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Hi all,

I know this question has been asked to death, but I have searched the forums and google, and every place I go (believe me I have been all over the place!) is empty.

Where does everyone go to socialize? I know places if I am looking for sex, I know a few clubs to hit, but I am looking for a few places I can go and just hang out with people. I find that no matter where I go, it is either empty or no one is talking/talking to me.

I'm looking for something to do on SL, because honestly, it is getting super boring, and I know it shouldn't be!

TIA!

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Hmm... places I've met people to just chat with are parks (Tempura, Authors point), themed sims (eg New Babbage, New Toulouse), blues clubs (Fogbound). I like fairly quiet easygoing places, and I generally chat in IM. Depends on your interests and your style of socialising. 

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Recently I've started going back to the Shelter whenever I'm bored and my usual haunts are empty. For a place geared towards newbies, it has a hell of a lot of us oldbies hanging around and chatting all the time. There's a DJ event every day at 1pm and most days also another at 6pm or 7pm (can't remember which, but either way, too late for me). But I have never even once found it empty.

 

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On 11/23/2019 at 1:56 AM, vixiestardust said:

Thanks everyone. I will check out the recommendations. It's so weird that in a place so social I have a hard time finding people to talk to.

I don't think it depends of the location. It just depends of the people. I notice that some people are here but don't want to have more friends. They are here for ... Other purpose. They should have lot of friends or they are here for 'work'. I am not here for 'work' I work in RL for me (I will shock lot of people) SL is a game. I play here. If I don't play with other people I play alone. Of couse it is not as fun playing alone. But socialising a a game. You can loose. (You try to make friends and you cannot) or you can win (you meet a really nice person with whom you are fine with).

 

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On 11/21/2019 at 7:32 PM, vixiestardust said:

Hi all,

I know this question has been asked to death, but I have searched the forums and google, and every place I go (believe me I have been all over the place!) is empty.

Where does everyone go to socialize? I know places if I am looking for sex, I know a few clubs to hit, but I am looking for a few places I can go and just hang out with people. I find that no matter where I go, it is either empty or no one is talking/talking to me.

I'm looking for something to do on SL, because honestly, it is getting super boring, and I know it shouldn't be!

TIA!

Ya know, I've had that very same experience, every sim I go to for a social life is empty. Even the most crowded sims I can sit in for hours and no one will talk to me. Yes, it's getting super boring for me too. If I IM someone I get one word replies and they trail off. It should not be like this.

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22 hours ago, AnnHerrick said:

Ya know, I've had that very same experience, every sim I go to for a social life is empty. Even the most crowded sims I can sit in for hours and no one will talk to me. Yes, it's getting super boring for me too. If I IM someone I get one word replies and they trail off. It should not be like this.

Feel free to IM me anytime. I socialize with as many people as I can in Second Life :)

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