What Women Really Think of Men

[Asadora Summers 275]

On 11/11/2019 at 1:00 AM, Krave4it said:

When my friend asked me to join sl ..he said once you join ..you will crave for it more...silly thought came to my mind as I was choosing a name..that's how I came up with Krave4it...I tried Krave4it simply with that thought in mind...smiles..thanks for asking..it was kind of you to want to know the definition behind the name.

Don't worry, cause '...later in the year..' we'll have the option to change last names from resident to something else.... either this year... or next year... but this was like three years ago now!

(Sorry, I couldn't resist - whenever I hear 'name change' the '...later in the year' always comes to mind - lol

[Asadora Summers 275]

On 11/11/2019 at 1:00 AM, Krave4it said:

When my friend asked me to join sl ..he said once you join ..you will crave for it more...silly thought came to my mind as I was choosing a name..that's how I came up with Krave4it...I tried Krave4it simply with that thought in mind...smiles..thanks for asking..it was kind of you to want to know the definition behind the name.

Don't worry, cause '...later in the year..' we'll have the option to change last names from resident to something else.... either this year... or next year... but this was like three years ago now!

(Sorry, I couldn't resist - whenever I hear 'name change' the '...later in the year' always comes to mind - lol

 

Anyway, to answer the question about what this woman (In SL and RL) really thinks of men. I'm gonna guess it's SL men in this instance. 
When I get an IM from a male avatar - 'Hi'. I'll look at the profile and respond with a 'Hi' back. Usually this is just a hi and run.
If I get an IM from a male avatar that says, 'Hello! You are beautiful!' And to see that they are on the other side of the sim or not even in the same sim at all, I do not respond.
If I get an IM from a male avatar that says, 'It's taken me quite a while to read your profile. I'm impressed with the amount of info you've put in there.' Then I'll respond with the polite words of 'thank you for taking the time to read it.' Then I'll read theirs, but usually this is shortened by the next IM from the person, 'You also seem to be full of yourself.' Which I just block them. 
If I get an IM from a male avatar with just an emoted smile, I either tp out or just ignore them. 

In my experience it's really important how the first IM is delivered. I've learned over my almost 14 years that either a 'Hi' or an emoted smile usually means they want to get the sexy. If they comment on your profile too much then more than likely they'll just want to bring down an intelligent woman or 'troll' them, I think it's what the kids call it nowadays. 
So to end, what I really think of SL male avatars: Take them with a grain of salt unless they can show effort. 

[Roxy Couturier 2,505]

On 11/12/2019 at 9:40 AM, Sukubia Scarmon said:

It bothers us. Why do we have to explain ourselfs and discuss this over and over again? That gets tiresome after a while.

One could say it's the "Hi, how are you?" of forum topics... 💀

[Selana Lemon 8]

To me it's less "oh lord he wants sex" and more "oh lord he wants me to carry a conversation with his blank profile butt"  lol

[AyelaNewLife 2,933]

18 hours ago, Selana Lemon said:

To me it's less "oh lord he wants sex" and more "oh lord he wants me to carry a conversation with his blank profile butt"  lol

Edited November 30, 2019 by AyelaNewLife
Fixed the link

[Eruka Nova 670]

In a nutshell I think men are amazing. Always have, always will. Now a couple of details. :3

I have worked as an escort in SL and other platforms for yearsss. Been a camgirl IRL too. That has thought me a lot about men and the human nature in general.

I've learned that men can be much more primal but also that there are always exceptions, as with all things.

I am in a SL/RL relationship although I never looked for it. I always have mixed RL/SL since voice and cam brought more Ls in the adult industry and because why the heck not. I've always been one very extra risk taker. 

Before I met my perfect guy and retired from my work, I met about 10 people IRL from SL alone. All of those started with "hi hru". I always have and always will be exceptionally polite and well mannered even with the trollest of trolls. You never truly know who's behind the keyboard - maybe they're just drunk or high and goofing around. lol

I've learned to be very flexible with my judgements of other people. Since I'm very much committed to my man now (because monogamy is what works best for me) I will still reply to each and every IM, even sexual ones and kindly end them with "proudly points to her collar" or "happily taken in both worlds  i truly hope you find yours as well" orrrr something along those lines. 

Kindness is everything. Most people seem to be acting so savage all the time in this day and age. We forget to be kind to one another sometimes...

*mew* that's alllll. now i'm gonna go for a catnap :3 

[Afrodisiax 12]

Can anyone really know the answer to this question? It was entertaining reading the responses of those who think they know what women think of men.
How can anyone possibly know what billions of women think, from a multiple of cultures, backgrounds and countless personalities?

Under the best circumstances all one can discern is what does a woman think who he or she is presently conversing with. (The only thing that really matters)

In my experience and humble opinion, the ONE, will probably not be what you expect. Unless you're a lingerie salesman, trying to speculate what women think might be pointless.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Kweopi 418]

23 minutes ago, Afrodisiax said:

Can anyone really know the answer to this question?

 

 

 

 

Better question: What Men Really Think of Men ? How they want to be as MEN? Answer to that and some of them will be surprised

[Zak Westminster 49]

The "Hi.......how are you" (or even worse "how r u") has to be the most unoriginal and cringeworthy opening line in all of SL.

Men and ladies - just be a bit more original if you want to have an actual conversation. Starting with "Hello <put avatars first name here>, I hope you do not mind me interrupting your thoughts but I wondered if you would like to chat and maybe have a coffee from that pretend barista yonder?"

If nothing else this will put a little bit of a smile on their face - before they refuse.

Edited December 24, 2019 by Zak Westminster

[Lureo 43]

men are crazy are always thining of sex. Men are not safe. Men are bad.

[Love Zhaoying 12,380]

27 minutes ago, Lureo said:

men are crazy are always thining of sex. Men are not safe. Men are bad.

 

[Selene Gregoire 10,265]

6 hours ago, Lureo said:

men are crazy are always thining of sex. Men are not safe. Men are bad.

[Seicher Rae 9,754]

7 hours ago, Lureo said:

men are crazy are always thinking of sex. Men are not safe. Men are bad. (FIFY)

It's not this:  

Or this:

Probably this:    

And just LOL this: 

Edited December 27, 2019 by Seicher Rae