerish. I'm glad you got that sorted out. Terrifying which is why I keep my RL as private as possible. I've put my RL in a bubble no one can touch and will die trying. That includes dating. As hard as it can be sometimes, (we've all met someone special. Don't deny it :P ) I try not to date in SL because I know the person behind that avatar has real emotions too and I don't want to play with them.  

 

On a more lighter note SL has helped me combat my social awkwardness. It has helped soften my heart up to people and it has helped expand my mind and taught me to be a little less selfish. I'd be lost without it 🤣 🥰

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My SL relationship is having a friend and lover in SL to spend time.  Even though We might talk about RL we are not going to connect in RL.  My SL relationships isnt something I would ever do in RL.  For example I do not have open relationships in RL or have sex with multiple partners 

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To me, my SL friends are real, and are part of my RL; actually, I've met the closet ones in RL

When it comes to romantic relations, I was briefly involved at the beginning with someone and somehow it was transferred to RL, but more like a friendship, since he was already married and we both lived in different countries.

After that, I met my RL partner and became a couple also inworld. He knew of SL and helped him create an avi, although he's never been an avid player. Living with him, and having the life we've built together, I could never be with anyone else in SL. But that is just my personal experience.

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On 12/12/2019 at 3:53 PM, Orwar said:

     If I find the right girl in SL some day, I may well go through a marriage ... A dark, epic marriage that will be more akin to a funeral, with possible hints of Devil worship and ritualistic sac-- I mean. The cake is going to be awesome, black and baroque! And I already have a collection of hearses to serve as the carriage!

 

Years ago, 2007-2008, I ran a wedding business in SL.  My favorite all time wedding was like this.  It was a 3 way lesbian vampire wedding.  I had a demon perform the ceremony in a dark baroque cathedral.  I wish I could find pictures of the ceremony.  They were lost in a HD crash.  I have no idea if any of the ladies are still in SL. 

On another note, when meeting with couples to plan weddings I'd get hit on by the groom every other time. It was kind of depressing and one reason I stopped doing weddings. 

My own relationship will be 13 years this next weekend.  We keep it SL only but of course we do talk about RL things.  She's my best friend and I love her dearly.  We live in different time zones (and continents) 7 hours apart but it's worth the effort to be together.

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Well mine at the moment is off at school but I actually met him on imvu and converted him to SL a few months before he had to go focus on his RL. We are RL as we talk all the time on the phone and on discord and msg each other daily.  ( So he's around even if his pixels are not ) We do things too when he has time like movies and the like. I have known this man for 12 years and I do see it going beyond the internet and we hope to meet up this summer. 

My horror story relationship is on imvu and will probably stay there ( I hope ) where he's nuts and repeatedly threatened to come down to the states ( he's in Canada ) and blow my brains out because I walked away from his toxic, cheating, Narc ass.  And yes I did report all of it screens and all to the Police. 

Relationships online are wild cards.... honestly I hope this one lands where I want it to :3 

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I found this discussion very interesting. 3 years ago I was in a very particular moment, sentimentally, I needed to "go out", I had read about SL but I had not immediately given importance ... then I entered. What is love for me in SL? I think it all depends on our family and cultural backgraound. I tend to have an exclusive relationship as a couple, but I'm not jealous, if I trust my partner I can't be. I have boundaries, I don't want a partner who enters completely in my RL, but that everything that happens in sl remains in sl. I've been "married" for two and a half years, he is like me, we don't want RL contamination, but after a long time he knows something about me RL, even a photo of me, and I something about him, but only what he wants to tell me . We are doing well. We complete ourselves, I crazy and passionate Italian he from the States a little grumpy and serious but who supports me in everything. I know of people who have moved from an SL relationship to a concrete RL, but it is not my case or that of my husband, but never say never ....
We all know that in RL we are not these statuesque maidens and our charming men Gods fallen from the sky, but this does not matter, at least for me as it is inside, the richness of the heart and feelings. After all, this is what we are looking for ... or not?

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